Marriage & Divorce - 2 December 2007

in general, women have much more hardened opinions about people than men.

Why?

2007-12-02 09:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Became really cool friends with a classmate (college) We decided no relationship, but had love for each other. We did have a sexual relationship that benefited both of us and we always had fun. We managed to keep our private relationship from our friendship which was even better. Well we got into a really bad argument bc he asked me to pick him up from wk, and after i dropped everything i was doing, when i got there, he had already found another ride. Keep in mind I was clear across town. That started a huge argument bc this wasn't the first time that happened, he did little things like this often. Now he ignores my calls and text messages, continues to sit next to me in class, and won't even look at me.This broke my every bit of my heart and I had a hard time dealing with it. i don't know how someone could treat a person like that, I thought we were friends above everything. Well it's been about a month, and we still don't really talk and he ignores my text messages still

2007-12-02 09:31:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She had to sell his belongings to pay the bills and feed the kids .

2007-12-02 09:29:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i lost my libido after my second child. does anyone know anything to boost it? i lost my marriage because of this but i want to be normal as i was or as close to it as i can get. please help

2007-12-02 09:29:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for a year and a half now. We have had some amazing times and really not so good times. When we are together and everything is fine we are perfect for eachother, its when we start talking about couple stuff. We are very jel people, even though we are married. My wife has told me she needs a break from us, to try and get back what we had. She wants to try and erase all the bad times we had and move on with us. I have made a apoint for us to talk to someone about us, she wants to do it. But at the same time i know i have not been the best husband, i really want her to realize like i have, how much i really love her. What do i do, is there anything i can do.

2007-12-02 09:28:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

and excellent at budgeting and all things financial. We share housework, and I look after the chidren in the morning while she works and then I work afternoons and early evenings ( about 30 hrs a week). I have an illness that flares up from time to time but feel ready to work longer hours. I cook every other day, bath the kids, get them dressed and the eldest ready for school then walk him in with the youngest in tow. I fix stuff round the house, split the day up at weekends if we both need a rest, I'm far from perfect but feel taken for granted. She's on antidepressants which seem to help, but not enough. I want to stay with her, I can't face the family breaking up.My biggest faults are my moods and irritation with the children, although they always know they are loved and get plenty of hugs and are happy. I think I must be very frustrated with the situation. I have been gearing myself up for a split for a while, all I have to do is stop cooperating...

2007-12-02 09:28:00 · 4 answers · asked by swlbodmin 1

I am married. I hate being married. My husband is a JW and preaches 7 days a week and does not work. I have been supporting us for the last 4 years with no help. I have a child from a prev relationship, Hubby takes no responsibility for him. Does not provide food or clothes or attention or play with him ( he is 11 now) or cook meals for him, or anything!! and never has. Just complains about his noise and quirks ( he is special Ed) like he is in the way.
Hubby doesn't take care of me at all. No dinners out, no gifts, no special anythings but he says he loves me and appreciates everything I do. I do everything cause I have to, not cause I am wanting to! Hubby's world revolves around his work outs, his runningm, his preaching, his enema's ( for colon health) shaving, showering, sleeping and resting. My washer has been broken for 3 weeks. He didnt even bother to try and look at it till I hauled it to the back patio MYSELF since he said it was SO much work to move it to look at it.

2007-12-02 09:23:20 · 19 answers · asked by Sickofneedylazypeople 2

Last summer my husband admitted that he didn't want me to be a housewife and so I went back to work. I have now picked up a full time job and he has picked up...nothing.

I work full time, raise 3 kids (1 disabled), go to school part time, take care of the house and everything I did before I went back to work. My husband is a truckdriver so he's only home 3 days a month. It all falls on me and he hasn't seemed to take into consideration how much I do.

Me self esteem was low before and I am really enjoying my job and the chance at a future.

My problem is that I'm tired and my husband doesn't seem to care. He will complain that the house isn't as clean as it use to be, but after doing the dishes he lays on the couch. I have so many things in my life and he has become an inconvenience. There is no evidence that he cares about the family. We don't have any kind of interesting conversations and sex is better by myself. How wrong am I for feeling this way?

2007-12-02 09:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by kidzrdrivinmekrazy 3

you're in a boat with your wife and your mother
and a fire broke into
who would you save if you can save only one??
it's a tough question so i won't vote for any answer as the best one.
for me
i'll save my mom bcz im not married

2007-12-02 09:17:53 · 4 answers · asked by Kazarolla 4

so. my boyfriend has the tendency to fall alseep on the couch, which means that i sleep alone. i am more than FED UP with it, nonetheless, i acknowledge that he may fall alseep sometimes, so i offered a compromise: 3x times a week, he lays down in our room (of course, he can continue to watch T.V. and he does not have to actually sleep when i sleep; just lie down next to me). he tells me he will make an "effort"...what the HELL does that mean! when you get tired, instead of laying on the couch, GET UP! am i crazy for this....i think most women would hate if their men fell asleep on the couch. i'm sick of it...and we havent dealt w/ the fight yet. and we've been having this fight for about 1 year..now, i'm ******* done w/ it and am about to just end this relationship. i'm sick of it. and i will ALWAYS want him to lay down in our bed for at least 3 nights a week, so how can we ever come to peace if he's unwilling> i love him more than anything, but this is becoming too much...

2007-12-02 09:17:30 · 23 answers · asked by happypants 3

husband, she always try her best to b nice wid him but he always gives her rubish and stupids things back,for example he always tries 2 b dectator, telling her where 2 go and where nt to go, wat 2 wear and wat to nt?she dont like all this but as human u need some one so she is rying her best to be wid him all i know is there is difference btw them she is white and he is from pakistan and there is cultural difference there, i dont know how to guide her, just now she told me she was hving such a nice time and all of sudden wen he saw her on net he became mad and srarted row over it, she sed she was looking 4 some sites for her assignment he thought she is chatting 2 some1, he took the router off and told her u cant see ur frnds any more and started arguements , she was crying 2 me i dont wat to say her, coz she always at the end does wat she likes and she is suffering a lot, i dont knw wat is my rolem plz let me knw wen ever she comes 2 me wat shall i say 2 her,

2007-12-02 09:16:14 · 20 answers · asked by Jemmy K 1

2007-12-02 09:12:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been married for almost 10 years and i want to leave my husband. he's a jurk when it comes to things like that, every time i talk about it to him he thinks i'm joking and tells me he won't let me leave him. how can i get him to leave? or atleast me leave? one thing about my husband ,he's a bad *** and is a real jurk when it comes to us splitting up. can someone please help me!

2007-12-02 09:08:37 · 8 answers · asked by stressed out 1

I find myself at a crossroads, I been married for 13 years we've had a lot of struggles in our relationship, but we've made it through most of them. There has always been a big one, the issue of kids, my wife doesn't seem to have the maternal instinct and what's worse she doesn't like to talk about it. The older I get the more I feel I'd like to be a father.

Enter the younger woman, she 's come into my life for only a short time but i feel a connection with her. Culturally we share a common background so I feel I can talk to her, she's brought out a lot of buried feelings about my culture that I denied were there.

I'm really confused, I can really picture my life with this other woman , what do I do? Do I talk to her about how I feel???

2007-12-02 09:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by Frank S 1

I have really let myself down and feel like a HUGE HYPOCRITE. Now I am cheating and know fully well it needs to stop. It's like we are on crack (I'm speaking for both parties involved), and my guilt is killing me and I am ashamed to tell anyone what I've done. It's more emotional than physical by all means. I am not going to try to shift blame on our spouses for our disrespectful behavior, although I'd be lying if I said they didn't add fuel to the fire. I am just basically looking for advice on how to end something without it ending ugly. I have noticed that we will make up petty arguments to find reason to leave it alone, but it's not working. It's hard to end, because we really like each other..BTW...Neither of us never plan to leave our family or want to hurt our spouses. This has to stop immediately. BUT HOW?

P.S. We were both cheated on by our spouses..but this is NOT the reason for affair..Not looking for it, but 1 day attraction led convo at work in different direction

2007-12-02 09:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

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He ordered them from this place on the net!

2007-12-02 09:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're getting married but I live in NY and he's in Chicago.. i dont know if i have to move to his location or not? or like how all this married to a government man works please help im nervous

2007-12-02 08:59:09 · 13 answers · asked by harhar 1

I was a peace of pooh for the first few years that me and my wife have been together. Now I work, cook, clean, get my kids up for school. If I set down for 10 min to take a break my wife jumps all over me for the things that I haven't done and then reminds me of the things that I have done in the past. AM I FIGHTING A LOOSING BATTLE?

2007-12-02 08:28:09 · 20 answers · asked by Chopper 1

2007-12-02 08:26:56 · 20 answers · asked by hear ya 1

A little background (please read before answering):
My husband and I are in our late twenties. Over the last two years, due to medical problems (his), our sex life has become almost nonexistent.
He was never super affectionate before these problems, but he's even less so now. So not only do I not get sex, I don't get touched...and when I DO get touched, I'm disappointed because it doesn't lead to sex! Sigh.
Anyway. Divorce isn't an option, and neither is having an affair. What I'm looking for is people who have perhaps been in a similar situation to tell me how they dealt with it, and perhaps offer me some ways of dealing with it myself.
So I need advice. Please?
The real question is, how can I find a sense of fulfillment without sex, and still be able to look my husband in the eye, and not hold it against him that he doesn't want sex anymore?

2007-12-02 08:22:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would u rather see you child marry a drug addict /looser of the same race or a college grad/great person of a different race?

2007-12-02 08:20:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

after a split, who legally owns the engagement ring?

2007-12-02 08:19:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you have gone through a divorce and don't mind sharing...

any tips/suggestions or things that might be overlooked?
anything you wish you knew beforehand?

2007-12-02 08:14:52 · 4 answers · asked by jen19music 4

It is my understanding that most guys (including myself) have imagined/dreamed/fantasiz... about who they want to marry, to the extent that you have some idea of what type of personality traits, behavioural characteristics, ideals, values, and even experience(sexual or otherwise) you look for in a potential wife?

2007-12-02 07:51:51 · 5 answers · asked by 1/6,833,020,409 5

2007-12-02 07:38:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

All my girlfriends, are married, dating married men. I'm single, and can't seem to find a date, married or single. Is there an advantage to dating a married woman, if your married?
And what are the disadvantages of dating a single woman?

2007-12-02 07:35:05 · 11 answers · asked by sista_sista_sister! 2

some just so he could see that they are not that comfortable!
It was so so funny and I now feel closer to him for doing it even though he was beat red the whole time.

2007-12-02 07:34:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

who treat them like dirt, run out on them and expect things to be peachy when they decide to return?
What are these guys thinking? Or do they think at all?

2007-12-02 07:30:54 · 13 answers · asked by Cafe au lait 2

For years I have wondered about the judgment of people who start a family without first establishing the stability of a strong relationship with a spouse and a stable job that pays enough to afford all the costs of raising a child.

I am not even referring to "welfare moms". Instead I am referring to the many teen-aged or early twenties parents who end up divorced and/or broke with little mouths to feed.

Why do people do this to themselves? Why do they do this to their children? Is if because they are emotionally stupid, immature, desperate?

2007-12-02 07:28:52 · 20 answers · asked by http://www.wrightlawnv.com 4

2007-12-02 07:28:35 · 15 answers · asked by lono 1