Marriage & Divorce - 6 December 2007

i messed up this time, how do i get back in his good graces?

2007-12-06 13:54:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been hanging out with another couple just about every weekend for a little over a year now. We're all really good friends. In fact, my husband and him have been best friends for about 10 years. We go places together. Our kids play together. All should be great! The problem is that I think my husband is sleeping with his best friends wife. Any time we're together, they always sit beside each other. They play around with each other. They're really touchy, feely with each other. I catch them staring at each other a lot and they act like they're sharing a private joke sometimes. Also, they always seem to find some reason to be alone together. Sometimes she has to ride with him to the store. Or he has to take something to her house "for his friend". It all seems a little suspicious to me. I've never seen anything really inappropriate happen between them. I just have a gut feeling there's more there than should be. How do I find out for sure? Help!

2007-12-06 13:49:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Honestly, why do men cheat? Have you ever cheated on your spouse or girlfriend? If so please explain why. And if you are a cheater does that mean that you don't love your wife or girlfriend? Can you love two women or more at the same time? Is that possible?

2007-12-06 13:46:52 · 21 answers · asked by abigailbanksabi 2

hi...
I graduated with a degree in electrical engineering , But due to some family problems and personal ( break up/depression ) I couldn't find a decent job in my field . So now I am saving up enough money to pay my car ( monthly ) and for an apartment Once I find a job in a state close by ( I say " in a state close by because - Entry level Electrical engineering jobs are really hard to find in New york )


So Inorder to save this money for room and for Car . I Been looking for a small; job . Today I got a job at Loews looking after the plants , part time 20 hours / week - 10 dollars..

2007-12-06 13:33:57 · 7 answers · asked by sum142121 1

i was outside smoking and saw cig butts with lipstick, a lot of them. i knew he slept with a girl out of state and we were not together , but how am i to deal with these findings......

2007-12-06 13:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by SARA 1

why are prenups (especially majority of women) found to be bad? what i dont understand is when questions get posted about guys getting screwed over the large amount of answers are "you should have gotten a prenup" (mostly by women) and when questions ABOUT prenups happen they are slammed down to be bad things. that they "doom" the entire marriage. how is that fair? considering what mostly happens in court how are we guys to protect ourselves? i dont understand.

why are prenups looked upon as things that you do not trust or love your wife, isn't it enough to look at society today and what happens? why not?

2007-12-06 13:23:30 · 16 answers · asked by Hi T 1

I am 21 year old female with a boy of five and a girl of 3. I had my first born at the age of sixteen. I am a great mother..so iv'e been told. I care for my children at home they've never been taken care of by anyone else. I dropped out of highschool so I dont even have a diploma. I am legaly married to my childrens father. I've been with him since I was 15. However he has a drinking problem. He is not violent towards me or the children, but I feeel as though he neglects the children and me. He works as a maintanance man in the apartment complex we live in . He's been there for the past 5 years.it's just that lately he's been coming home late, drinking with his co workers, and has seemed to lose interest in his us. I suffer from severe depression from being at home all the time. I always look forward to him coming home. Lately I just feel that all this staying at home is whats causing me to be depressed and stressed. I have no place to go tho...I have no job. I feel hopeless.

2007-12-06 13:21:55 · 24 answers · asked by ms daisy 2

Seriously, if I have sex a couple times in one day, then I want it even more the next day. On the other hand, if I go a few days without, I'm not as frisky.

2007-12-06 13:21:45 · 18 answers · asked by jeff b 4

What did you do....

2007-12-06 13:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother has a wife from the philippines and he brought her to live here in the US near our family.Anyway we first met we had that brief staring,love at first sight moment together but we faked our way through the first meeting and i left quickly trying to get my head together.I am thinking its your brothers wife and she is off limits.So then she starts to find reasons to come to my house and spend time with me.She told my brother I am giving her French lessons(which i am).During these lessons of course we talk,and one day she says to me out of nowhere,"I wish i would have met you first so i could have married you,You are so sweet and so perfect for me,I love you so much and I want to spend the rest of my life with you.I thought your brother was but I was wrong,I love you and i cant love anyone else."I feel the same and we started kissing but i stopped it there and told her she had to leave and let me think about this.I feel the same way she does,I love her but shes my brothers wife.

2007-12-06 13:20:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

im married but now separated im confused as to what to do i have many needs and im all by myself,if i try to fulfill my needs that would be considered adultry and im also in no rush to get back with my spouse we have many issues to work out. what should i do in the mean time to cure my lonely and get my needs fulfilled ? please dont mention toys i hate that

2007-12-06 13:13:38 · 13 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3

2007-12-06 13:12:01 · 24 answers · asked by Creamer 1

He always calls me and says are you bussy and then he starts to talk to me all sweet and say's he made a mistake and when I ask he if he still cares about me he says that Im better off without him. Everyone tell's me that he is with someone else and it's only been four months since we seperated. My son even said he over heard him tell her I love you. How can you stop loving someone that has been married for 11 yrs.

2007-12-06 12:58:18 · 22 answers · asked by shygirl 1

He is so controlling what I do I'm not aloud to get a job or he thinks I'm with another guy. He has abused me physical and now it is really bad verbally in front of the kids. I'm scared and don't know what to do. Mostly the holidays are coming up and he refused to give me money.. very confused what to do

2007-12-06 12:47:30 · 22 answers · asked by becky p 1

2007-12-06 12:37:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really need some help figuring out what's going on. I'm married, and about 2 months ago I met this guy at my work, who is a customer and he seems to like me and of coarse I like him too.After I get off, I just cant stop thinking about him. When I'm at work, I'm waiting for him to come in - it's crazy.I know he was married, and I guess not any more. I love my husband but I have strange feelings towards this guy.For example, today I asked a co worker if she's seen him (cuz she's the one that told me that one can tell we like each other) and like 5 secs later he comes in. She said it was funny how I sensed him.Anywayz, I love my husband and I would never want to hurt him, but I also want to be happy myself, and right now I'm very confused. Has anyone been in this situation? What would you do?

2007-12-06 12:35:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-06 12:31:17 · 22 answers · asked by a91mtl 3

i am accidently pregnancy with my bf of one year.i was on pills, but due to antibiotic intake, the pill was not effective last time(i have been on pills for whole year). so am 7 weeks pregnant. he is 13 years older than me and divorced before i met him. i am about to finish uni, and apply for skill-in-demand immigration to australia.(am a qualified accountant in few months).

2007-12-06 12:22:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Also posted this in singles section, but thought that since te wedding is in a month that mabye it should be here as well. Been with him three years. Never cheated. Never wanted to. Then with a month to go, I weaken. I had no right to do what i did. But if i tell him, I get dumped. I'd like to put it behind me. Is that not proper? The friend seduced me. And we had sorta been in a fight. Doesn't make my actions right. But I still dont want to punish myself for one terrible mistake. The friend promises not to say anything. In fact, he keeps begging me not to say anything. Thoughts?

2007-12-06 12:18:31 · 40 answers · asked by sudempski 1

Or you a cold heart person" who does not care about other people feeling

2007-12-06 12:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, my girlfriends mother is divorced with a husband who pays minimum for child support, shes in debt and is working hard to pay for the house she has just gotten, the car, along with food. She has a daughter in 9th grade and a son in 7th whom she struggles to provide for. She works for the city in the emergency department on weekdays but the pay doesn't cut it.My girlfriend keeps letting it out on me saying she wishes she could have more than a cup of noodles a day and a varety of furniture, she wants her mom to stop crying from the stress.
Their family's financial state just blows and is terrible and her mom is on this struggle alone, i really want to help them, somebody anybody please is their anyway, shape or form, this can be helped? any sggestions for the family? any suggestions on what i can say when she crys to me? anything.. please, bu thank you for taking the time to read this.

2007-12-06 12:11:30 · 4 answers · asked by aleksx_12 1

this Christmas. And what are your chances of getting it?

2007-12-06 11:51:28 · 21 answers · asked by Left Wing kool aid stops here 3

I am in Saint Cloud Minnesota and he is in Willmar Minnesota and I wish that I hadnt moved up here back at the end of April

2007-12-06 11:50:28 · 13 answers · asked by margaretann_larson 1

. We just Had a BIG FIGHT! I really want a dog. I have had a dog my whole life, but once I got engaged and moved away, I left our family pet home. He is a cat person and we have 2 cats in our shared home. At first he was all for getting a dog etc etc...but now he says he doesn't want one. I told him thats we got 2 cats because he wanted and beg for a kitten. I told him that its' not fair that he calls all the shots in our relationship..We started screaming calling each other selfish. I said leave the house if your going to talk with me with disrespect, and he said ***** Off! and left and slammed the door. Has anyone been in my position where a spouse left over a long argument? What do I do?. His Cellphone is on our floor so I can't reach him.

2007-12-06 11:47:38 · 34 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4

After many years of trying to make our relationship work I told my wife I wanted to seperate and divorce. The children want to go with me but my wife refuses to leave. She states that she can not deside what she wants to do and so just stays. I wish to keep the house (ie pay my wife for her half and the kids want to stay here too.) The only option I can see is to leave for now and get an apartment. My kids are 12 and 15 and really want to stay with me, but I think technically if I take the kids it can be considered abduction? I am unsure what to do.

2007-12-06 11:38:42 · 11 answers · asked by smilybastard 1

She's young, married, loves to party, lives her live the way she wants to and always ignores me because i'm just a simple person , don't smoke drink or party and i don't mind being home. She never says "hi" and when i see her in public pretends she doesn't know me. Now the holidays is coming and from how she treats me and it's been 3 years now since i have been married t her brother, i have given up on having her as anything but a figure whose just there. I am tired of being nce and having her think that she is holier than god and all that,
how many of you can relate? did it work for the better?

2007-12-06 11:35:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

1 being the worse
10 being the best of course

2007-12-06 11:20:59 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so me and my fiance have been talking about getting a couples counselor for some personal issues we have been having within our relationship...I just want to hear peoples feed back on the successes of going or the disasters that have happened, and if there are other ways of talking about things without fighting or things getting out of control... (THIS WAS OUR LAST OPTION AND IT HAS FINALLY CAME TO IT)...

2007-12-06 11:15:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and I still love each other and live together . What does it mean when he still has a thing for the girl that broke use up but still loves me.

2007-12-06 10:48:05 · 5 answers · asked by ? 1

He is coming very early in the AM to get our sons. He will bring them home around 6pm. They will be able to open their gifts under the tree that "Santa" dropped off. But they will be getting dressed immediately for his pick up.

My oldest son is 12 and knows Santa doesn't exist. My 8 year old still believes.

Would it be tacky to have a one to two gifts from MOM which I could let them open on X-mas eve so they have time to enjoy it?

Or just wait until they get home X-mas night to enjoy all of their gifts?

This is my very first time without them. . . We were married 10 years and together 4 years before that.

2007-12-06 10:31:39 · 22 answers · asked by Miss Kelly 4