Even though were married some of my husband's exs flirts with him. I don't wanna stoop down on their level but sometimes they are really irritating.
2007-12-08 19:13:50 · 27 answers · asked by niCoLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife is extremely passive-aggressive and basically just berated and badgered until I don't talk to any of mine anymore... If that sounds like a good plan of action to you then feel free to implement it, but I couldn't recommend it personally.
edit: It may help to keep in mind this one simple fact--you are no longer "competing" with any other females to "win" your man. He's yours, you've got him. Unless you have reason to fear or suspect his unfaithfulness, you should really look into why someone else's verbal encroaches unsettle you as much as they do.
2007-12-08 19:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Alex M 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I hate those kind of women. You know what? They just aren't worth your time! They really aren't, all they are is a bunch of insecure witches and JEALOUS AS HECK. I am glad you have no trust issues with this because your hubby probably laughs in their FACES! He has no desire for them, he has been there/ done that and doesn't want to go there EVER AGAIN! He has found his ROCK, his DIAMOND!!!!
They are irritating and immature babies that need a LIFE! LOL Don't let it get to you hunny. I wouldn't worry about them, if you all ever move, I think out of sight out of mind. They are testing his faithfulness and I think he's a VERY STRONG MAN!
Then again, are the ex es~~~ EX WIVES????? and if so...... Has he caved in and went with the temptation? That would be your only worry, if only girlfriends then don't even worry about it.
2007-12-09 03:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by darlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, tell your husband how you are feeling, even though he may be flattered with the attention he is getting from his ex's,. he has to remember that they are just that, "ex's" and you are his #1 in life, He needs to put a stop to this sort of thing himself, and the next time you are present when one of these woman do something flirtatious, he needs to turn his back on them and give you a very passionate kiss, and I'm sure those girls will get the hint and back off.
2007-12-09 03:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by tiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You letting them know to back the hell off is not STOOPING at all. He is your husband and chose to marry you and only you for a reason, make that clear to them, at first with respect and if they dont get the picture, let them know whose WIFEY!
2007-12-09 04:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by MeMe52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control the world. All you can do is have the best marriage you can have - that's like having an insurance policy that the flirting will never lead to anything serious.
2007-12-09 03:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Casually show them the nice rock he gave you when he married you. Pretend you're going to whisper girl talk in the ear and with a smile say," You lost him so very sorry but honey I don't plan on being in your shoes so take it somewhere else or we can have this chat outside." Smile as you move away from her. Hubby think you just told her some secret and you are getting along with her and she just learned to back off because you will fight for him.
2007-12-09 03:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by christina h 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hey, if the man lets them flirt, then they are going to. HE needs to nip it in the bud by either not talking to them or if they continue to pester him, sternly telling them he loves you and to knock it off. I get tired of people saying if you are secure then it won't bother you. Bottem line is MEN need to stand up for their spouse/girlfriend. By not saying anything, these women will do continue to flirt with a smile on their face!
2007-12-09 05:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by forestbythesea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly are you sure it is flirting, and not just companionable conversation? Do you have problems, just because she is his ex?
Talk to your husband. It isn't right that he disrespects the way you feel when he flirts with his ex. But you have to be open and tell him that it hurts you, or you can't expect him to know it. If he still does it, then you have to ask yourself why its more important to him to do that with his ex, than it is to respect you.
2007-12-09 03:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Grow up. To help you grow up here are the facts of life:
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage ruins relationships(moving in is the same)
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth if not just
keep believing the lies you hear from
everyone around you.
2007-12-09 09:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
For me,ask your husband in a good way dont step down with those girls.
2007-12-09 03:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by Felicity 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋