Marriage & Divorce - 1 December 2007

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2007-12-01 07:52:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever cheated, and had a "one night stand" with someone during your marriage??
If so, do you regret it??
(This question isn't directed toward those that may have had extended affairs, but just those who may have had a "one night stand" here or there along the way).

2007-12-01 07:49:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I make my wife feel wanted and needed? I know that we need councling and I want to stop fighting. I really want to be loved by my wife and have the intamacy and closeness back. Besides flowers, candy, a card, most improtantly date night what else can I do?

2007-12-01 07:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by sec8_cm 1

She keeps phoning and emailing trying to talk to him. She even phoned my answering machine once! She left me a message saying she had sex with him when he visited her and the kids last month, but I know he didn't. He moved to Canada two years ago, and he's only seen her a few times since then. Someone told her about us. She keeps emailing and saying that she must talk to him. I can't stand it - she wants to ask him why he lied to her and didn't tell her about me. It's harrassment, stalking, isn't it? I'm so scared she might come round to our house, or phone me again. They've got five kids together, and he doesn't pay any money to her but he does pay a mortgage on a house. He was trying to sell it - but then she moved back in and the realtor told her she had a right to stay. What can we do to stop his wife getting in the way? They are still married, but I know he's filed divorce. He hasn't told her he filed so she'll just get the papers soon. Why should he support her now?

2007-12-01 07:30:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like this girl that stays in my dorm, she stays like 5 feet away. I met her studying, and thought we hit it off. Then the next day I see her studying and talk and ask her for her number, I said this

" Look I think your really cool, and I was wondering if i could keep in contact with you, I'm not going to call you soon cause finals are picking up but i have this way that if i don't talk to someone every now and then Ill never see them."

She said " I'm on your floor, if you want to talk to me just knock on my door in right next door to you, I'm going to be here next semester so your going to see me all the time, just stop by.

I don't know if she was just saying that to say that, to be nice, because people do visit other people i guess, or she was saying knock on my door.

I saw her last night she was staring at me, i act like i didn't see her cause i thought she rejected me, did she...I said hi to her today on the elevator.

Did I get rejected, should i visit?

2007-12-01 07:28:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see this trait in just about all the women I know. Then they get upset when thier husbands wants to hang out with his friends. Shouldn't marriage be a continuation of one's life with combining that of the one they love. Obviously, you can't keep the same level frequency of hanging with your friends..but women seem to drop it completely.

2007-12-01 07:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Cubsfan 2

2007-12-01 07:24:48 · 75 answers · asked by Catwoman 2

I have been married 11 years ..
My husbands family , is very self centered , cynical , egocentrism , They pretty much think there sh!% don't stink...
They do not talk to me , they treat me like i dont exist , and when i have tried to talk to them , they talk over me ... My husband acts like , im imaging it , i think he actually see it now , but he wont admit to it , he just try to keep me company , when we are around them ..Im so sick of these..i stay away from them as much as possiable , when i am around them , i actually get sick to my stomach now

2007-12-01 07:20:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

42,172,000 so far. that a lot more that traffic accidents! That is the world we live in. Depressing is it not?

2007-12-01 07:17:29 · 18 answers · asked by j_emmans 6

First of all, do you know what tremor is? She has described it a desease like parkinson and basically people like me can not have babies or healthy babies!! She has said it runs in our family.My mom and dad have 4 kids and my sister has 3 beautiful children. We never had any problem and I do not even know this desease. My soon to be ex wife's sister is a nurse (also divorced) and probebly it is her dignosis.Her both sisters are divorced. My wife is a control freak, we went to 2 diferent counsellors and she did not show up the second session. She says I am smart and educated and I do not need to go to the Shrinks. It is only because consellors wanted us to change some habits but she thinks she is perfect. I accept my mistakes but for her it is her way or highway!
I know at this moment I should not listen the these BS but it really hurts! Thank God I am very healty and I always have been. She tries to tell our friends that I decieved her and hide my desease from her.

What shoul I do?

2007-12-01 07:15:44 · 15 answers · asked by mazyar m 1

Before we met, my husband was obviously taking care of himself. He exercised and watched his weight, and brushed his teeth. He was and still is a very handsome man (facewise). We've been married for 5 years, and now his BMI is considered obese. I keep telling him that he needs to do something about his weight because his family has a history of health issues and I don't want to become a widow. Recently, he said he is fed up with me telling him that. So, now I guess I am stuck with a man who's going to keep getting bigger and probably will die before me.

Of course I love him, but the things he's doing are just carelessness. It's not like he can't help himself. He doesn't even brush his teeth and I don't even like to kiss him anymore. What's worse is that now when we have gatherings where one brings his/her spouse, I feel reluctant to bring him because of the way my husband looks like now.

Some of you will say for better or worse, but what if he can control those things?

2007-12-01 07:09:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY wife and i have been fighting for some time now. I realize that we need councling, but would like affection from my wife. Because of all the fighting for so long I've forgoten how to earn it from her. I have missing the intamacy and sex, what are some simple things that I able to do to get that back from her?

2007-12-01 07:04:41 · 16 answers · asked by sec8_cm 1

i have been with my partner for 12 years and i am considering ending it we have 4 kids, i feel like he does not put me and the kids first, he is always putting his friends before us, he says it's not like that but i think it is. i have tryed talking to him but he does not get it, i am at the end of my rope and i don't know what else to do i am physically drained and emotionally unstable. please can someone offer me some advice on what to do i can't afford a therapist but i am willing to take some good advice if anyone has any

2007-12-01 07:03:52 · 7 answers · asked by babyplease 1

I was just wondering what age did everybody get married and enganged?

2007-12-01 06:59:30 · 19 answers · asked by Mommy! 2

There was alot of bad on both sides. I tryed to have him deported took back a truck that i payed for ect. He ignored me after he went into the military didn't help me when i was sick went to strip clubs. This all happened in a 4 months span when he was in the military after 3 yrs of marriage. We are getting divorced the other nite i called him he was desperate to meet me other times he is rude and screams and tells me how much he hates me ect. I'm not liking him so much either. Well we ended up talking and i miss him i'm sure he does me too. we slept together he said we still are getting a divorce and hope he didn't confuse me by sleeping with me. It was very sad and started to cry I could tell he felt bad He later ask me before we left the hotel that we could do this till we get divorce meet for sex but we will still be divorcing this has broken my heart is there any chance he loves me or is this discusting? why wouldnt he do this with someone els?

2007-12-01 06:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short, longterm bf and i broke up about 6 wks ago (both 25) and haven't talked since last wk, when he called me saying he missed me, how hot I was, how much fun we had, wanted to start seeing me again, etc. I'd heard he had a new gf and called him out on it. He said they were nowhere close to being official and just hang out. Turns out she was out of town for Thanksgiving and I haven't heard from him since she got back.

Saw them togehter at the mall today, and he stopped me to say hi. Then he said, "Hey are you dating anyone? I have a buddy I want to hook you up with." I was hurt & angry, so I said, "You know I'm not dating anyone. You're funny... why would you try and hook me up with your friend when just last wk you were calling me to tell me how much you missed me and wanted to get back with me." They were both shocked. I said bye and left.

I honestly feel horrible now. It is not like me to be bitter and vindictive like that. Should i apologize to him?

2007-12-01 06:45:59 · 33 answers · asked by Leah 3

okay so me and my "wife" went to the court house to get a marriage lic. we got it and arainged to get married by the judge two weeks later, we did! we took home a marriage certificate and the judge told us we would be recieving the OFFICIAL certificate in the mail- its been 8 mo. does that mean we are not married?

2007-12-01 06:43:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend made a confession to me a while ago. To make a long story short, I have a friend who cheated on her husband and got pregnant. Her boyfriend said he wouldn't take care of the baby unless she got rid of her husband. She pressed spousal rape charges on her husband. He was convicted and she's moved on with the new guy.

When she admitted it was a lie, I felt bad that he was convicted, but he was a pretty bad husband. He was even abusive at times. That's why she cheated. But he's innocent of the rape charge. What can I do? Should I tell someone? I don't have actual proof and it might just make it worse. It would definitely end our friendship. Should I mind my own business?

2007-12-01 06:29:08 · 42 answers · asked by Aileara 3

right now I hate him, we have the same arguments over and over. he is irrational , too jealous and speaks to me as if I am working for him. I cannot handle it any longer. and no I give him no reason to be jealous, I am fat but I have good business sense and get along with everybody. I have tried to change the roles...but then I get the "silent" treatment...how do I change him for the better of our relationship...how do I get to love him again? I just don't like spending time with him anymore...should I leave...that is how I feel. what about our business, we have a 50/50 partnership

2007-12-01 06:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by wife in South Africa 2

I wonder how common it actually is. It is all taboo but seems to go on all around us. Have you cheated?

2007-12-01 06:22:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

but she will not commucate with you only when she wants you too

2007-12-01 06:15:11 · 16 answers · asked by scott n 1

What the divorce stastics for the united states in the past years?

2007-12-01 06:11:06 · 8 answers · asked by robibf@sbcglobal.net 1

What are you fighting over.....
Is it worth it?

2007-12-01 06:05:37 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2

Before we got maried he showered everyday, brushed his teeth, and was generally clean. We have only been married 4 months and ever since he has become disgusting! I mean he won't shower for days! He never brushes his teeth! His breath will wake me out of a dead sleep! I am not kidding! I have asked him, begged him but he he always has an excuse, like he is too tired. He smoked when I first meet him and I thought that would be the main disgusting thing, but this it killing me. I have with held sex, food, and scream and yelled till he took a shower. I know this sounds extreme but I am at my wits end. I love him so much, I just want the clean man I marred back! If anyone has any ideas please help!

2007-12-01 06:00:55 · 22 answers · asked by sharnajax 3

She dumped Me not the other way round.

2007-12-01 05:59:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-01 05:55:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some good, serious answers for a paper I'm writing.

What is it that keeps your marriages strong? What do you expect from your wives/relationships to keep you happy?

2007-12-01 05:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by RedDoll 1

My ex-boyf called me after having no contact for one month. He broke up with me in the beginning of the year and the break was so hard. He hated the fact that I asked for no contact to heal myself from it because I still loved him so much. Last month he came to see me and we had a very nice time but I told him that if we cannot be together, we need to go separate ways. I hated doing it because I want to be with him but he says we cannot be together if we live in different countries. I was missing him so much last month but I was trying to be strong not to contact him. I am going away for about 3 months next year and he said it scares him. He called me this week to say he wants to work things out, solutions how to be closer but he wants to wait until after I come back from my time away. He does not want to do it now. I told him that I want to see him and he said he is scared to meet me as he suffered from it last time when we met as he saw me crying. He said to wait until I come back.

2007-12-01 05:43:02 · 12 answers · asked by Elisa N 1

you have been seperated from your kids father or mother for ten years( not due to any painful or hurtful experiences) and you see each other all the time because of the kid(s) and all o fa sudden he or she asks you for some a** . Even though you haven't in years! Is this like a joke or something or is he or she trying to prove that they can still "get that" like alot of folks like to prove now day? HHEEEEEEELLLLLPPPPP!!!!!!!

2007-12-01 05:42:42 · 12 answers · asked by Runteldat 3

She lies her parents & bunks her classes to meet me. She is full time with me.
But i think her friends are brainwashing her as they might not like her to have a good looking & good earning guy.
Further, sometimes she does'nt reply to my SMS & i came to know that she was with those friends at that time.
Through one of her talks i came to know that her friend forced her to make program with them on that time when we meet usually.
I disagreed & she came to meet me.
Now, her friends bought into picture a boy who is a school friend of her & they have joined sunday tuition i.e., the day when we don't meet.
My GF i think is avoiding me as i told her to stay away from that boy. I told her this line because he had proposed her earlier when he knew that she had a boyfriend but he did'nt knew that it was me.
I think this girl gives more importance to her schoolfriends who are still wit her in college.

What you think can she be a good wife?
she has started saying me to reconstruct house

2007-12-01 05:38:21 · 5 answers · asked by vikki 1