2007-12-11 16:50:51 · 14 answers · asked by lmjscott2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well comming from someone who used to cheat i should know.
does she not come home on time? hide her emails, computer chatting etc. change passwords. keep her cell phone out of your reach>
there are many signs,
ive swore on my childs life also
take it or leave it
but ive done it
2007-12-11 17:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless she's a blatant liar, I don't know how many women would swear on their child's life if she really was lying. Sometimes, there really is just a lot of circumstantial evidence. You have to consider everything as a whole. Best is to have solid proof. At any rate, with suspicion and mistrust in your relationship things are not good. Try and get some help from a counselor or other trusted person.
2007-12-12 01:07:00 · answer #2 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why do you suspect your wife of cheating? Ever heard of the phrase, "the guilty party will always cry wolf? Meaning, someone will sometimes try to accuse the other one of doing wrong when he or she is the one actually doing the cheating.
If you love her, then don't beat her up about something she claims she is not doing. Maybe you had a bad experience before in a relationship and are taking it out on her. So, talk to her and tell her what is going on, otherwise, she may get tired of being accused and end the relationship....I know I would!
2007-12-12 01:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by luvwaterandmtdew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you accusing her in the first place? Do you have proof?
If you have no proof then wait it out. Trust that she is telling the truth and hope she is not cheating. If you find out otherwise then you have your answer but if she has never cheated then keep your cool and stop accusing so you can create peace in the household.
2007-12-12 01:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect she is cheating don't doubt yourself, obviously shes doing something that is making you feel this way. You need to get to the bottom of this...before its too late.
When you get that 'feeling' its usually right....
If I were you I would look for some proof and see whats up.
'action speaks louder then words'
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2007-12-12 00:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take her word for it now. If she really is cheating it'll come out in the open sometime or another.
2007-12-12 01:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is she . well why don you have her followed and look at the car millage. and watch for calls she says are wrong number and you by law can place a recorder on your phone it.s legal and see from there if she is cheating she cant deny her voice on tape can she. my opion?
2007-12-12 01:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel that all depends on how well do you trust her? If you don't trust her then, I would um....get a divorce or something along those lines, but if you truly believe her than I would just let it go.
2007-12-12 00:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instinct. There was a time when a president looked America right in the eye and swore that, "I DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH THAT WOMAN!!!"
2007-12-12 01:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the basis for any good marriage. You don't have any in your relationship. Seek marriage counseling, asap.
2007-12-12 01:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋