The kids would love to be with him...but you know they'll end up with me (which is what I want, but maybe not them)...I don't make enough to keep my house....I'll probably end up selleing it after I paid his cousins about 25 thousand dollars to fix it up, not including the other 30 thousand I spent on material...now his house is vacent and he's announced he's moving into it....I sold my other house and used the $$ to fix this one....I hate him and I don't even know what my question is...but I just want him gone asap!!! Because he makes me feel like crap and I need to move on...........
2007-11-26 16:59:25 · 7 answers · asked by 123..WAIT! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take some time and heal. Use the time to empathize with and communicate with your children -- don't run their father's name into the dirt around them -- be loving and supportive.
Sometimes by being loving and supportive, you love and support yourself. Wish you healing. Take care.
2007-11-26 17:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some days will be worse than others. You will feel sad for awhile. But just remember, it's like anything else you've gotten over before. Close this chapter in your life and look forward. Start building a new life for yourself today and that's an exciting thing for you to look forward to.
2007-11-27 01:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grieve, Get Mad and Heal. Everything passes. You'll be ok - look on the bright side, despite how your feeling at least your opening up yourself to the possibility of something better!
2007-11-27 01:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by beffie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this has been coming for a while. evn if you havent been directly dealing with it, your through the first few steps. Be careful with the kids thing- if theyre of a certain age they can decide which parent they want to live with barring any living condition issues.
2007-11-27 01:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to remember something. the relationships are from you, you are not from the relationship. A true relationshp makes one feel loved and wanted and not crap. You need to get on with life....love will come to you..just keep the faith
2007-11-27 01:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by pari 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww honey your be fine.. felling sad is normal.
2007-11-27 01:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by girl19 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i feel ur pain. God bless.
2007-11-27 01:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by itsme 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋