Marriage & Divorce - 6 December 2007

or for worse?"....now come on..People do not stay for worse...now a days...Years ago women got beat and were verbally abused and took all kinds of crap....But not now...some women use to stay with drug addicts or alcoholics....but not now....Most churches will allow you out of a marriage that is no more...what is your opinion???

2007-12-06 10:30:24 · 13 answers · asked by sweet 4

I have an amazing husband.
He is selfless,extremely caring,basically an all around INCREDIBLE man.

But,I sometimes feel bad because he puts me so far ahead of himself.
I'm 5 months pregnant,and I understand that he feels the need to "pamper" me,but I feel like he is just forgetting about his own needs.
Ex:ample: He has like 4 pairs of pants for work,that are all tore up,and he has been saying that he needs new pants.But when we go shopping he is so concentrated on getting something for me that he puts his need for new pants on the back burner,I'll go over to the men's section to look for stuff for him and he'll just be like ,"No,I really don't need new pants all that bad."
I'm not selfish either,and I know that's how this is coming across,but I try to get him to do things for himself,and he won't.
He can bring me home stuff everyday and its fine.
But the other day I surprised him with some new clothes and he was like,"Babe why did you do that?I told you I don't need them.."

2007-12-06 10:16:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-06 09:57:33 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-06 09:45:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started working at a new place and am attracted to a co-worker of mine. We have a lot in common and we recently became friends. we chat online during work and have even chatted at home. We stayed online for 3.5 hrs. the other night and it seemed like he didn't want to stop, even though it was 5 a.m. He recently asked me out to lunch and I went, but only then did he bring up a "fiance". Why did he wait so long? By his actions, I thought he was single. I asked him about his wedding online and he abruptly ended the conversation. Now, he won't talk to me nor message me, but I'm not doing anything either. I AM attracted to him, but I am married (unhappily) and I don't want to jeopardize his relationship either. I still want to be friends with him. Should I initiate a conversation just to relieve this awkwardness we're in or just remain how I am? Did he want anything from me?

2007-12-06 09:39:38 · 6 answers · asked by aries8422 2

2007-12-06 09:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The reason I am asking is because a friend of mine told me it was more common over there them it is here in the Uk and I don't believe them.

2007-12-06 09:04:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you shop for your spouse's gifts, wrap them, etc for them, or do they do that for themselves? I did, but I started feeling like his mother after awhile. I mean, he should do this for himself, right?
He knows all of these people better than I do, too. It's hard to shop for people you don't know well.
What's the norm? Do most wives shop for their husbands' holiday gifts?

2007-12-06 08:58:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

im with a girl who has been hurt in the past
she s a commitment phobia and is very ambivalence

i like her alot but she told me she has been hurt soo bad

is there any chance for something? or should i give up and just be a friend n pursue another woman?

any tips and advice will be very helpful
thanks

2007-12-06 08:51:14 · 18 answers · asked by Steven 1

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago. It was so painful for me, I really did love him. We were together for 3 years. I never felt so much for anyone before. However, he decided to end our relationship as we became long-distance and he could not handle it. Now he found out I am going travelling, he says he is scared of loosing me. He told me the other day he loves me, he misses me and he has so much regrets but he is not coming back to me now. He said to meet after I come back from my travels? Why is he suddenly now worried? And should I meet him after? I do love him very much !

2007-12-06 08:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

The subject of my question is about sex . Do you want to please your man in bed or get your needs met ? For example: If your man wants to get it on and you dont feel like it do you think about making your man happy or think of yourself and not put out?

2007-12-06 08:49:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked an advice on what to do, because my husband dumped me with an eight month old daughter. I received a lot of hostile answers, why? All because I told them about my concerns about his ex (he broke with her shortly before the wedding, she was pregnant then), and married me. She tried to screw him for the child support, but couldn't, luckily, because she is abroad. She is absolutely ugly, and constantly complaining, and was no good for him at all. I came into his life in time for him to realize that she was no good.
Now she dumped me, and took all his assets off-shore, and I can't get a dime. I am very good looking, educated, and do not deserve this at all. Yet it seemed as if people were judging me, and being gleeful about what happened to me. We are different, she got what was her due. I am a better, superior person, and deserve compassion. Why are there so many hostile people in this world?

2007-12-06 08:47:09 · 27 answers · asked by what 2

Would he try to compete with the man she is attracted to or simply feel jealous and talk nasty to her? Or would he just ignore it?

2007-12-06 08:44:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

the person i see has recenty discussed her partying hard ways and she admitted in a very flip manner that she is doing cocaine. my eyes bugged. she was so flip and this IS NOT her. she is usually very straight laced. but i had suspected for a bit, weight loss, wide eyed, strange chats, weird sleep habits. she slept all day sat and sunday and once went to work at 8 after getting home at 7. we don't live together but she told me this. i don't do the club thing with her all the time, very rarely. i keep my nose clean so to speak but she is always around for me. What should i do? i am upset at her cocaine use. she says she has it under control but i think it is going to bite her on the *** one morning and he won't know what happened. What shoudl I Say? Should I leave it, her? I am upset confused.

2007-12-06 08:36:43 · 16 answers · asked by Derrick Sandoval 3

My husband & I have been married for 5 years, I'm happy with our relationship. Well, a couple weeks ago I come to find out before we met he had been having sex with his brothers wife. Apparently it was a couple years before we met, so I can't really say anything. I was just really surprised he would do something like that. It just doesn't seem like something he would do, I kinda feel like, do I really know him or what? His brother & his wife are still together & there is no bad blood between him & his brother. But, when I'm around them I feel a little uncomfortable, to be honest it bothers me. I wish it didn't. Just wanted to see what you think about it.

2007-12-06 08:34:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was working on a school project with a girl and she screwed up and made us fail so I said she was a F*cking idiot and slapped her in the face. She started crying and said she was goign to "kick me where it counts" what does that mean?

2007-12-06 08:27:33 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Canada and was wondering if anyone could answer this question. A friend of mine is leaving her husband and was wondering if she is liable for half of all his debt. All the credit cards and the mortgage are in his name but they acquired all of this debt while married. Any help would be appreciated. thanks.

2007-12-06 08:26:43 · 2 answers · asked by seeingred 3

For about a month and now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and he said this could never happen again because he feels guilty. We have a 10 yr old son together & he still lives with the other woman. He stopped all contact with me once he met her 2 yrs ago. She interfered in anything that had to do with our son...she threatened me said she would take make my ex take my son away from me but now like I said after 2 yrs he initiated the sex and since I still love him I did it and now I feel hurt because he said this will not happen again. What should I do? If he asked to meet with me why do you think he did that? I failed to add, when this first happened he told me that she got pregnant from him 3 weeks after being with her, she argued so much with me telling me that my man is now her man and to leave them alone...

2007-12-06 08:26:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where you have 2 choices. The first choice is your spouse whom you've committed to building a future with. Your spouse offers you love, stability, commitment, loyalty and the security of knowing that you will always be together. But there is a lack of passion in this marriage.... for several reasons, kids, work, schedules, etc... Then this second choice comes along out of the blue and you begin building a relationship with this individual and this relationship promises a large possibility of this passion & intimacy you've been missing in your marriage with your spouse. They make you smiles when u hear their voice and you look forward to seeing them every chance you get. However, there is no stability in this relationship. Because if the feelings ever go away, you have nothing...

2007-12-06 08:25:05 · 30 answers · asked by unknown 4

I've been married for about 2 years (together for 6). Over the last 6 months I've been having an affair. I fell in love with another man. Meanwhile working out the problems with my husband who I love also. My marriage is going ok, but I can't - I don't want to stop seeing this other guy. I love him, he is my match. Do I just carry on like this? I can't bear the thought of leaving either one of them.

2007-12-06 08:22:08 · 44 answers · asked by Leo Lady 1

I got remarried last year. He's 11 years younger than I am, making him 28. I strongly suspect my 19 year old daughter is sleeping with him. There are many many clues that I wont go into detail, and I've tried to confront them but no luck so far. We haven't had sex in over a month and I have a feeling this is why.
Can someone please give me some more info.

2007-12-06 08:17:13 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-06 08:13:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If they asked you to change your appearance. Would you change your hairstyle (cut it, let it grow, dye it, different style, etc.), your mode of dress, your weight? Get colored contacts? Change facial hair? Trade glasses for contacts or vice versa? Get braces or get your teeth whitened?

Would you go even further? Would you undergo plastic surgery?

I am just curious. With all the rising trends in modifying one's self, I am curious as to what people would accept as motivation.

2007-12-06 08:08:13 · 19 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5

I'm going through a divorce right now, and I'm going to be moving back to my home state, getting a new job and starting school (college). I've never lived without roomates or anything, and my best friend in the world is deployed to Iraq until February 2009. I'm wondering if anyone has any advice on how to keep the lonliness from driving me crazy. I'm trying to keep busy, but at night I know it's going to get to me. Any suggestions?

2007-12-06 08:03:35 · 20 answers · asked by ivyheatherclover 2

2007-12-06 07:59:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm with my son all the time, like 24-7 and I love it.. my son is 9 months old. he used to say mama all the time and will crawl to me saying ma ma. well lately he's been saying da da over and over. he crawls to me saying it. and when my husband has him he still says it. I think he calls me Dada. honestly it drives me insane. i love hearing him say ma ma. and now he says doesn't say ma ma anymore . I am glad that he does Dada, I just want him to know who I am.any ideas on how to teach him that I'm mama?

2007-12-06 07:59:34 · 19 answers · asked by Lori T 2

My husband decided to leave our marriage because
I did not like his friends- WHo are drunks-
I spent too much money--- Yes I spend money-- But I also work and he spends too.
and he felt uncomfortable in his house--- I moved things around the house and like it very neat.
How could someone just think that this justifies his living with another women.
He has not been happy for many years

2007-12-06 07:50:55 · 32 answers · asked by mm 1

Is it bad luck to wear a VERY pretty diamond ring If your not married? I'm looking at some rings on sale and they are beautiful! But I've heard that it's bad luck to wear a diamond ring if your not married. I mean i'd be wearing it on my right hand not my left. And I'm already in a serious relationship for about 2 years now, so I dont see much harm. What do you think??


I mean come on, look at how nice they look for such a good price!

http://www.rogersandhollands.com/jewelry/product/rings/White-Gold-Princess-Cut-Diamond-Solitaire-Ring%20/100649

http://www.kay.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product1|10101|10001|-1|22332605|15055|15055.15090.15431

2007-12-06 07:50:17 · 14 answers · asked by It's Me 2

Well me and my coworker hooked up while him and his wife were separated due to the fact that she was in rehab for stealing from a liquor store and got probation and popped for coke twice. well i found out about a month ago that i was pregnant and he is the father but now him and his wife are back together and they are doing good together i don't want to be a home wrecker should i tell him or just keep it to myself?

2007-12-06 07:48:30 · 59 answers · asked by steffbabyg 1

My husband and I have been married for 12 yrs. and 7 yrs ago we split cuz I liked to go out & he didnt; I met a guy, but I always denied anything happening. We got back together for about 1yr and we split a 2nd time cuz he was talking to a co-worker and decided he was not happy w/me anymore.(she understood him?)..We tried again for the sake of our 2 daughters. I know there is a lot of commerodery when you work in a large group. He is a gaurd in a prison and a couple of days ago a female officer called his cell phone in the middle of the night, but hung up. He called back to the prison and asked if anyone had called him and they patched the call to her. They talked for about 15 minutes. I asked him why she had called and said she just needed advise.He denies anything is going on and says he talks to everyone at work. Our relationship is normal...we have problems with bills and payments, kids, work, like any other couple.Our sex life is ok, but should I be worried or let it go?

2007-12-06 07:44:34 · 13 answers · asked by ((surimi)) 2