Marriage & Divorce - 2 December 2007

it was my ex husbanbd, when i lived w/ him, just curiso if tis was normal or a sign that something was wrong.

2007-12-02 21:59:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 years married.. no children.. im still the same person ! i didnt lose or gained weight. sex once or twice a month. :( i want to enjoy sex and i also want to have kids from him. hes so lazy i dont know what to do

2007-12-02 21:43:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a riddle i am trying to work out if anyone can help.

2007-12-02 20:39:46 · 21 answers · asked by Teresa P 1

2007-12-02 20:27:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband has a porn addiction but hes not very good at talking about it. I would like to know if its real how do I deal and if its not how to know if hes just a willy driven male

2007-12-02 19:40:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

In May this year, I discovered my husband had been having an affair after a series of text messages from his "liason". When confronted, he denied vehemently but finally revealed that it was ONLY a one night stand (yah right). My gut felt strongly that it was more than one night. After severe humiliating family intervention (including the priest who married us), I decided to let it go. He blamed alcohol.
However, for seven months, I didnt buy the story. Lst wek I stumbled upon an email from his brother saying that he had ALL the details of the affair..when I confronted my husband, again he confessed that it actually happend THRICE! His brother said the other woman told him it happend TWICE. Its a web of lies and deceit and I want out of this anger, hurt, pain.
We have been married three years and have two kids. I always felt he married me out of obligation because I fell pregnant. Why would a man who claims to love you cheat within the first year of marriage? Is he really committed

2007-12-02 19:33:35 · 17 answers · asked by Samara 1

I had an extra vowel hidden behind my back as we were playing scrabble. Will she ever trust me again?

2007-12-02 19:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask this because in Mexico by law, the partner has no right to know this at least your match wants you to know it.

2007-12-02 19:19:52 · 12 answers · asked by Lunazuly 5

I moved 2 and 1/2 hours away from my home town, to be with my bf of 2 years.
We are both divorced.
I have 2 children who came with me, and I was so worried that they wouldnt fit in to their 'new life'. ( they are 9 and 11).
But it turns out that they LOVE IT, they love their new school and have slotted in wonderfully.

But I havnt, I feel lost and all alone, I miss having my family close by.
I come from a small town and now Im in the city, I have tried to strike up converastions with other mums at the school, but nobody seems interested in talking to me.
My bf works long hours, and he is sympathetic with what I have told him, but theres not much he can do really since hes at work.
I start work after Christmas so I hope things will improve...........but in the meantime what else can I do? I feel like I have moved into a jail, because I can get to local things, but I dont know my way around the city and am terrified of driving in the traffic.

2007-12-02 19:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

even after 24 years I still want to hold her every chance I get and she seems to like being held just as much.

2007-12-02 19:13:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

im going for 50 days, last year he kept on calling me everyday asking me to come back because he cant stand staying alone without me.i dont want to leave him but i have 2 ,i havent seen my family in a year. it hurts but i dont know what to do. how can i make him enjoy his vacation :( ?

2007-12-02 18:53:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been the "other guy" in this womans life sexually for the last 2 years. Emotionally for the last 4. She says she really loves me and i love her too. She has 2 kids with this guy (not married) and they have been together for almost 8 years. She claims she isnt happy being with him, and "isnt in love with him anymore" but still loves him. She tells me things that she would never tell him, and i know she opens up to me alot more than she does with him. I know for sure im the best lover shes ever had because the sex is very emotional as well as physical. She tells me she doesnt have this with him. She says she wants to leave him and tried a year ago but he wouldnt let her take the kids so she stayed. They never mentioned that incident after that. Now my question is she says she wants to leave him but she hasnt done anything. I offered to pay for everything and take care of her and her kids. Shes on the fence right now and i need advice on whats going on in that head of hers, help!

2007-12-02 18:39:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I called the circuit court in florida where my supposably x -husband lives, asking for papers of our divorce..it's ben 10 years,,the court system in florida says I have to go there to qualify for my papers! I live in Il. this is rediculous...how can I get my papers of termination of marriage from my x 10 years ago

2007-12-02 18:36:31 · 8 answers · asked by angie babe 2

We've been married for 5 months but had sex only once till now. We lived together for about 3 years before marriage, and we hardly had sex. Whenever I ask my hubby for sex, he says he is too tired (he works hard) and not in the mood for sex at all. I love him so much and want him to take a rest but I don't want a sexless marriage. The problem is not my body as I am not fat at all but in shape. I know he doesn't cheat on me because his work is just near our house (2 minutes by walk) and he barely goes out. I reckon he just was born like that (I mean no desire for sex at all). He doesn't like to kiss too. He said he wants to make love but can't make it. I don't want to stress him any more because I know he loves me a lot but just can't get in the mood. Should I just put up with the fact that he has no sex drive, or is there any solution to this situation? I won't get a divorce because I love him and he is a awesome person. Any answers would be appreciated. Thanks.

2007-12-02 18:30:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have 2 aunts that married white guys, and 2 uncles that married white girls and now are divorced. Another aunt that married an arab guy and now is divorced. A cousin that got knocked up by a black guy, and now is raising a kid alone. I've always been Ok with mixing, but now I'm worried. My girl is white, and my parents as pissed. What should I do?

2007-12-02 18:27:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't believe the number of times I have heard women brag about their husbands or boyfriends getting angry with them because they are so jealous. They seem to think that if their husbands accuse them of being in the restroom too long it's because of some torrid rendezvous --and that just means he loves you!
I just see it as insecurity on both ends. The guy is so insecure about himself that he takes it out on the wife and the wife is so insecure she thinks she has to put up with it.
I can fully understand when a man defends a woman's honor. That's different. If another guy is hitting on your wife or treating her disrespectfully then he needs to be set straight, but when a woman is constantly being accused of looking at another man or questioned about whether they really went to the store or not, how does that say LOVE?
All I see is a lack of trust and respect.

I don't mean to suggest it's only men who are this way, I know women can be just as guilty.

2007-12-02 18:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by mamabunny 4

if im on line she goes on my e-mail or myspace page to see what ive been doing

2007-12-02 18:17:56 · 18 answers · asked by Louis F 1

With two kids, he feels he's just another mouth to feed, so he decides to walk out on her and the children to help ease the burden.

There seems to be no other way because it's hard to find a job and he feels that the family is tying him down.

Would you hold it against him if he walks out on his wife and kids, even though his situation is dire?

Serious answers only please.

2007-12-02 18:16:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's never physically cheated on me,however he had an online relationship with a woman where he exchanged naked pics, nude sexual videos, and cyber sex. He lies about things, stupid things, gets calls he says are wrong numbers but when I checked the bill they clearly are not. He has text messages from guys about meeting and coming over (things i know nothing about and if people are coming into my home i should know about even if it's to watch tv!). I just don't trust him. I also don't think I'm in love with him anymore. I care for him very much but think I would be better off on my own. We don't have any real communication, I try and say things and he doesn't pay attention or gets defensive and blames it on me or says "oh everything is my fault huh"-meaning himself. I basically feel like I have a roommate at this point and don't know what to do. I'm just tired.

2007-12-02 18:15:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanted to thank all of you for your replies, even the guy who said my husband was just having fun, cut him a break. (fellow jerk, perhaps?)

2007-12-02 18:01:37 · 11 answers · asked by min_99_28562 1

Go out and have some fun. Since nobody was home (mil-bil had gone together, but bil had to go from there with his friends) and we had keys to the house, so we had to pick mil up. Well so far so good, I though we’ll pick her up and drop her home, and then we can go ahead with our plan. But, things didn't turn out that way, he took me with him to fetch her and her friend, and then sat down to chat with mil as if he doesn’t have enough time at home to talk to her. Of course our "little date" went kaput. U must be thinking what’s in a small date? But as I just told you he asked me out after so many months, it seems years! We haven't even gone for our honeymoon since we can't leave mil alone at home! Bil is there, but no, my husband has to take all responsibilities, n all this when bil is elder to him! Again, this year on our anniversary, I planned romantic dinner for two of us, but no, mil connivingly kept a dinner for family/friends well knowing what we both wanted! tell me what to do...

2007-12-02 17:56:25 · 13 answers · asked by mooncat 2

She has not spent a cent so far on the baby

2007-12-02 17:54:19 · 14 answers · asked by Mario R 2

So my parents recently split (divorce is being worked on, i think) anyways i found out my dad was on a dating site and that he was cheating way before they split( not the reason why they split though) Anyways my dad was on this dating site and I read his messages because he left it to sign in automotically. I know i shouldnt have read them( so dont give me a whole speech on that) but hes been messaging ladies to meet up and maybe have sex with them.. then he will come over and act like he loves my mom. She Knows about this and gets upset but whenever he comes over they have sex. It really obvious too. Im so upset but I dont know what I would say to her. One minute she says she doesnt like him and hes an *** for doing this but then she turns around and has sex with him.. when both her kids are home or not. Im 17 my brothers 12 and we can hear them its disturbing. But even more so thats shes saying stuff and doing the opposite. Im confused.How can i bring it up with my mom?

2007-12-02 17:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by Bekee M 1

I've been married for the last 9 years. Pretty happy all around. My husband is a wonderful person and I am happy to be married to him - most of the time. I view a problem to be is that he likes to binge drink when he is with his friends. He is 44 years old and doesn't have an off valve. When he passes the point of no return he can turn very mean vocally to me. He doesn't remember much the next day. Last Friday we went out with some friends. We all had a great time and my husband and I even connected again. By the end of the night it all changed. He is so drunk leaning against the bar and is openly flirting with a woman with his eyes. I see that he is writing out his phone number on a piece of paper and she is putting the number into her phone. When confronted he lies, then admits and then gets mean and then thinks I am blowing it out of proportion. He said that he would never act on it. His drunk and mean behavior is sometimes heard by our 6 year old daughter. What to do?

2007-12-02 17:32:21 · 29 answers · asked by Xpat in Asia 1

when you are just going to end up like every other unhappy bitter couple out there?

2007-12-02 17:31:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and my current bf of 4 years are friends. Well, my ex mentioned that he missed being friends with me to my bf, as I had wanted to stayed friends because we made better friends. Well, he said that he even got me something for xmas. Now, I wouldn't mind being friends again, i have no dating feelings for him, i would never date him again, he made a terrible bf, but he acts mean towards me. Like says stuff to make me mad cause he knows it will work, especially saying it around my bf when he's on the phone with me to make me think my bf is cheating on me. Its normal for him to act like this but if he wanted to be friends still, why wouldn't he treat me nicer (I don't talk to him mean or anything, i havent actually spoken to him directly in atleast a year). I'm not too concerned or anything, just curious. Serious answers please

2007-12-02 17:29:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 30 years old I have been seperated from the love of my life and my children I have tryed for the last 18 months to get back together but to no avail I cannot do it anymore financially mentally or physically. We were together for just under 10 years.

2007-12-02 17:28:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, well I am 17 years old and I have been with my guy for about 10 months now. We got engaged 4 months into the relationship and I just found out 2 months ago that I am pregnant. He is a very responsible guy and pretty much what every girl hopes for. We moved up the date to be married to February '08, is this a smart idea in your opinion?

2007-12-02 17:28:02 · 19 answers · asked by Cynthia 1

As my divorce already went to court and judgement was already given for child support for my child’s schooling. I choose not to fight for costs for university schooling thinking that at that time my ex-husband may provide the costs for that but seeing what my his is doing right now I don’t think that he would ever provide any support. Would I have to get another lawyer years from now to take him to court again for that or since judgment has been made it is final?

2007-12-02 17:21:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I have a perfect relationship. We are friends that talk about how happy we are now, etc. But we don't call each other on our B-days and we don't spend hours talking to each others parents. Now, I am engaged, and my finance just ran into his ex's parents and spent 20 mins. talking to them while i was alone shopping for OUR families Christmas gifts. I would've never done this to him....but needless to say, he gets calls from his ex's often. and frankly i'm sick of it....what can I do?

2007-12-02 17:12:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous