Marriage & Divorce - 26 November 2007

What do you do when everything you've worked for is going wrong?
I am currently in a school a junior in college and manage to maintain my gpa up to a 3.23 (although I could have done better but I've been dealing with depression which affected my performance tremendoulsy). However this semester things haven't been going as well as i've hoped. I am not doing good in any of my classes (except one in which I think I may get a B+). There is one class I know I am definitely failing. Nothing I do works, and I have never had to work so hard to get Failing grade in return. It is really depressing me, my ambition and motivation just went down the drain. I want to quit because I don't see the point in me going to school if that's all I can give. Usually I would say that I would never quit but at this point i have no hope. It's already the end of the semester and the time to drop the class has already passed. I don't know what to do. I am crying hysterically right now because I feel like an idiot with no brain.

2007-11-26 08:25:12 · 5 answers · asked by . 3

My and my wife are seperated..she was physiacally abusive and I was guilty of dragging out arguments. I never touched her back!
I am guilty of calling her a few names after she hit me thats all. She left me and I find myself second guessing myself when I know that it wasnt really all me. I spoiled her and tried so hard when we were togther to show her somethimg better. I took good care of her and was a good provider. She left because she felt dissrespected! During hard times I found out that she would call her ex boyfriend and talk to him as friends (so she says) I only found out by answering her voicemail while she was in surgery. I never would have found out another way. This guy choked her, sold drugs and disrespected her also gave her hep C, But she knew about it and voluntarily slept with him bc she says she loved him. After I found out about him I felt that I was in competition for my marriage which made me insecure about what we had.

2007-11-26 08:20:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you take it as a pill or did you disolve in water before taking? I am already familiar with topical items such as zestra etc.

2007-11-26 08:17:37 · 5 answers · asked by Someone S 1

a man is only as faithful as his options...

2007-11-26 08:15:12 · 18 answers · asked by kisses 2

Cuz you never know what youre going to get?

Or is it more like a big bland peice of boring because you always know what youre going to get.

2007-11-26 08:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by male.confused 2

short version I recently broke up with my bf. but the other day I irresponsibly drank too much and needed him to take me home. He agreed to do that well he didnt want to come in so i got mad and kept hitting him in the car. he finally obliged and we ended up having sex. well I was regretful the next day and felt horrible about the whole situation. I offered my apology but was still drunk at the time


I dont want him-and he is trying to move on. I feel horrible about the situation. because he drove over 40 miles to pick me up and i broke up with him. and i never hit him. I feel like I need to apoligize soberly. but I dont want to drag the whole communication on. I sent him a brief text also but I really feel tormented by the whole experience.

2007-11-26 08:11:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am about to move abroad with my husband - he's currently over there at the moment getting things ready. He likes to know everything that i am doing and gets upset if i don't tell him everything or go anywhere without permission. We've had a few big rows about this, always ending with me apologising promising to try and be better &what he wants. But I'm just to damn disorganised. He wouldn't let me go with my sister and (female) friend to the cinema last week because it was night. But i got really cross with him first and said they'd think he was was a jerk if I told the truth, so I lied to protect him (said I was sick) & I rearranged for an afternoon. Now he's mad I still went and says because of my behaviour he will do 'his duty' towards me but not to expect him to show his love for me or treat me as he did before. He also said he would 'get what he wanted' something he'd promised would never happen. And he no longer cares how I feel about things as he thinks I don't care about

2007-11-26 08:11:06 · 17 answers · asked by Help Me 1

2007-11-26 08:09:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know if a guy is going to cheat, he's going to do it regardless (and the same goes for women who cheat). But, it seems like any time I hear about a married man cheating, his wife is pregnant. Back in my single days, I dated 2 married men who had pregnant wives, BUT, I had no idea (they lied about it) and I broke it off as soon as I found out. (I would have never even thought about it- had I known the truth from the beginning.) With this experience alone, it has made me nervous about my own husband. I don't seem to worry about it at all, except when I'm pregnant.
Now, I just found out that my best friend's sister is pregnant by a married man, who has a pregnant wife back home (military). When my best friend told me, I was speechless. It makes me furious.

So, now it has me thinking again.... are men more prone to stray while their wives are pregnant?
Or, are my past personal experiences all coincidental?

2007-11-26 08:03:33 · 22 answers · asked by Nina Lee 7

I have a great wife and son and a wonderful job, besides that what is the purpose of life?

2007-11-26 08:03:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

When a couple with young children find that one member is no longer interested in the other what should the remainding person(husband) do? Ignore it, suck it up leave or attempt to reconcile? aka Hulk Hogan

2007-11-26 08:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by WILLIAM S 1

Everytime I checked his stuff, I found a lot of pictures I drew that I gave him, whole lot of letters I wrote to him, and pictures of me. I thought he gonna threw away but he didn't. All that stuff he kept are from our high school year.

2007-11-26 08:01:22 · 18 answers · asked by lil_shanshan113084 2

2007-11-26 07:56:52 · 23 answers · asked by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6

When one partner starts making decisions based on irrational superstition and the other bases them on logic and reality, it's bound to cause problems, no?

2007-11-26 07:55:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who can answer this question , we know what we want and when we what it but now who will share it with us, me, you ? so will you marry me , never seeing my face hearing my voice.

2007-11-26 07:47:58 · 25 answers · asked by foxy_blue00 3

I want to file for divorce. As a matter of fact, I paid the filing fees and I have a form to mail to her so she can sign it and send it back to me. The only problem is I have no idea where she lives or what her phone number is. Is there anything else I can do? I already spent $374 filing fees. I don't want to hire a private investigator or spend anymore money than I have to. Can I tell the court that she abandoned the marriage?

2007-11-26 07:45:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a woman 46 who likes to be alone. From a very early age 15, i was kicked out of home & began living alone. I have less than a handful of very close friends but they are lifelong, 30 plus years. My children are grown up. Husband says he does not know anybody like me, he loves to soicalize, can easily spend 4 - 5 hours with people, poss longer. For me it is a strain, i just really am happy to be on my own, i don't care if i see anybody or not, if someone visits i am always aware of time & always relieved when they leave. I like to eat alone, i have a problem when invited to others for meals, i feel i suffer.
It has been that bad that i know i would enjoy to eat alone in a public toilet than to eat with others. I dread visitors in general, i now live overseas so don't see my very close friends only yearly. but i really do love the peace, freedom of being alone, i love to eat in peace & enjoy my food 100%, with others its 10%. Husband said i should not have got married.

2007-11-26 07:36:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask because I found out my husband has some strange issues that I cant accept.  I would leave him for them, but we have three kids together.  I am a stay at home mom, and  he has a great paying job.  I worry that if I leave now, I have nothing, and risk losing custody of my kids to him, I have just started my own home business that isnt profitable yet, but I think it looks pretty good in the future. I also know that right now I am with my kids 24/7, and can keep a close eye on them. If I have to share custody they might be with him for weeks at a time without me being able to help them. He has never hurt any children, but his sick habits include fantasy stories with children. I've checked with the police and there is nothing illegal about it, but its gross!! I've talked to him about getting counceling and he wont. Is it wrong to stay with him so I dont have to share custody?

2007-11-26 07:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by crzyldy3 3

My husband went out yesterday with some old friends that came to visit us from out of state they left the house like around 1:30pm to visit another friend here in town and he had told me that he wasn't going to be late... well it comes to be that his friends wanted to stop at a bar and watch the football game that started at 8pm but he didn't get home until 3am... now he thinks i'm furious with him, but the truth is that i'm not as mad as he thinks, but i dont want him to know that! because then he'll think that he can do that whenever he wants... now what should I tell him when he gets home from work.... ;)

2007-11-26 07:31:57 · 25 answers · asked by Latinchik 1

If you're not married, how old are you now?

I'm 21, not married, never have been, and don't want to be until I know I've met the "love of my life." I don't want to just marry any ol' girl. I'm also still a virgin and want my sexual experience with my future wife to be making and enjoying the sincerest love, not just having sex.

2007-11-26 07:30:09 · 17 answers · asked by BlanketyBlank 1

where to start...ok i have been married for 5yrs. we have a 4 yr old.I feel like my husband and I are roomates. we NEVER do anything together.ive asked him for 5 yrs to take me to the beach for 1 night...not that much money. i wanted to do it on our wedding anniversary...to celebrate that...he wouldnt.
Ive asked him to take us to the beach for the day(our daughter, me and him) he wont/hasnt. keeps saying he will and wont. our daughters never seen the beach. my cousin offered to take us ab\nd he gets mad(my hubby) he wont go to the park with us....says its not free...it costs money to drive there (gas).
we never do anything together..as a couple or as a family. i do most of the things with our little one.
I am not happy and havent been. im driving a veichle thats not safe but that dosent phase him. he never wants to go see my family . EVERY holiday is with his. says we cant afford to go see mine.
gets mad if i go visit my cousin ....who is 5 minutes away.

2007-11-26 07:29:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was home by herself and took my truck to go pick up her pills, when I asked her where she went, my truck was moved, she said she was going to go get something to drink but changed her mind. I confronted her four times about taking my truck and at the time I confronted her I did not know about the pills. She swore on are children lives that she did not go anywhere! I was left thinking the wrost. I knew she had gone somewhere. I confronted her about the pills and she admitted having a problem with them but still denied taking my truck. After knowing about the pills for over a week I asked her about taking my truck again and at first she denied it but then said that she did take it and went to pick up her pills. I am having hugh trust issues. When I'm with her everything seems to be fine but when I'm away from her I can't stand it. How do I get over this horrable feeling! I love her more then anything and want so badly to trust her again. She will not seek cousoling until she is ready

2007-11-26 07:26:02 · 8 answers · asked by Max 1

she cramps up (her upper thigh) every time she has an o* ...that's how i know she can't be faking... eat your heart out Sally!(when harry met sally)

this happens in every position and it ruins it for me a bit, if we're in sync. (which happens more time than not).

what can i do to keep her from the cramps?

2007-11-26 07:25:41 · 16 answers · asked by KJ 6

we have no internet at home. please boys answer my question, from a boys point of view. is it me. The thing is we have a more than excellant sex life. he said it was curiosity, but wats he curious about? and is that just an excuse

2007-11-26 07:24:53 · 39 answers · asked by JESSICA H 1

during that time of the month. Is this something normal? Do you do it during the monthly visit?

2007-11-26 07:19:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well last weekend my bf of 3 years went to a strip club for a friends birthday. Didn't have a problem with that, and dont have a problem with him having normal female friends. However i did have a problem when he came home with one of the strippers numbers. I txted him yesterday and said that I wanted him to txt the girl infront of me saying he does not want her to contact him or vice versa then delete the number. Well he comes home and claims he already did it, i ask to see the txt he say he deleted it because he sent it early in the morning before i told him to show me & that his 'inbox' was full. I ask to see the contacts, and her name has been deleted & he says he swears honestly he has deleted the number. Do you think he actually has stopped txting her? Do u think its strange he did not have the txt to show me, or am i just bein paranoid? Please be serious, this is a serious issue to me.

2007-11-26 07:17:57 · 21 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1

Care to share you experiences? Thanks.

2007-11-26 07:15:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can there be such a thing as too many coincidences? In terms of a spouse cheating and things that have happened at the same time as the affair, but not related to the affair, even though it looks as though it were. Sorry if I confused any of you. Thanks for your help.

2007-11-26 07:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by PNJ T 1

I mean why do they feel one way one moment, and another the next? Please help me!!!!?

2007-11-26 07:13:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

This past Saturday was my cousin's weeding, she is not a closed cousin and her parents doesn't have good relatiosnhip with my parents BUT still all the family was going to be there.. So we went (hubby, I & 3 kids) We had just gotten there & my hubby told me something that offended me & got me really mad.SO I decide to leave the party cuz I was uncomfortable. After a big discussion over what he said..I decide to go back alone with my kids but he hide the keys & couldn't go back. Now I have a regret, yes it was his fault, but mine too. I should of stay at the party have fun and then discuss this back home. But I really got mad and offended that I knew I wasn't going to have any fun at all.. Time can't go back & now I regret leaving the party where my family was and had fun except us. I'm still mad with my husband but I still have this regret what can I do.I really feel bad & mad everyone was there except us.. Any advices on what to do or how to release these regret? Thanks in advance

2007-11-26 07:11:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous