Is he playing games with my emotions? I want to smack him so hard!?

Question

Became really cool friends with a classmate (college) We decided no relationship, but had love for each other. We did have a sexual relationship that benefited both of us and we always had fun. We managed to keep our private relationship from our friendship which was even better. Well we got into a really bad argument bc he asked me to pick him up from wk, and after i dropped everything i was doing, when i got there, he had already found another ride. Keep in mind I was clear across town. That started a huge argument bc this wasn't the first time that happened, he did little things like this often. Now he ignores my calls and text messages, continues to sit next to me in class, and won't even look at me.This broke my every bit of my heart and I had a hard time dealing with it. i don't know how someone could treat a person like that, I thought we were friends above everything. Well it's been about a month, and we still don't really talk and he ignores my text messages still

and it really bothers me to this very day. Well I finally managed to let him be, and one day he comes into class, calling my the nickname he use to, and the when I was waiting for my next class, he walked by and tapped me, like playing around and kept walking. He missed two weeks of class after that, and when he came back I asked if he was ok, this was by text and he actually responded and was talking to me. What is he doing here? I feel like he's playing with my emtions

Answer 1

This sounds like high school.. Really, if you want to talk to him, turn to him before class or after class and talk to him. Don't have a relationship with someone that you can't communicate with.

Answer 2

If you have given yourself to him (sexually) and then he tells you the oldest line in the book "lets just be friends" (or something along those lines) then you should get out of there. What's the sense of being overly concerned with someone who thinks your cool enough to sleep with, but not awesome enough to commit to.

You wasting your time and emotions getting all wrapped up in a guy who your never going to be with. He will continue to manipulate and use you for sex in between girlfriends, if you let him, because it's obvious you like him and are hoping he will come around; he won't.

Answer 3

it sounds like he has a gurl on the other side and wants to keep you around incase something happens to his gurl that he has a real relationship with. being friends with benefits is not a good thing to get into.because if you cant tell you have already fallen in love with him even though you say you are just friends, you know that deep down in your heart you love him more than that . so either tell him how you feel, and have a real relationship with him , or stop playing the little game of life.

Answer 4

If you were friends with benefits, when did the heart come in and have "love"issues?? You over think everything, you fell for the guy and he didnt, take it as a lesson and dont mix friendship with sex, obviously you cant manage it.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

You are playing games with your emotions.....you thought you could be friends with benefits and no emotional attachment; you allowed yourself to be in this situation. Now you know it rarely works.

Answer 7

Did you let him know how much he hurt you... Sometimes guys don't realise what they are doing and if you don't tell him how much he hurt you when he did all of that he will never know... I think it's important that you let him know where he stand with you now and tell him it's not tolerated... Don't talk to him more then you have too..

Answer 8

Men not emotional except for lovemaking women are emotional
Men think from head not heart women think from heart not head
Men can be cold hearted women can be never be cold hearted
Men can play with emotions like its nothing women can never play with emotions
This can be vice versa but always remember this about men

Answer 9

THERES ALWAYS TWO SIDES TO EVERY STORY AND THIS STORY SOUNDS LIKE A GRADE SCHOOL SPAT. GROW UP AND GET OVER IT AND TALK TO HIM AND BE FRIENDS. OR DON'T. DOESN'T MATTER TO ME.

Answer 10

would it not have been better to learn how he really is before having sex than having sex first then finding out what a jerk he really is?
LEARN from your mistake and do not repeat it hon.