Marriage & Divorce - 1 December 2007

back in 2004, a 54 years old father of 3 decided to have a romantic relationship with an escort who was 25 years old. the proposal given by the escort (commercial sex worker) was a scholarship to a nursing course, an apartment, a generous allowance and intermittent sex service. she strongly encouraged the man not to leave the family as she did not like to destroy a marriage ! ?
the wife did not agree to the proposition, and when things went rough she brought the case to court. she demanded an allowance for the kids and asked the court to protect her and the kids from violence of all forms.
the court decided in favor of the wife and kids but instead the husband elevated the case to the appelate court.
a few months later, while waiting for the desicion of the appelate court, the man had a mild stroke, his business crashed and wanted to return to the wife and kids.

2007-12-01 23:59:35 · 32 answers · asked by perleybr 1

When I has my baby shower when it was time to open the gifts she got up there with me.

2007-12-01 23:37:39 · 18 answers · asked by just wondering 1

if both parter are devout christian, do they tend to have a happier and strong marriage than others?

2007-12-01 23:27:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sons dad was my first love, my first everything. We have been togeather sence I was 15 and I am now 26. the last five years has been on and off because he has been abusive, but he said it was because I was using drugs, wich I was the hard ****. I know that is know exuse for him hitting me but he says he is was going to change and so far he hasn't hit me four a year but is still sometimes verbally abusive. I guess I am addicted to him, and the sex is good so I stay in it. How do I know if I really do want to make this work and try again? cause sometimes I really do , and then sometimes I don't. Confused and tired that I can not make up my mind.

2007-12-01 23:07:17 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer H 1

In 1989 I joined the Navy and went to Hospital Corpman school. While i was there I met a girl named Lana, We were just friends but we had a great connection. We never made out but the one time we were about to kiss, someone walked in on us. We were at the school for about three months when the Navy sent us in differnt directions, she gave me her mothers address to write her and I put it in my sea bad and I left it at the front desk as I walked her back to her dorm. When I returned i checked for the address she gave me and it was gone. I was never able to find her again until now which is almost 17 years later, but I never forgot her. I am married now and I have her address and phone number and I was wondering should I call and would that be cheating. She showed me how a man is suppose to feel and what it feels like to be respected and loved in a way beyond the physical.What do I do?

2007-12-01 22:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by Reggie M 2

-taunts me
-sometimes laughs at me for no reason
-takes interest in my personal life when she knows it is doing bad and asks me how life is treating me
-when am asked a question in the class she answers for me before i do ( she doesn't do this for anyone else though)

i have felt she is interested in knowing me better as she has asked many a times to introduce her to my wife but when i told we were separated she called up to complain about her husband.


she's a nice girl and i wish i had a friend like her but if her actions can be termed as advances, she really scares me as she is also married and i don't want more trouble.

2007-12-01 22:09:35 · 15 answers · asked by reflection 2

yesterday was my mothers birthday and i went all out for her baked her a cake card dinner and all she showed no appreciation at all if anything she was rather cold might i add this is not the first cold shoulder all i do for her is not right in her eyes when all i have ever done is good.i am at my wits end what should i do?

2007-12-01 21:40:57 · 9 answers · asked by ................ 7

...only an inch of hair?

2007-12-01 21:36:41 · 17 answers · asked by freedombird2772 2

2007-12-01 21:36:25 · 21 answers · asked by daydreamer_sleepwalker 1

if you were a kid again what would be the things you would change in you life.

2007-12-01 20:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are always learning in life.

Can someone please help me out?

I am married to a wonderful woman. When we first met, she had tons of guy friends - some of which I was not to fond of persoanlly. With not liking them, I told her that I did not want her talking to all these guys while we were together; she agreed and stopped telling all them she loves each of them and so forth. However, that has nothing to do with my problem/question. Lately, she and I have been doing great while in the house; in contrast of that statement, everytime we decide to go out together, we fight about fifteen minutes after leaving. I feel she is not respecting me many of the times; however, she always tells me that I am being rude to her. She always gives me attitude which really eats away at me. My question and concern is this below.

What can be done to mend the relationship and not fight constantly when outside? It is getting old.

Oh by the way, we have been together for a year now.

Help me???

2007-12-01 20:34:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a girl who you have dated for 2 years (known for 7) and loved dearly and she loved you moved away for 6 months and after 3 weeks of being away breaks up with you and pursues another man and after 8 weeks realises he is a jerk and wants to come back to you saying she made a hughe mistake and does love you. Do you think she is genuine??? Or do you think she is just now scared because she got mistreated and only sees you as a back up?

Also I decided to take her back but she seems to being acting at a distant with me, we dont say I love you anymore because she wants to take things slow again (yet she says she does love me)

What is going on? Also she moved to the usa for college for 6 months so it has been a huge adventure for her so far and likely to continue.

2007-12-01 19:59:08 · 24 answers · asked by Blake E 1

i was at the mall with my girlfriend and there was this family they had 2 daughters about the same age and the husband was slappin the wife around when she ordered the wrong burger for him and alot of ppl were watching even the dam security gaurd and i told the guy leave his wife alone n we started argueing and he was gonna slap her again n i just slapped him as hard as i could and he started punchin me and he hit me but i got him on the floor first and the cops came and took him away and the wife called her mom n picked her up and my girlfriend kept saying im wrong i shud have done nothin but i cudnt since i saw my mom get slapped around since i was little from my dad

2007-12-01 19:32:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

after 5 month she left me cause of she was still loving her ex boy friend,,,,,and so she was too confuse cause im also too much loving.....she is living a far city and im too,,,i had go to her place so many times for her comeback in my life..but she didn't came once and refuse me atleast for fysicaly any relation,,,till now i havnt any relation with any body and staying alone here with dipration.....also havn't done any legal action against her.....she mailed me that now she is a c.a. by profession .... once again i m calling to comeback but she never mailed me again....she has my phone no...but i havn't her and she never called me?i don't know where she is living now......since 4 year im living alone and so sad......pls suggest me?

2007-12-01 19:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by dil deke d 1

..W/SINGLE guys I barely know. 1st time he did this he knew I was upset & he came home early & told me he never wanted to go anywhere w/o me. A wk later, he changed his mind & said that was how he felt at the time. Sometimes he doesn't come home at all from work/school. One time he didn't come home until 11AM the next day. I tell him how much it hurts, but all he says is "It's not my fault you have shitty friends", implying that they don't ask me out. Last night he left we were angry & he came back an hr later & apologized & said he was proud I was his wife then left again. I was ok w/that. Tonight he left w/o a word. He got dressed saw I was upset & left anyway. He's about 20 minutes away from many strip-clubs & I don't like them when we go & I fear he goes w/friends. He likes to brag how he can get any girl so that REALLY worries me. Is there some way I can make him not WANT to go places w/o me? Sometimes w/o me is fine but this is too much.

2007-12-01 19:02:21 · 15 answers · asked by stackhouse 1

which i think always bad then is it the case of eve teasing? is it compulsory to do. girls and ladies what u think if hubby do all these acts with wife is it not the case of eve teasing?
am a male.
only ladies answer plsssss.

2007-12-01 18:54:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What lingerie would you wear for you man? Stockings, garters, or pantyhose.

2007-12-01 18:18:27 · 21 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3

my husband and i got into an argument yesturday. He said he was sorry i brought up divorce and he gave me a kiss and said that is the best thing. in the morning he gave me a kiss. We cooked breakfast together and raked the leafs outside he hugged me and said he was my husband and he wasnt going to be my friend he would stay my husband, so he went to work i didnt call like always and he didnt call neither at about 30 min after he got out i called and he was at a friends house i got mad and he said well i thought were done. hes the one hugging me and telling me he loves me so why does he not come home? why does he not answer his phone? am confused hes called me a witch, hes called me a ***** in front of my kids, and other curse words, hes hit me 3 times before I really want to try but it hurts not to feel like our marriage is forever, and it hurts when he dosent come home he goes drinks w/friends and i never go out w/ out our kids.

2007-12-01 18:14:54 · 20 answers · asked by mari 1

My ex-spouse and I were married for 13 years. We are now divorced. He was verbally, physically and emotionally abusive to me and my two sons. He does not pay child support or hardly ever contact his children. We still run in the same social circle. How do I attend parties and other events that he is at without a confrontation. I honestly don't know how to deal with him or his new girlfriend. They both try to pick fights with me and I try to ignore them, but it is hard.

2007-12-01 18:14:29 · 12 answers · asked by luvmybenz2 2

Ok, so I have been having a hard time with my husband...If you read any of my past entries, I have had problems with him abusing cold pills and alcohol and smoking weed while in the Army. He left for NCO school so I took this opportunity to fly home. Since I have been home with my family things are so much smoother, I have help with the baby, and for the moment my stress level has lowered. I have to go back in a week and it is seriously going to kill me because I am going back to loneliness. I'm not the type of girl that feels that she cant survive without my family, so dont get the wrong idea. Its just that even though my husband tells me that he will do better, I am just tired of dealing with all of it. When I go back home, how do I cope with the stress? Honestly I dont wanna go back but I guess have to because...uh..he's my husband. I'm just so confused..someone tell me what to do.

2007-12-01 18:14:09 · 12 answers · asked by Indian beauty 2

Do you emotionally withdraw? Do you think it's no big deal? Do you give them the silent treatment? Do you discuss? Argue?

2007-12-01 18:12:29 · 16 answers · asked by greenwich 4

I'm a married SAHM. My husband is lying to me about porn. I've found it on our computer before, and was angry because he's spending our money on it and hiding it. If he'd just be open about it, and even ask me to watch WITH him once in a while, I'd be totally cool with it. I've made that very clear to him in the past. Just be honest, and dont lie to me about spending our money on it. But when I went into our internet history to find a site that I had visited before, there were a TON of visits to a porn site that day, and the day before. One he SAID he had cancelled the subscription for. I'm home all day. The only time I can think of that he's doing this is when I'm in the bath. I'm pregnant, and I'll curl up in the tub for a couple hours and read a book. To make matters worse, he will TURN DOWN SEX when *I* want it, and only have it with me when HE wants. WTF? He could have me whenever he wants, but instead he's wasting his sexual energy on porn, and denying me sex when I

2007-12-01 18:10:53 · 33 answers · asked by lilmamamonique 1

would you ever remarry? I know I wouldn't unless the person had a lot to offer, didn't drink, smoke or do drugs, and basically treated me like a Godess.

2007-12-01 18:08:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom passed away about a year ago. now i saw my aunt. withanother man in a place she ought to have never been at. going into a motel room with this other man. she.s been married for.26. years to my aunts man he treats her very good and is a minister as well should i let him know. the reason why i am asking. the clerck at that place know.s my uncle . and by law my uncle will divorce her and sue both. him and her. i didnt know that a law like this was around for sueing a person but a lawer told me yes it was but my main question should i tell him or knowing this other guy he will . thank you all

2007-12-01 18:01:53 · 18 answers · asked by wildcat_2021 2

in the beginning it is full of lust and after a year it seems to vaporate

2007-12-01 18:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by trustluvlove 1

My husband has been distracted lately. Today he told me why. Two months ago he went out with colleagues, drank too much and they visited a brothel. Colleagues left, he didn't. Today he came clean with me and told me he had sex with a prostitute that night. They used a condom but it came off during sex. He told me because he has contracted an STD. Now I must take antibiotics to clear up anything that he may have passed onto me. He's very sorry for what happened and very upset. But he also told me if he hadn't of contracted this STD he wouldn't have told me of the affair. What do I do? Do I forgive? Do I kick him out? I love this man with all my heart and soul. I am just so confused......

2007-12-01 17:57:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

evenif she can ay them with out him knowing?

2007-12-01 17:47:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

can a man forget and forgive his wife and guy she was seeing and not hold a gruge over what has happened after all she was older. and married . . can her husband forgive him and forget or just divorce her. and not hold the man at fault she was in her.40.s and i was just a . 19. year old at that time . she was doing all the come on to me . can this happen with him on what happened

2007-12-01 17:40:55 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3

We have not been sexually active at all for 5 years.
My spouse told me that they resented most of the last sex we had. 15 years ago.
We have had sex 10 times a year 15 years ago and that tapered off to less then once a year, and stopped all together when I got orders to Iraq.

I can’t leave. While I was in Iraq Pat suffered a stroke and is paralyzed on one side. I can not abandon a crippled spouse. If I should find a sexual partner am I obligated to refuse?

I am a very lonely and want someone to hold me.

2007-12-01 17:36:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-01 17:35:03 · 49 answers · asked by prince 5