First of all, do you know what tremor is? She has described it a desease like parkinson and basically people like me can not have babies or healthy babies!! She has said it runs in our family.My mom and dad have 4 kids and my sister has 3 beautiful children. We never had any problem and I do not even know this desease. My soon to be ex wife's sister is a nurse (also divorced) and probebly it is her dignosis.Her both sisters are divorced. My wife is a control freak, we went to 2 diferent counsellors and she did not show up the second session. She says I am smart and educated and I do not need to go to the Shrinks. It is only because consellors wanted us to change some habits but she thinks she is perfect. I accept my mistakes but for her it is her way or highway!
I know at this moment I should not listen the these BS but it really hurts! Thank God I am very healty and I always have been. She tries to tell our friends that I decieved her and hide my desease from her.
What shoul I do?
2007-12-01 07:15:44 · 15 answers · asked by mazyar m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ignore them. Like someone said, "Never explain. Your friends don't need it and your enemies won't believe you anyway."
2007-12-01 07:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
best advice I can give...get away! change your phone numbers, put anonymous call rejection and caller ID on your phone, ignore any stupid rumors that are untrue...and go live your life away from her. Since you never had any kids with her, there is no reason at all, NONE, to ever see her again or take her calls or talk to her.
I've never even heard of this 'Tremor' other than it was a bad movie with Kevin Bacon in it. Sounds like she's making stuff up and it also sounds like you're not too smart for believing it. The only disease I can see you're suffering from is an inability to spell correctly...LOL
Lighten up, laugh it off, and live your life away from her.
2007-12-01 07:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by VodkaTonic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds very shallow and mean. Just dont respond to her lies. It is no ones business. Never heard of Tremors, so most people may think she is making it up anyway. Sign those divorce papers ASAP and find a new wife and have 6 kids. That'll fix her wagon.
2007-12-01 07:20:15 · answer #3 · answered by julie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a good lawyer--he will know exactly what to do--tell him I said so. Be thank full your getting out of this marriage--it could be worse--children--asset division--cut the boat in half and the dog to--run over the cat--alimony--child support--you living at the Y----two jobs--always broke--Let her do what she wants---Again, tell your lawyer--he will know what to do. Observation for three or four days at the local nut house will cure her of all her vivid distortions about you. If I were you I would find myself the "lovely lady of the evening know to all" to spread a few rumors of HER own; did you hear me--rumors of HER OWN about how she hated to see you get married because you have the biggest D--- she has ever experienced. What a shame he gave me up for her-----good luck.
2007-12-01 07:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not unfold rumors approximately him. then you are doing an analogous element he's doing. tell him to provide up and tell human beings the rumors are not genuine. Technically, he can get in vast worry for spreading a rumor like that, yet I doubt you opt for to circulate that a techniques
2016-10-10 00:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not over her, other wise what ever she says wouldn't matter.She know her opinion matters, so she is controlling you.Getting over is going to take time .And ask your self , How in the hell did you get mixed up with this *****.Let her talk all she wants but if she continues your talking to a lawyer about slander.
2007-12-01 07:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't underestimate what other people are really thinking. If you know she's a control freak, then other people would too. I bet when she opens her mouth to degrade you, people would be thinking to themselves...."yeah, sure, your full of shiit". People arent stupid, they know what kind of person she is, and the people who don't, you wouldnt want as friends anyway. She is hurting her own reputation more than she is hurting yours. The majority of people WILL know it's bullshiit. If you defend yourself, then you are falling into her control games again. Allow it to wash over you, as hard as it will be, and just remember that if you know what kind of horrible person she is, odds are, other people will too.
2007-12-01 07:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show the people around you that you are an adult by ignoring it. Trust me, as hard as it will be, don't bad mouth her, and don't play into her little sabotage battle. The truth always reveals itself, so it would be wise to keep quiet and not to buy into her childish behavior.
2007-12-01 07:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to your lawyer about the rumors that she is spreading he can give you the best answer for that hand he might also be able to scare the crap out of her a about defamation of character
2007-12-01 11:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by neesa o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell everyone its a lie you cant control or let what she says effect you.This guy i rejected went around telling everyone i was after him which was a lie.
2007-12-01 07:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your friends are smart they will think first or ask you. dont worrie about it fakers will be proven at some point live your life and if people are stupid to believe her there not your friends to start with.
2007-12-01 07:21:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋