Marriage & Divorce - 30 November 2007

parents are going to suit a case against the boy. if they suit a case then can we marry after that also or we have to marry before the case is registered. in this situation what I can do to save me as well as my would be husband?

2007-11-30 23:24:15 · 11 answers · asked by niki 1

i watched the Hulk TV show and watched how that couple interacted.... they were married for almost 24 years..... seems to me the wife is making a big mistake cause the Hulk absolutely adores her....... i too made a serious mistake like that when i divorced my husband just cause i was curious about the "single" life ..... the grass isn't always green on the other side.
what do you think about their split up ?

2007-11-30 23:15:35 · 15 answers · asked by jay 4

When one looks at so many turbulent relationships in marriage especially....?
how is it that when it comes to love relationships its rarely 'mind over matter'? why is it hardly ever a meeting of truley compatible souls? or do we change so much in a lifetime that people do not recognise eachother any more?

2007-11-30 23:03:34 · 4 answers · asked by ziffa 3

keep in mind he's got cash, status and educated.

2007-11-30 22:56:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

We got married about three years ago. I am lucky for my husband is as fond of me as he was at the time of marriage. A week ago he bought one of those books on how to have a happy marriage. He wants to keep our sex life exciting and suggested that we have sex at different corners in our house starting with the balcony, sofa, underneath the dinning table, up on the terrace, in the garage etc. Is is normal to have relations at these weird places?

2007-11-30 22:52:43 · 20 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1

2007-11-30 20:46:09 · 27 answers · asked by MONEY 730 2

2007-11-30 20:41:20 · 31 answers · asked by kimaam 3

2007-11-30 18:29:27 · 7 answers · asked by neha k 1

The relationship that took place 23years ago ended without abruptly without closure. His family decided to move in the middle of the school year. We both were devasted by the sudden news that by the end of the week he would be gone.
We parted with these words, "if it was meant to be, we will find each other again one day." Well guess what, we did last year. He was in the middle of finalizing custody issues with his recently divorced wife. I myself have been married 2x's and at the brink of divorce with this second marriage of10 years. He has 4 kids and is a very devoted father(he has custody), He's a bit camera shy so to speak with relationships, given his recently devorced status. Is it fate, that after all this time we found each other through the internet? Or is it coincidental?
We both acknowledge we have wakened past feelings for one another, I'm just not sure if persued that it would work out. It was High School after all, we were nothing but emotions and hormones.

2007-11-30 18:20:02 · 12 answers · asked by Musicmaiden4 2

2007-11-30 18:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by sweety v 1

Parents want to hold on to their children till they die.Do the children sacrifice their life for them? and what is the criteria?

2007-11-30 18:01:54 · 17 answers · asked by kumarcl 5

My friend (Erika) is sleeping with another friends (Stacii) soon to be husband (Sean) and I feel so bad for knowing about it..I don't want to be caught in the middle and I think my friend (Erika) should tell what's been going on..What would you do?

2007-11-30 18:00:05 · 23 answers · asked by It wasn't me... 2

2007-11-30 17:17:21 · 17 answers · asked by shawnee 1

I've seen the concerns by women that do it all, but I'm interested in hearing about the men. I'm a very successful professional man that has been happily married for 7 years. The only sore spot in our marriage is that I feel my wife doesn't carry her weight. I do more laundry than her, at least as much dishes, far more grocery shopping, plus am responsible for all the traditional male duties like all yard work - she doesn't touch a leaf or a flower. I also cook dinner more than she does, and am very active in the care and well being of our 2 yr old. We have a housecleaner, and an au pair that does our childs dirty work, plus cooks many days. I'm the one that decorates our house for holidays and does the heavy lifting when we entertain friends. I feel taken advantage of because I do things that I expect my wife to do, and when we discuss, she feels like I do these things because I have a higher standard. Am I a grumpy husband, or do I have a legitimate gripe?

2007-11-30 16:56:41 · 20 answers · asked by motravler 1

We split up 2 years ago but decided to stay married for health insurance reasons.We decided to never sell the house, he would live in it but I would have access when I needed it ( my job had me traveling ).
I met someone on the net and said he should do the same. So, I took him shopping, got him a new do and took pictures then set him up with a profile on the personals.
He'd call me with updates on how he was doing.
Then he met her.
Communication changed.He asked for a divorce and said he wanted to sell the house. I was no longer traveling and since he moved in with her, I moved back home. But I couldn't get in the day I drove back home. My daughter told me his new g/f said he had to change the locks or she would break up with him.
He called and told me he could no longer talk to me on the phone or she would break up with him.
He said we could no longer get a divorce on our own and had to use a lawyer or she would break up w/him.
Today I got a call and he said......

2007-11-30 16:55:51 · 11 answers · asked by nichium 2

I am in desperate need of help! Tomorrow is my 8th wedding anniversary and I am freaked about what to do and little to no money to do it with? A little about us... Lately we have been distant financial blues I guess you could say. Holidays are near and were both stressed beyond our limits. I really have little money to work with and he especially would not want me spending "unneccesary" money. On the other hand I want to "WOW" him. I think we have both been feeling a little bored in our relationship. I want us to enjoy each others presence and laugh and have fun. It has been far to long for us both. Does anyone have an brilliant ideas they would like to share.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!

2007-11-30 16:50:46 · 16 answers · asked by christine m 1

i need the little signs women usually try to ignore.

2007-11-30 16:48:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so my husband finds out that his military leave will not allow us to go see any of our families this year... I'm a military wife so I take this in stride it's what we have to do to support our husbands. However, my feelings were very hurt when I found out he called and told hismother this before telling me... I tried to explain that since our little family was what was directly affected- it was just that I expected to be the first in on the loop... I always tell him all important information especially when he is directly affected before I call my mother friends or anyone- but he just called me petty and refused to have anything to do with me or our daughter the rest of the night.... am I petty or do I have the right to feel hurt?

2007-11-30 16:47:18 · 16 answers · asked by vicycat 4

Tonight I went to go get a pair of workout shorts out of my dresser and I pulled out a pair of shorts that weren't mine! I picked them up and looked at them, they were a size and a half bigger than what I wear and they were not new. I was gone last weekend and was out of town, my wife are haveing major problems, but I didn't expect this, the sad part I am not mad if she is having an affair, I am mad at the fact that it happen in the bed I sleep in. what should I do. I am planning on filing for divorce in Jan anyways, should I bring this up or let it roll off and just keep thinking ahead until Jan.

2007-11-30 16:45:04 · 10 answers · asked by PHP 2

me and my current boyfriend have lived together/dated each other for almost 2 years. we used to bicker all the time and it was me because of my bipolar disorder. then we would talk abd patch things up. now we are in a ruff situation ...living with his parents in a far away state from home. money is tight and i guess you can say our love for each other is being tested he got a good job i havnt found NOTHING!! i miss my mother and my state of texas. a few months ago he cheated on me with a phone relationship and to be honest i have not yet to get over that. i do NOT want to break up and go back home and get back together!! he makes me happy but in the long long long run...i know we want seperate things what do i do? please help me

2007-11-30 16:38:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you have something that is just yours. Something that it is understood between you and your spouce, like something personal? For instance, your laptop or phone, or anything else? If you do is your spouce upset about it?

2007-11-30 16:29:14 · 13 answers · asked by JWilridge 3

I am in a very unhappy marriage. My husband and I have been together almost 14 years and married over 10 years. It's not that he's a horrible guy, but he certainly has some issues. We have been in counseling for months and I'm not seeing much change. I really think that the marriage should end, for both our happiness and the happiness of our children (as we fight a lot and have a stressful home life at this point). That being said...I don't leave. I stay...just as I have stayed all these years when I truly knew years ago it should have ended. I feel like I need to stay in order to ensure my children's "proper" raising. He lies, drives drunk, and is selfish. If I stay married to him then at least I can limit my children's exposure to these things, but I am miserable!!! What's my problem? Why don't I end it???

2007-11-30 16:17:43 · 15 answers · asked by ladybug 3

I've been wanting to get a divorce for sometime now, everytime I approach my husband with this he says go get one and I tell him I don't have any money to file and he tells me "too bad" There has to be some way I can get a divorce right? Any advice?

2007-11-30 16:16:19 · 9 answers · asked by Behave 5

"My wife and i have been married for almost 5 years. We have two
children together, I love my wife like i have never loved another. I have a
deeply rooted idea that males and females cannot just be friends. One
will always want more. She has a friend whom we both know through work.
They are more friends, then he and i. It had been discussed that i would
not want them to ever go out without me...wethere they saw it as a
date or not, I felt very uncomfortable with it. She had in the past
already said that if we weren't together and he wasn't married that she would
ask him out. The other night she was talking in her sleep. when i
asked her about it she denied it all. after talking i asked to see her
emails between them. she got upset i got more upset. in the end she did
confess that they were going lunch, a movie and some shopping. after tons
of tears she said that she wouldn't go with him. In the end i think she
did. So 1. am i wrong in my lost trust? 2. what needs to be done to
help fix this marriage (because i seem to be the one fighting for it, it
seems that she just wants it to go back to the way it was when she lied
and she didnt think that i knew it) Please help me!!!"

2007-11-30 16:09:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 16:06:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

when a married woman who is in her.40.s and starts looking for younger men in there late teen.s start comming on to them would that be as i have posted love. or lust. a man who is.19. and she.s in her late.40.s isnt that against the law on her . doing that .

2007-11-30 15:40:40 · 10 answers · asked by matthew v 3

This is open to both guys and gals, but what would you guys do if your significant other started gaining weight or getting unhealthy after you two got married?
I am not married, but I have always wondered about this because I hear stories sometimes.

2007-11-30 15:35:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

please describe to me an emotional relationship. What if you find calls and secrets and money being sent. Could this be "I was just trying to help her out" situation or is there more. Someone please help me see where a line is drawn between and emotional affair and an affair. Is it possible to keep secrets from your wife of 10 years and 2 children. Is it being just friends to sit in a vehicle at night after work and discuss non personal things. Supposedely to listen to her cry about her problems. Whatever. Someone please help me underdstand if I'm over reacting. Supposedly he never touched her sexually only to hug he bye when she left for another job.

2007-11-30 15:23:24 · 11 answers · asked by bob 2

This is such a common saying. My question is this.. Why is it true? Is it because it's FUN to cheat? (Just wondering..)

2007-11-30 15:01:50 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex did not pay child support in 15 years now the kids are living with him and I have to pay child support, can I go after him for the last 15 years of child support even though none was ordered?

2007-11-30 14:53:52 · 15 answers · asked by lynnrr38 2