its all about a game!!!!!
2007-11-26 16:50:22
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answer #1
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answered by mickey 2
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This is a common question asked regularly by a lot of people.
Quite frankly they dont think before its too late. I think sex is an urge men feel and when the feeling is there, all sense and sensibility eludes them. Men will always look at other women and admire them and even have thoughts towards them. Thats the way they are made. Women hate that because they feel threatened by it.
Unfortunately some men simply cannot contain themselves and posed with a freebie, they are more than likely to grab the opportunity, not even considering the consequences. The ladies are there who will do all they can to allure the men. Ironically the bible says that there is nothing new under the sun and harlots always were there, only when they were caught they were stoned to death. These days its different and easier. You would not dare this in a place like Iran or Iraq, because surprisingly there they still stone you and the harlot if caught. I think thats good. They deserve it.
You have to make sure that the food at home tastes good or you will loose your man to another. Thats for sure. Especially today!!!
WHen the men realize what they have done their shame makes them either bold and run off with the lover or they are repentant. A wife has to be forgiving if she loves her man and work harder at her marriage. ANd no it is terrible to have to live like that for a woman especially after years of giving herself to her man wholeheartedly to be betrayed and swopped for another. By the way men who run off at the expense of their families usually regret it.
there are no pat answers. Just pray over your marriage.
2007-11-27 00:57:10
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answered by uniquechild 5
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usually in relationships where a man would cheat on a guy is a situation where the girl clings unto the guy more then the guy clinging unto the girl. generally in the world, people believe in patriarchy, this is also partially christianity's false. men believe they are the 'head' of a relationship. sometimes this belief opens the door to 'cheating'. they get away by lying either because, the girl really just dont know, or the girl isnt willing to break up and doesnt do anything about it
2007-11-27 00:51:40
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answered by Steven W 2
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Not all men cheat only the lying ones do. My first husband would talk to my family and tell them how stupid people are for cheating. He would go on and on. How did our marriage break up hmmm he cheated (no lie). He was a liar when I first married him they were little white lies. If a person can lie like that then they can go out and cheat as well. I learned from my first marriage and now am married to an honest man who hasn't lied to me.
2007-11-27 00:50:56
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answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6
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The same reason why women cheat on their husbands and think they can get away with it.
#1 lets not assume that all men or ONLY men cheat on their spouse.
#2 one reason when lust takes over the brain stops working and when you lie it will eventually come up someday.
Here is one very simple reason why men and women should never cheat:
It is already so hard to get along in a relationship why add trouble and problems to something already hard that you have to work at everyday?
2007-11-27 00:54:41
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answered by caliguy_30 5
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I think that those who cheat can rationalize 20 different reasons for what they're doing...that is, if they admit to cheating at all. Some will do cheating things, but not include intercourse...and then they say that they didn't cheat at all.
They think they can get away with it because there are some women out there who are willing to cheat with them, thinking they will leave the wife. This, however, doesn't happen too often.
2007-11-27 00:56:58
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answered by Anonymous
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They cheat for about 100 different reasons, welcome to marriage. Did you ever think maybe we want you to catch us so we can finally end the marriage nightmare we are in? Before you do anything stupid here are a few facts you should know:
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage sucks
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want honest answers from a man that doesn't
lie anymore.
2007-11-27 08:45:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Some women trust too much,they are naive,some don't care and some know it.They let their husband get away with it,because they do it themselves.But if a woman like me,who makes it clear to their husband,what will happen if he cheats,that man will never free willy to another woman.All the women have to be just a little bit careful.A cheating man gives sooooo many sighns and signal that you just can't miss it.
2007-11-27 00:51:55
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answered by avavu 5
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Because some men walk around with the misconception that just because a woman loves them.. they will believe every word that comes out of their mouth. Now, as to exactly why they cheat.. well, there are many explinations on that one. My best offer is that they are simply thinking with the wrong "head".
2007-11-27 01:25:51
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answered by Christine 5
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Cheaters never think that their spouse will find out. Since marriage is based on trust and love, it is easy for a cheater to throw in a few lies to cover the truth. And honestly, some women would rather be in the dark and not ask too many questions because it is just too painful to go there.
2007-11-27 00:59:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Because men feel bored with their relationship and they need their ego to be satisfied again. They get away with lying and with reversing the case, just to get away. Its just a scapegoat thing. so they will never be called the lesser or the "bad one"
2007-11-27 01:50:07
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answered by flower_roxy101 2
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