2007-12-06 09:57:33 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only time will tell. I don't know what your situation is but for now give him his space and let him think things out just like you need to do. Good luck!
2007-12-06 10:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by mageta8 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i left my girl for two months, I got another place in another state
it depends on the reason, we were fighting a lot and a friend offered me a better opportunity in another state, so I took off without a goodbye
I realized the grass wasn't greener at all, I felt guilty the way I did it, and I realized we fought a lot, but she was so c
ute Japanese girl, so artistic, and I wanted her a little longer
We've been back a few years and she is scared I leave again and act like doormat in a way...in the end, we love each other but are not "in love"
I think we are on different pages, she is more spiritual and a romantic and I am more ego and want to be rock star.
She grounds me and I think I help her artistic side.
I guess we should be friends only but she is financially dependent on me and if she wasn't there I'd probably be in trouble with drinking and drugs again and lose my job again so,,,time will tell
after I left...she called me and said she missed me and basically said everything I wanted to hear in a way that convinced me she wasn't just trying to kiss my ***.
It was over a month or so of her talking to me here and there being a brilliant actress and things not working out here that made me return.
Funny thing is she never asked me back or fell apart on the phone. She stayed strong and went on with her life, seeming cheery and sometimes even busy.
NOW IF YOU HAD A NIGHTMARE OF A MARRIAGE, HE MAY RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK
2007-12-06 10:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jack Bent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should try and be ok with the fact that he is needing a little space right now. As we have no idea what caused him to go out and get his own place, we can not offer much help here. Keep the lines of communication open with him, without being overly pushy.
Do I think he will come back? Hard to say, as again I do not know why he left.
Good Luck to you.
2007-12-06 10:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he got his own place,it may be some time before he thinks of coming back.He may come by and see ya if you ask or just pop in but to live with you is very unsure depending what is going on between the two of you.
2007-12-06 15:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by pedebeed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I'm sorry to say, if it's got that far along, no. I don't think so. He seems to have some pretty elaborate plans that he has figured out and acted on without consulting you. I think you had better start making your own plans as well. If you wait to find out what he's going to do, you are stuck with living your life by reacting to his actions, which never works quite as well as making your own goals and following through. And, not to be crass and materialistic, but today he moves himself out, tomorrow he moves all the money out of your joint accounts. Then what? Start thinking like a solo act, and try to decide what you want for you, and do that. No need to consult him. It appears that part of your marriage is done. Stay strong. Good luck!
2007-12-06 10:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by nomysteryhere 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I got my own place a couple of years ago and I never had the intention of going back and I haven't. I'm divorced and happy now.
2007-12-06 10:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by replexgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, none of us is psychic. Let him be for a while. You don't talk about the problems you were having, so it's difficult to address those. If he won't even talk with you, you have little choice other than giving him time. You'll get tired of it after a while. Obviously, if there are children involved he's still responsible for being in their lives and for helping to support them.
2007-12-06 10:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jill it's time to get up and get your big girl panties on. You've gotta get in survival mode! Don't sit around waiting on this man to come home. You give him a reason to regret he ever left. Take this time to find yourself. Girl when mine did I started working out and truly enjoying life. Oh and my boyfriend is 10 years youunger than me!LOL Oh and my ex- husband just begs and begs to have me back now. Ain't that Ironic!
2007-12-06 10:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, things must have been pretty bad for him to do such a drastic thing. I don't know what drove him there in the first place, thats the main determining factor of whether he will come back or not.
2007-12-06 10:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Brittney 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DOubt it - why would he get his "own" place then ? If he was thinking of coming back, he would've just gone and crashed out on a buddy's couch for a few nights ....
2007-12-06 09:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by aa889d 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋