Do you emotionally withdraw? Do you think it's no big deal? Do you give them the silent treatment? Do you discuss? Argue?
2007-12-01 18:12:29 · 16 answers · asked by greenwich 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
**no big deal
2007-12-01 18:13:40 · update #1
if he is just looking, that is no big deal to me at all. Heck, i look at other men. My rule is you can look at the field, just can't play in it.
Flirting is another thing all in itself. Depends on the level of flirting and who started it. If he is flirting with some other girl and he started it....then we may have some talking to do. but if he just went up to the bar to get a drink and some girl is hitting on him and he isn't showing the interest but just being polite while he waits for the drink, then that is ok. I will usually go up and "save" him and put my arm around him and tell him not to forget the lemon for my beer or let him know i am heading to the bathroom...that way he knows that I do get jealous (because a little jealousy is good, just not more than this)
2007-12-01 18:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what anyone says, married people flirting is a HORRIBLE, disrespectful thing... I DON'T CARE if it was a part of someones personality before the marriage or not! It shouldn't happen.
There is a man I work with who flirts with every female CONSTANTLY... Every time I see it, I want to slap his face! As a single woman, I don't like being addressed in a way that gives me the feeling that I can flirt back, when I know he is married. (It makes me have to be on guard!) Yet, he is able to do it with out consious. He says his wife knows, but if she knew to what extent he goes, she would kick him in the kidney!
I think you need to find a time to discuss this. Do it when he has the attention, like in the car. Just flat out say, "I hate it when you flirt. It makes me feel like you lack respect for me." This obviously bothers you, so you would only be sharing your feelings. Tell him it is a big deal to you. It hurts your feelings and makes you uncomfortable.
2007-12-01 19:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must discuss it to some degree and tell him that your not going to put up with that crap and if he's some kind of player tell him he is with the wrong person. I think talking fine full out flirting wrong and should be called on. Gaucking at other woman when around you slap in the back of the head
and then a simpe what do you think your doing! not too hard just get his attention.
Remember it is not a jealousy thing or control problem it is wanting and deserving of respect for the one your with.
2007-12-01 18:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your partner flirts in your presence, It is the ultimate insult. I really do not know how you should handle it. He would say you were over reacting and try to put the blame on you. Doing the same to him is childish. It is a big deal , and I would seriously look at whether or not to continue the relationship.
2007-12-01 18:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be very angry. when i am angry i yell and want a divorse. then i m moving out. just this saturday we went for shopping and there was this gorgeous underwear model for H and M on ALL the bus stops. i just said what a beautiful looking woman. and then he started - where does she live, how old is she, she has 2 kids and yada yada. that made me so angry - why the *** i need all details and why the *** he took time to read about her and memorise? he doesn't rememebr stuff about me. so when we came home i cried, when he started again i yelled and now i am moving out on monday ( i have my own place still). think only - he wasn't even flirting with anyone. he just was stupid enough to talk about other woman, who he would never ever even meet
2007-12-01 18:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Now this question is extremely ordinary and uncomplicated! confident! he does! of direction he does, why else could he do those products? I mean come on boys have specific the thank you to precise their emotions and curiously this is going to be his very own little way! Now come on have u in no way seen any romance video clips? meaning he likes u! Dont go away him astounding, flirt slightly greater and nicely u in no way understand! *wink* good luck! desire it facilitates! xD
2016-10-10 01:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by favaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on your personal preference. For me I don't care too much because he is going to cheat(flirt) with someone he will do it but I do draw the line, I will not stand for him to flirt with someone repeatedly and it should never be disrepectful, I do believe that innocent flirting does exist.
2007-12-01 18:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's no big deal. i mean sure, my guy may look at a girl strolling at the mall but thats just like, a second and then it's out of his system.
flirting is fine too. i dont restrain my guy to do whatever he wants. he's a big boy and he knows his boundaries. anyway, should he cross that boundary, i can always break off with him. it would be his damn loss. lots of cute fishes in the sea.
2007-12-01 18:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Looking is no big deal. Flirting brings on WW3.
Kathleen is a life ruiner.
2007-12-01 18:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give him a taste of his own medicine. When he is doing this, you also do a little flirting and see how he likes it.
2007-12-01 19:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋