Marriage & Divorce - 8 December 2007

Please give examples if you can. Thanks!

2007-12-08 23:50:23 · 18 answers · asked by Richard F 6

2007-12-08 22:54:42 · 17 answers · asked by leigh 1

ex BF from 25 yrs ago gets in contact, we did not have closure back then due to family intervening. We caught up with one another's lives when we spoke three years ago when he called me. I am happily married and have been for 21 yrs. Ex is in a relationship with a partner and a couple of her kids, and they had to move states so her ex would not follow her. He had to be very secretive about contacting me. I told my hubby immediately that he had called and he was really happy for me that we had made contact, cos he knows that I still have a very soft spot for my ex, but trusts me completely. My problem is that I still would like to have contact with this guy, he was part of my "growing up" but just as friends, coz we were the best of friends back then. And because of his situation I don't think that it is right that I contact him, although I still don't have that closure and feel that I need it.

2007-12-08 22:53:42 · 16 answers · asked by little caro 1

iam 16 year old female, i live in alabama, with my grandparents and they both emotional abuse me because of stuff my mother did when she was a child, i make really good grades i have a 88 average in school, and i am graduating in december, this month, so i am really good in school. plus i have been working so hard for them i haven't had any time for me to have a social life. they do not let me go anywhere anyway. i help doing everything and i even take care of my grandfather, give him his shot, get my little brother up from shcool and everything. they emotional abuse me calling me names. telling me i am not worth my fathers sperm. it really hurts . my questions are do u know how i can get emancipated in the state of alabama and get custody of my lil brother. my mother is in jail. and please just real answers nothin silly just to get points i can not take it anymore.

2007-12-08 22:52:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

To add to my last question yes we have only been married for sorry not 6mo but 8mo and we were best friends for 12 years before we got married. Iam strongly thinking about leaving my husband. I want to leave now but with christmas comming I think it would just be to hard on everyone including my 8yr old son. I just don't know how much more I can handle. Some advice please:-(

2007-12-08 22:35:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you ever feel like leaving your marriage, feeling down, feeling like there is no sense to be married?
Do you ever feel just bored and want your 'freedom' back?
Do you ever feel like you want or deserve more in your marriage and you don't get?

2007-12-08 22:27:43 · 12 answers · asked by LMH 2

if a guy had a measly 300.00 and wanted to spend it on his girl what would she really want

2007-12-08 22:25:42 · 12 answers · asked by kkralp 2

I haven't been very happy in my relationship with my spouse for a very long time. I got together with him when I was 18 yrs old straight out of a relationship break up because I think I was just scared to be alone.

We've always been pretty incompatible and deep down I've often regretted ever getting together with him but stayed despite this. I deeply care about him but ours was a passionless and stressful relationship. I couldn't help but fight with him all the time and was pretty impossible to please.

He's made many mistakes but is a very nice man. He really took care of me and I depended on him a lot. Almost too much. And I feel lost at the idea of being without him.

We're splitting as we both agree that we're not happy. And I truly have been thinking about leaving him since pretty much the beginning, but never did. Now that it's happening I'm distraught. I'm confused! I have regrets. I know he will have no problem meeting someone, but I'm shy and not as social. Advice?

2007-12-08 22:22:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married 2 weeks ago and married life is great. My problem is my Husband and i have not had sex since Feb 2006!! I posted a questin on here about it a few months ago and with the help of that i manged to get him to see a dr and ha has now been reffered to a phyciatrist (we are just waitng for the appointment to come through). But i dont know who i can talk to about how its affecting me. I cant help thinking it me even though he has told me its nothing to do with me. I caught him looking at porn the other night which really doesnt help my feelings. Some days im ok and think that at least if he is looking at porn its not a physical problem but other days i spent the entire day at work trying not to burst into tears!
I love him so much and just want him to get better. we both want children, and he has said he would like me to be pregnant by this time next year!
Sorry its so long. And thanks in advance

2007-12-08 21:59:35 · 21 answers · asked by lucy m 3

Yes she did.

2007-12-08 21:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5

your dad if you find out that he is not your biological father?

How would you go about that? Do you need legal documents?

2007-12-08 21:49:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So how do you tell the difference?

2007-12-08 21:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by STRESSED spells DESSERTS 6

consider this.. a woman, married, knows that i want her only for lustful intentions, still insists on me going to a club with her. when i meet her. she flirts with me hard. rubs my legs, plays with my hair.. but she didnt wanna come home with me. she said that would be for the 2nd or 3rd time we hang out.. why is she doing this? and is it wrong for me to continue to hang out with her. frankly i thought it was digusting.. but of course me being a single person, i went along with it. she does have a friend.. that is married.. and has a little "boy toy" her self.. please give me some insight...

2007-12-08 21:26:19 · 14 answers · asked by Daniel 1

There are 2 kinds of men, which one women prefer
One is, Bachelor,but slept with many
2nd Married to one and Divorced

Who is better ....?
then
I seen in many women online ADs, that they are not interested in Divorced men.... WHY ?

2007-12-08 21:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by 498A_Crusader 3

after marriage I understand that in my husbands house in room where i started my married life is not mine & that room is of my smallest brother in law so what shall i do on this ? isn"t it it is fraud with me?

2007-12-08 21:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 21:07:20 · 11 answers · asked by pete the pirate 5

i still want to be with him even though he is running away from me, i have two kids we both love them,and even after so many years i still love him. he wants to have a single life,re live the years he has lost being with me.i m clueless why i want to hang on,can someone help me

2007-12-08 21:05:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my husband but he is so controling. He gets upset at me for every little thing. Constanly throwing divorce in my face. Kicking my son and I out of our home. Distroying all of my personal belongings then urinating on them. He is also a sex addict not with me though. He has the biggest collection of porno I have ever seen and is in the strip club latley every night. Just to socialize he says. He was fired from his job about a year and a half ago and has been struggling with mental issues ever since. I try to get him help but he is to stuborn and won't get the help he needs. When ever I try to talk about any of this its all my fault or he finds some way to change the subject. What ever it is he is the victim. I love him so much and if he is truly sick he needs help and I don't know if I could leave him in his time of need. He is so manipulative I think if I turned him saying he is crazy they would think I am. We have been married for such a sort time is it to soon to give up? HELP

2007-12-08 20:52:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 20:47:55 · 5 answers · asked by alam g 1

I have a partner. He is japanese. He is married but they stop their relationships almost 10years ago, no talk, no sex. But these past few weeks they have communication in personal I think it's because of their son who past away 2weeks ago. I am worried.. What if he's wife demand against us, what will happen to me? Will i win or not? Or she has rights to demand us even no sex almost 10years?

sorry for my english but please try to understand... I am very very paranoid.... We live-in almost 6years and we have son now, he's just 3weeks old. I don't know what to do. I love my partner so much, and it is difficult for me to do separate because we already have a son. Please give me advise. plz. plz

2007-12-08 20:29:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

men and women were only allowed to have sex with one person. Say you get married and attempt to cheat, and the man goes limp of he attempts to cheat or some sort of bodily function happens to where he is incapable of performing, but when he's with his wife/girlfriend, everything works properly. With women, if we attempt to have sex with anyone except the person that were with, we close up and become too tight, to the point where we just can't do it. Do you think the world would become a violent place with alot of frustrated people or what?

Give me a detailed scenario of what you think would happen if we were all biologically forced to be faithful. LMAO!

2007-12-08 20:27:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 19:30:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 19:29:23 · 12 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

Even though were married some of my husband's exs flirts with him. I don't wanna stoop down on their level but sometimes they are really irritating.

2007-12-08 19:13:50 · 27 answers · asked by niCoLE 2

I have a friend of mine-and it actually is a friend. He lives in NY state, and he is trying to divorce his wife of 7 years. They have no children together. She is blackmailing him for adultery and threatening his career if he leaves her. She MIGHT have pictures of him with another girl kissing or just hanging out. Can't be sure about the details. She is threatening him that if she tries to leave him that she will go to his CO and bring these "pictures" and get him Court Martialed and discharged from the military. He is afraid to give her the divorce papers that he has already had drawn up because he doesn't know how much trouble he could actually get in if his CO saw the "pics" she has. She said she would go to the lengths to make things up to get his career ruined and have him thrown in jail. He doesn't know what to do and as of right now, he is wrapped around her finger afraid to drop the papers. According to the UCMJ does she have any right to do this at all? Wut would any1 suggest?

2007-12-08 19:11:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bin tryin to think up ways to get rid of this new boyfriend. Will ever sinse he moved in I ben notisin all these weird things about him. things that dont make sense in my mind. I halfway keep him around for protection against the nehborhood caus it is kind of rough and I havent bougt a alarm for the place yet. So I notice instead of going grosery shopping at the store, he goes to a buffat/buffete [?] with his friend to eat unlimited lunch and thin he sneaks a bunch back home in his backpack. This is kind of imberrasing becous we get food help from the government and isnt this why they give it to us?? So we dont have to steal food???? I REALLY want to turn him in sometimes like win I get mad at him I just want to call and bust him. could he get in trouble for this??? I am just curious about the ways of law. I no your not suposed to take the food home. and I think this is trashy....cous theres always stuff on the food that it didnt get baked with...

2007-12-08 19:11:11 · 10 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

different states for 12 yrs? I am working on my divorce, doing it myself. In all the papers & instructions I have read I have not found anything that says I do. But the courthouse wants me to bring in a paper called State Vital Statistics Form, when I read the instructions on it it was ONLY for those that have been legally separated 1st before getting divorce. I have known many people that did NOT file for legal separation 1st.

2007-12-08 19:08:40 · 3 answers · asked by MaeSalgo 6

2007-12-08 19:06:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm wondering how many couples share one drawer for undies. My wife and I did until she could no longer stand the "tidyness" of it. We now have separate ones, me one, her two (don't ask me how, but the stuff just grows!) Also how many just jumble it all toghether and go fishing each morn and how many wear the same underwear interchangably? (ie both wear the same shared panties)?

2007-12-08 18:52:21 · 6 answers · asked by klingongac 2

I went grocery shopping with my younger brother tonight and of course we were joking around not at all acting our age...im 24 he's 12
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we stumbled upon this question, he asked me kidding around, and I will share in my response to best answer what I thought it would be for the two adults within my home. So if all of the food inside an average chain grocery store were yours to eat..say free ;D
how long before its gone? Also how many people do you have in mind that will be munching on all this food.....hehe

2007-12-08 18:47:26 · 5 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4