My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago. It was so painful for me, I really did love him. We were together for 3 years. I never felt so much for anyone before. However, he decided to end our relationship as we became long-distance and he could not handle it. Now he found out I am going travelling, he says he is scared of loosing me. He told me the other day he loves me, he misses me and he has so much regrets but he is not coming back to me now. He said to meet after I come back from my travels? Why is he suddenly now worried? And should I meet him after? I do love him very much !
2007-12-06 08:49:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why let him be in control-no move on-he gave you up but he wants you on a string? find another guy-you deseve better,
2007-12-06 08:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's realised he's losing his hold on you & he's scared. he wants you to be pining for him at home, ready to take him back if he decides you're worth it after all! this is emotional blackmail! don't let him get away with it. cut all contact with him & get on with your life. you'll probably find you won't want to know when you do get back anyway. you'll have met mature people who won't want to keep you as a safety net & may even have met someone special. forget him, hun, go & play with the big boys! diane.
2007-12-06 20:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by diquarry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what you were going to do. If, when you get bakc it works, and you want to get together fine. Don't stop your plans though. This would then be the basis of your relationship.
2007-12-10 06:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think take him with you!
he probably took you for granted & now realized what a mistake ke made, but let him appreciate you now.
2007-12-06 16:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is worried that another man is getting the goods. His ego is killing him.
2007-12-06 13:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesnt want you, but doesnt want anyone else to have you either! Either that or he's playing hard to get!
2007-12-06 09:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋