Marriage & Divorce - 11 December 2007

That drags the children into arguments over the phone. I moved 1000 miles away from him and now he is moving here to get closer to the kids. But he has never been around much to raise them. He worked all of the time out of time and when he did come home everything else came first and he still has control issues. I filed a petition that he couldn't contact me for 1 year b/c the children are old enough to talk to him alone over the phone. He begged me back over Thanksgiving and the feelings have been killed over the years. When I said NO he is trying to tear up the peace in my home. The kids are happy and want to be here b/c the yelling has ceased from him and he still keeps digging and digging at me through them. What are your views on this. Thanks in advance =)

2007-12-11 23:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by Sparkles 4

The first commandment is "'You shall have no other gods before Me".
Besides, she's only a fat woman, making money off of peoples problems, living it up before she dies.
If you think she's helping you, you need to get a life. Help yourself.

2007-12-11 23:12:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was mad about someone years ago that i was with on and off for a few years ,i met the man i am with now 5 years ago and married to him but i cant stop thinking about my ex even after all this time sometimes i can go for months with out thinking about him then all of a sudden im doing it again and it makes me feel depressed , i do want to be with my husband i just dont know how to let go of the past

2007-12-11 23:08:52 · 17 answers · asked by janey1971 2

My daughter, who is 26 years old and have 4 kids age ranges from 2-8 need a place to live. She is living with me without my landlord permission and I want her to move out and give me my freedom again. I love her, I don't want to sound selfish or be mean, but her and her kids been living with me (again) for 5 months. She makes close to min wage, dropped out of HS.
I convinced her to go back to school but school is over now she needs to pay to take the GED test. But to make a long story short.

Are there any USA States that will pay for her rent & food while get a better job that can allow for her to provide for herself and kids ? There are other details with the family but cutting to the chase, I want her, and she want to her self – To get her own place.
Does anyone have any real suggestions without getting smart and disrespectful?

2007-12-11 22:28:21 · 10 answers · asked by hanoverjack 1

how come my bf told me tat he have climax towards me after sex?? before that we have sex together and i swallow for him..
what does that mean when he say this??

2007-12-11 21:09:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 21:03:51 · 26 answers · asked by Omar 1

can you give me some helpful words?? this guy, who is married. has been saying how he wishes he was with me, not the wife. Ive been his FRIEND for a year. Basically he has said he loves me etc... we do a lot of talking (hours) . i always think he might leave his wife for me, then he wont call for a week or two and says " Oh sorry i got busy with the wife" i finally got pissed enogh to tell him off. I just miss him so im trying so hard not to msg him. I've made it two weeks and i know once i get over the "hump" it will get easier, so any advice you have is greatly appreciated. thanks:)

2007-12-11 19:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 19:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 19:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been having problems for about 3 years now. one year ago i found out that he had an account on match.com. i tried to let that go because he said it was just to talk to other women but... recently he punched the windshield out of my car and rammed my car with his truck. there has been some physical abuse in the past. i just feel like i've had enough. i still have feelings for him but i believe it's only because we have 2 children together. any advice?

2007-12-11 18:08:33 · 10 answers · asked by irisheyes8205 1

If a husband enjoys seeing his wife have sex with other people, and if a wife enjoys seeing her husband have sex with other people, then how is this considered cheating? I thought cheating was when you knowingly and willingly had sex with somebody else without your spouse's knowledge or consent.

2007-12-11 17:40:20 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5

married under islamic law and not having the marriage registered can a woman seek protection under domestic violence act and which law will supersede indian law or islamic law

2007-12-11 17:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by naaz 1

1st place?
For ex. if a Father left his wife and 3 children, remarried a wealthy woman 1 month later, gave very little financial support at all, leaving the family very poor so he could live it up in the high life. And also furthered his career getting a PHD while his real family struggled on ALL levels.
So PLEASE, what are the LAWS getting back up pay for almost nothing child support? Thank you.
{and the Mother didn't get much credit whatsoever and was manipulated and emotionally abused as well.}
TY

2007-12-11 17:35:42 · 12 answers · asked by Shuggah Pie Sweets 3

So I walk into this room and there is this guy sitting with his legs completely apart. Sort of a 180 degree thing. Then, we talk briefly, and during this conversation, he lifts himself up a bit and repositions (perhaps his undergarment??) and his legs which are still 180 degree apart. What is he upto?

2007-12-11 17:27:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married or a few years. I am attractive, slim, and as he says Im triple X dirtry in the bedroom, I love to please, Im a very sensual and sexual person, why does he turn me down when I want it? Not always , but more times than not. It hurts me and confuses me. Even when I want to do one of his favorite things...oral sex. I dont understand.

2007-12-11 17:26:54 · 24 answers · asked by jenha1005 3

I have a question for anyone here that's deal with custody/visitation issues. Currently I'm going through a divorce and we have a court order that states joint custody is in order. This was put into effect 10/19/07. Not even a month into the order, my husband was no longer able to keep up his 50% of time shared with our son. He moved 100 miles away with his grandmother due to financial issues, yet still feels he's entitled to get our son whenever it's convenient and he's in the area. For example today he wanted his mom to see our son, so since "technically" it's his week he had his mom pick up our son from school and now she's keeping him over night. He will not be there, but since it's HIS TIME he feels he's entitled to do what he wants with our son. He has also not complied with any of the mandatory classes the court ordered us to take, where as I have. Anyone dealt with this before? If so what happens? I have an attorney who I'll contact tomorrow but I was hoping ...

2007-12-11 17:24:12 · 7 answers · asked by grneyedgrly 4

I have a friend who is married. Me and my wife and he and his wife often go out for drinks, dinners, and just hanging out. He and I often play golf on fridays, and we oocasionally go out of town on business. The problem is that he is ALWAYS cheating on his wife. We went on a guy's weekend ski trip to Tahoe and the last night we were there he never came back to the room (partied with some chick he met). He's also constantly asking me to lie and cover for him. I've played along until now, when his wife accused ME of being a bad influence on him and said that my friend tells her about how I cheat on my wife all the time which ISN'T TRUE! I confronted my friend about it and he apologized, but then got defensive when I told him I wasn't going to lie for him anymore and to leave me out of his stories. Now his wife is mad at me and doesn't want to hang out anymore, he's being a jerk, and I'm wondering why I am sticking up for him? Thoughts?

2007-12-11 17:23:21 · 13 answers · asked by ? 5

I hear so many stories of people that are in a relationship and fall in love with someone else. How could I have prevented this? And the most terrible thing is that it is mutual! This guy got caught having sexual dreams about me by his girlfriend. Mentioned my name in his sleep. Both of us are staying with our partners but I feel miserable thinking of someone else all the time. Has anyone been in this kind of situation before and how did it turn out? I want to stay with my husband and hope that I fall out of love with this guy eventually.
Please dont give me responses like I am so evil and bad. There is honestly nothing you can do about love hitting you right in the face. It could happen to anyone at any time. Anyone that can tell me about their similar situations and their endings would be appreciated.

2007-12-11 17:16:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don't laugh, but I met a guy on a singles website who I would really like to meet. I live on the West coast, he lives on the East coast - how much farther apart could we be? We've both gone through a divorce where our spouse has cheated and we both have kids and just want to be happy again. I've "known" him for a couple of months now and we talk on the phone and text constantly. He is indeed who he says he is, so no worries there... I feel like I'm falling for him though and I wonder, could this really work, especially since his kids are there and mine are here and we both have close family ties? He says it will work itself out, but I don't want to emotionally invest in something that's doomed. Anyone out there have success with a situation similar to mine?

2007-12-11 17:11:06 · 18 answers · asked by Brooke L 1

It seems my significant other and I have different ways of solving negative issues.

He will withdraw into his shell and wait til morning. I'll want to fix the problem now or at least know everything will be alright sooner then later.

Is there a "right" way? How do you handle it?

2007-12-11 17:10:21 · 18 answers · asked by lojix 3

My wife tells me that I cheated on her cuase I went golfing with a female co-worker? Is this correct, we did nothing, I mean nothing! We had a good time talking, but again nothing happened.

2007-12-11 17:07:11 · 49 answers · asked by PHP 2

2007-12-11 17:06:11 · 15 answers · asked by leey 2

I have never cheated , never abused her , always paid for everything . She has tons of hatred in her about my family , now me .We are still in the same house , but I worry mostly about our 2 young sons .We are in councelling , but she says she can not change her mind .No other guy but she has said she wants to neck with someone else?

2007-12-11 17:04:52 · 22 answers · asked by royalcres 3

I went to my husband's work party and he is part of management team. He had to give a presentation, but kept praising one of his female coworkers - around 3 times! My question is should I be mad????

2007-12-11 17:04:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanted to get him a ring for Christmas, but don't want him to get the idea that I am thinking of marriage. Just wanted to get a ring to get it for him. Not sure now that he or others would understand that it is just a ring

2007-12-11 16:57:00 · 7 answers · asked by zzsand 2

2007-12-11 16:50:51 · 14 answers · asked by lmjscott2000 1

2007-12-11 16:45:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I just can't stand her sometimes.

2007-12-11 16:42:58 · 21 answers · asked by papoose52cat 1

i was married to a very good man but i lost him over stupity. beliving this other man who wasnt much. only after one thing i cant belive i belive him but like a nu i did and now i lost every thing i really loved my man . over a lie. and i had never ever once cheated on him but things happened . and wished now they hadent . my life.s over now loosing him he was always there for me no matter what . i really messed up over this other one if any has and advise please let me know and please dont judge me i was in the wrong i know it now thank you all

2007-12-11 16:41:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 16:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous