Marriage & Divorce - 6 December 2007

My boy friend cheated on me and got someone pregnant I love alot the reason for that is because we've been together for past sixteen years. So far his been making it up to me so should i let him stick around or let him go?

2007-12-06 21:34:06 · 33 answers · asked by patty5 1

should I wait until after christmas, I cant' stand it at home anymore, I love my husband but he is not the man I married one min he is nice to me then next he can be so mean, he won't talk to me and tell me why he will go for days without talking to me then he lies and gives pathetic reasons why he has not spoke to me or slept in our bed, when we are good everything is perfect but it never lasts, he insults me infront of our friends, but then can completely change and make me breckfast in bed cups of tea when I want them tell me i'm beautiful etc etc, we have more bad times than up times but I dont' think I can take much more, I have no where to go either no family close by and I don't want to leave my job that is all I have, I can't sit down and talk this through with him as we will just tell me to f off when he is ready to talk to me he will just act like nothing has happened and start being nice again,

But I need answers,, any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks.

2007-12-06 21:32:12 · 18 answers · asked by shala 2

the woman ad a child while sas married she got pragnet. but when her man found out about her. he.divorced her. and little did he know. he wasnt the childs. dad. i took a pertenty. test. and as well the child from a indepent groop. it came back possative. i am the childs dad. but he.s bee keeping everything for the child by law up where she was a easy whore to do this i know for a fact. this trailer park trash. the child is now.6. years old aand not the real father. i am tests showned it dont he have a right to know even he.s not with her but keeping the child it.s a girl child but this trailer park trash got pragnet when i was with her. i am at least man enought to let him know that but her sad self isnt even he divorced her isnt this the right thing to do where i caused a divorce. they was married for.24. years ad had.3. other children probley not his where this trailer park trash was as easy for me and she did all the come on . toward it with me those streach marks was on it. ***

2007-12-06 20:55:33 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3

what would you do if you known this ladie for 12 years but wont talk to you but talks to your daughter and is 29 years of age ad married to another ladie and wants you to stay over would you stay over if she talks to your daughter and not you but you and her used to be best friends but now your not

2007-12-06 20:41:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Could you still live with her in a platonic relationship.

2007-12-06 20:18:19 · 15 answers · asked by breeze1 4

What does this mean to you? As far as where concerened we only have one son and one daughter inlaw now! This came from my mother inlaw who has two sons. She actually said that after we had all had an agruement I f it was said to you how would you interpret it? How would you feel?

2007-12-06 19:51:04 · 10 answers · asked by Blondie 2

2007-12-06 19:44:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been light hearted person belived in simple philosophy and get into marriage without a thought as i though all human are good. But goodness is not just enough for marriage..

I had been through maariage, parenting, divorce, in love, re-marriage and living happily now..

Experience of the married life is full circle for me and if anybody wish to have specific questions please let me know.. anybody who wants to get married please let me know for any questions/counsiling..

I am keeping busy but will reply to all for matter of any serious concern for marriage..

2007-12-06 19:30:38 · 7 answers · asked by m_cyberfriend 4

the past, would you want to know everything you are forgiving before moving on?

2007-12-06 19:23:32 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 3

2007-12-06 19:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by ngqabutho2002 1

2007-12-06 19:13:05 · 9 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5

Im 20s student.A guy mid 30s met online(2000).Hes family friends son from decades.He had gang relations so was thrown out of home lived with friends in same apt as me we never met then went abroad.Games were played lies told but we never met(thank god).I left 2yrs due to ops he was with me through it.He flirts on married relative by txtsms who left abusing him after being found out,he calls chats with my pals who rejected advances.I know about it but said nothing.We shared gifts.We are good friends 5yrs love was 1 sided.I end it told him im leaving for good.Hes gone crazy screams abuses calls names put his gang on speaker phone told them to hurt my family said has cards sent for his bday recorded voice tells everyone im after him.My cousins told him family secrets which i found out from him.Hes told cousin to tell my mother.We have never met.5yrs no love not met so i put end to whatever.Why is he acting this way after 5yrs what do i do?what do u think?

2007-12-06 18:50:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you have a husband who downright refuses to do things right just because, do you accept it or have a talk about it? What if the talk doesn't get you anywhere?

Let's say he refuses to do something ... period. Because he doesn't like doing it. You specifically ask him to help you in that area and he agrees, but never takes action.

I am talking housework here. He only likes to wash the dishes, and he doesn't like doing that -- that's just what's easiest for him. He doesn't sweep. He doesn't mop. He washes the dishes and cleans off the countertops. He doesn't clean the kitchen table either.

When I talked to people about it before and asked questions about it on here, people tell me to back off. Relax. He's a man. That's how men are. But should I accept that? No, you can't change people but should you accept someone PURPOSELY going against the grain. If you don't know something you should ask, right?

Obviously, I can't get into an argument about everything.

2007-12-06 18:49:05 · 12 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

A 17 year old girl played around a little with an older man (no sex involved) and people are calling it child molestation. Yes, she is underage but isnt this different than if she were way younger?

2007-12-06 18:44:22 · 19 answers · asked by Christine 3

2007-12-06 18:42:41 · 10 answers · asked by rascaltownangel 2

im keeping in mind that this is a person's new lease on life and i should take it all like, "we're just dating and enjoying eachothers company". im fine with that, but i also dont want to waste MY time. even though i understand that the person is still fresh out of a marriage, ultimately im investing emotions regardless. even though i say i will be fine, there is a possibility i may get too involved and hurt...OUCH!

2007-12-06 18:30:43 · 16 answers · asked by mylilgemini21 1

I was married for 36 years with a good income, about $75k. The dissolution says I have to give my ex $1300/month. I now have the chance to go overseas and make twice that. My attorney says if I do, my attorney says she'll get a big bump, up to something like $4600. WHY is she entitled to a better level of living *after* the divorce? Where's the equity in that?

Yes, this is a rhetorical question. I'd also appreciate a citation in California law. This just seems wrong- if I do better, she gets to do better, even though the "better" is years after the divorce? Thanks ....

2007-12-06 18:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by going_for_baroque 7

heard geminis esp mans wired differently. Just tell him to get lost and leave you alone. Stop texting him, you give him more reasons to follow you around??? is it true??

2007-12-06 18:09:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My new boyfriend bin all tryin to please me wich is nice I love the flatery, but I no about something that he did trying to be thoughtfull only it wasnt..in my eyes if this is true. He got me flowers that looked nicely put together but I heard he got them from a semitery. my cousin coby told me this. I am creeped out by this but I dont want to offend my boyfriend...how do I go about this??? ALSO: I would never want to beleive bull**** like this but I no that it MIGHT...be true caus my new boyfriend has no money but maybe 10 bucks to his name. He's looking for new work...so what do I do

FACTS:

1. My boyfriend doesnt have that much money, where di they really come from????
2. Coby doesnt really like my boyriend his name is bones btw and so is he making this up????????

me=confused

I dont want them on display in my window if they are from a place like this :(

I dont want to attract spirits/etc

2007-12-06 18:05:33 · 19 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

I can't seem to make a connection in the corporate world. I've been in between jobs for several months, and there is always an issue with me. I've gone on tons of interviews, and be snubbed at every one of them. It seems like I sound great on the phone, but once they meet me it's a different story. I might lose this job that I'm at right now because I'm not producing enough. There is always an issue with me. I'm smart, kind, technically inclined, and want to make money. My brother and sister have moved on in their careers and are very well off. I on the other hand keep struggling to make ends meet. I want to be in IT, but I can't afford school right now, and most jobs want someone who has a degree. I feel trapped, and confused.

2007-12-06 18:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by yayaquack 4

Well here is the story, I have a daughter and i didnt know anything about untill my daughters mom filed for child support 9 years later, thats how i found out that i had a daughter, my daughters mom was young and was really bad going to jail all the time so my daughters grandparents raised her for 8 years then my daughters mom got her stuff together and then filed for welfare and child support. My daughters mom had gotten married and her husband works under the table getting cash and not reporting that income so both are playing the system. Can someone help me on this i have to pay $800.00 dls a month plus 100 more for medical for my daughter.

2007-12-06 18:01:47 · 9 answers · asked by losretana 1

2007-12-06 17:54:51 · 15 answers · asked by starbow 2

ok heres my story i was 17 and this 29 yr old beg to marry me and wrote me poems and song and told me he alwyas gonna be there fo me no matter what and i fell in love with him and give him 100% trust, he promised i was gonna beable to go to college well to keep him happy i end up workin 2 jobs trying to pay most of the bills and then 8 months later he started to treat me bad cuase alot of bills was coming and he was stressin, well i got into this bad car accident where my car wen under a semi trailer, ad he wasn there for me , put his new car sales man job be4 me didnt want to take me to the hospital! so i left cus i was shocked and i left, next day i tried to work thing out he didnt want nothing to do with me, then i found out i waspregnant and he didnt care wither, well after 7wks ihad a miscarrige, we've bin separated for 2 months and he dont want nothingto do with me! he backstab me, how can i get over this? does karma really happen? is there achance he will be back??

2007-12-06 17:53:27 · 8 answers · asked by rhea 1

He gets angry for the smallest reasons, I hate to walk away but if I try talking to him, it just makes things worse.I love him, but I just dont know what to do anymore.He was diagnosed as bi-polar last year, and was taking meds, but it made him a zombie, and he couldnt afford them anymore.

2007-12-06 17:48:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you got the one of your dreams, what dreams did he meet? If you settled, what did you settle on and why (in other words, what did you either overlook or do without and why)? What advice would you give others as to the settling issue? What did you find most important/least important and why?

2007-12-06 17:47:00 · 9 answers · asked by lmspencr 4

yea im just wondering for reasearch but is marriage a binding contract???im pretty sure it is but i need to make sure...thans you guys

2007-12-06 17:45:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If after I make love to my wife her vagina makes a farting sound does that mean she's cheating? She also seems to act distant. And I practically have to beg her for sex. I also have other hints, but I don't want to tip you ladies off. So can you please explain how you all would act if you were cheating on your spouse? Don't forget to answer about the farting thing. Just curious.

2007-12-06 17:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by lifelongskinsfan 3

so imberasing, I hope he never reads this. He just moved in to my place, we been together for almost 4 months, and now that he is here, he bin gettin real casual, wich is a really good thing....so, the other night in the middle of the night, passed 3 in the morning, I open the bathroom door, caus the light was on, and there he is in a pink robe, and frilly underwear and the worst is high heels that arnt mine. At first I acused him of cheeting and he said that no he just likes to dress up. DO MEN DO THIS?????????????? I never bin with a guy that does this and I am really freaked about this, it happend last night and ever sinse then....I just kind of ignore it. He said that he likes this, and he's not embarassed, but I havent left my doughter with him ever sinse....cous does this make him weird????????????? What do i do????

2007-12-06 17:43:17 · 40 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

/ disrespectfull. and after they break up why do they wanna go back to their relationship and cry over it

2007-12-06 17:43:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend just called me and told me that she just kissed a man. Just kissing and nothing else. But of course french kissing that is!
She is married. She said that it was just the excitement that push her to kiss another man. The fact that he was new and stuff. IS this cheating?? I told her YES. But she insisist that it's NOT!!

2007-12-06 17:33:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous