Marriage & Divorce - 11 December 2007

I am 22 and he is 26
Ok, I know I may be over reacting right now. We have sex maybe once every 2 weeks but its like "making a quota sex"
My husband and I were dating for 2 years married 7 months I was a virgin the WHOLE time. Now him on the other hand he has been having sex since the age of 14. He had just decided to become celebate a couple months before he met me which was great for me because I wanted to WAIT. Anyway. I don't know how any of you were when you started having sex. But I want that stuff ALL THE TIME! I am willing to do it any time, any where, any way he wants. I just want to give him pleasure. I get pleasure by his pleasure. I could go to bed with no close on and still that doesn't excite him. I have to coax him into the mood. He could care less if I wear lingere. I am in great shape by the way with abnormal breast sizes everything a man could ever want! It wasn't always this way even though we weren't having sex the temptation was always there. HELP!

2007-12-11 13:51:37 · 26 answers · asked by HerLipsRest 2

I'm intelligent, sweet, nice, attractive, ambitious, independent, loves sex, loves kids and family, loves the outdoors, and currently working on her first million $.

2007-12-11 13:49:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-11 13:46:57 · 13 answers · asked by back2future 5

ok so my mom will not stop crying because she doesnt want my father to leave[[hes not my biological father but hes my step dad(biological dad died few days b4 i was born)]]. I can understand why my step dad want to leave on account that they talk hecka loud. But my mom hasnt told my grandparents and i tell everyday that unless she needshelp to go contact my other family. She says that everybody think she is a "failure" but i know that she has tryied so hard. what can i do to make her have hope and possibly stop crying?

2007-12-11 13:46:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

We're close to 50, and it seems like I'm always horny, but my wife's desire has waned considerably over the last 8 years. We're down to maybe once a month.

2007-12-11 13:45:27 · 14 answers · asked by K M 6

I just got out of a physically abusive relationship where my husband said of all the women he has been, I was the ONLY one he was physical to. I highly do not believe him. I think he has done it before. What do you think? Like cheaters, once an abuser, always an abuser????

2007-12-11 13:41:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I divorced my ex-wife 6 years ago. She got pregnant with some other guy, ruined me financially and left.

We have shared physical and legal custody. I have them Saturday morning through monday morning every week.

I have made my kids the focus of my life after the divorce. I volunteer when I can at their school, work with them on their school work. I don't hate my ex, but she always treats me like a second class parent. My kids have even say commented on it (I go out of my way to tell my kids that their mom really is not like that and they probably just misunderstand her when she whines about me....) I also back her up when I hear how she punishes them for something even if I disagree with it.

She always seems to go out of her way to spite me. This weekend I am taking the kids to NYC. I was not planning on returning until Sunday afternoon, but she bullied me into dropping them off at 8:30am for a picture appt she scheduled without asking me first.

Why oh why?

2007-12-11 13:41:42 · 8 answers · asked by Colonel Chaos 2

who is the most important person in our life?
parents or spouse?

2007-12-11 13:37:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ether way..... explain why?

2007-12-11 13:35:14 · 11 answers · asked by smiles 2

Could it be that I forgot to put on deoderant?

2007-12-11 13:30:49 · 17 answers · asked by Lynie 4

So I guess on average the difference in age in couples ranges from 3 to 7 years, people seem to have no problem with these age ranges. But when people are younger it is considered odd for example, a senior in high school to date a sixth grader middle school. Why is it accepted when people get older and why isn't it when people are younger? Also, do married or dating couples realize that they are in essence, in a situation where a fifth grader is dating a 5 year old?

2007-12-11 13:29:23 · 9 answers · asked by Judomasterak 3

I'm 16 and my parents got divorced when I was 13. They got divorced because my mom was a drug addict and they fought constantly. I used to cry myself to sleep all the time when they were married because my parents were always yelling and crying. Now that they are divorced, I feel better about 90% of the time because i don't have to listen to fighting and I try to push those memories out of my head. I also don't really mention any of it to my friends. But sometimes when people mention certain things it causes the bad memories to come back and I feel sad again, sometimes for days. How can I keep myself from getting all depressed every time someone mentions divorce or drugs? I'm tired of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in my life and I want to be able to get past them.

2007-12-11 13:20:37 · 16 answers · asked by rosieposie 3

That's where you have sex in the same room with another couple, but don't touch that couple.

I think I'd try that, if the circumstances were right and the guy wasn't too "big."

2007-12-11 13:20:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do any of you like doing what the porno's do? My husband wants to start spicing things up and I'm wondering what you think. I don't mind doing it at all...I think it would be fun, but I'm curious to know what others think about this. Thanks.

2007-12-11 13:18:08 · 17 answers · asked by breisingermela 5

2007-12-11 13:09:18 · 33 answers · asked by Bo B 2

It's his friends from college getting married with whom he is not too close with anymore. Do we bring a gift to a an engagement dinner?

2007-12-11 13:02:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend that is supposed to receive child support from her ex husband. She has went through the state and they can't find where he works. Is there any other way that she can find out where he is. He is a nurse in Nevada. I want to help her so that she can get her kids what they need...

2007-12-11 12:57:57 · 5 answers · asked by curt 1

he dont do things he should do after the last post ,he dont kiss me 0r hugg me the way a husband should when i try to kiss on him or make love he tells me to stop that it really hurts me a lot he dont give me money at all just the other day the phone company cut my phone off cause he was to pay it and never did and my lights,its so hard on me and he see this.the judge has given me my grand kids they are 4,2,1 and my 15 and 19 is hoem with me still i am trying to do a lot and he dont help i have told him to move but the fla law you cant make him get out unless he beats you and he not doin that to me ,maybe someone has some infor to offer me to help me out in my time of stress

2007-12-11 12:55:08 · 18 answers · asked by BROKEN AND BEAUTFUL 2

I hate my mother sooo effing much. Dont ask why. Theres a history one that hurt even thinking about. how can i get over it. I want to move out and start afresh. Forget she exists, pretend shes dead. Its so hard though. i have vindictive thoughts. i dont like it. what can i do? Has anyone ever been in the same situation? how do i move on?

2007-12-11 12:38:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

on a guy who wears size 30 pants? My guy lost a bet to me and now he has to wear a womans thong under his pants for a few hours at home one night this week when I have some of the ladies over for cocktails that he of course will be serving. Nobody but him and I will know (but I know its going to be hard to resist telling my friends!). I picked this one. What do you think ? Any suggestions on the color to go with?

http://www.figleaves.com/us/product.asp?product_id=PT-VERTI-122&mci=&size=&colour=pink&image=r323778-p323787-front

2007-12-11 12:33:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, So I got married recently. Im in the military and my wife is also. We are stationed on different sides of the united states. Im in florida, shes stationed in California. The problem arises at the fact that shes not only pregnant but I wont see her but maybe twice in the next year. She can move to florida in June while the baby is dude in April, and im Tasked to get deployed in May. I love her to death but i don't think it will work out. I think at some point someones gonna be unfaithful. Im not saying i cant keep it in my pants but im a attractive guy who settled at 20 years of age. while she 24 had her share of partners and was ready to settle. Im happy I got married, shes the woman of my dreams but i don't think i can not see sher for almost 2 years without having any sex. Likewise she a ninfomanic her self I haven't seen her since Nov, and Wont see her till may of 2009. After my year deployment! I know if she stays away form home we might have a chance. Im just confused!

2007-12-11 12:28:24 · 61 answers · asked by Black 1

my husband ocassionally spanks me, when im out of line because i believe a man should have authority in the household, does anyone else get spanked for that? how? and how long does your last? i just want to know so i can compare it to my husband, if you disagree please don't be rude or disrepsectful, im choosing to live this way.

2007-12-11 12:22:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

That if at the time of applying for the license, since my Dad has to be there since I'm underage, if they will ask me if I'm going to school. I want to know because he still doesn't know that I am not going so I wouldn't want them to ask me in front of him because then he will know. I am planning to tell him but later when I get my GED. I know I don't want to go to college, I just want to put up a business which I think will succeed. An please you guys, do not tell me I'm too young, I've been living with my man for 2 years now, and we really want to get married because number one we love eachother and number two, we run a risk of him going to jail, since he's older than 18, we have already been stopped by some police and so please people, please don't tell me I'm too young because I've heard it since I was 15 and I'm tired of it. Try to answer my question because I asked the same question and people didn't even answer my question, instead ALL of them were telling me you're so young.

2007-12-11 12:18:20 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My g/f and I have been dating for about 6 months. I'm 19 and she is 22. I'm in the military and the majority of the time we were together, she was unemployed. She has a son that she does not have custody of nor ANY visitation rights to.

About a week ago she told me she wanted a break to think about her son. I came and saw her about 4 days later and everything was fine. I gave her flowers and we kissed and everything. I go home and she sends me an email saying that she had met someone else and really likes him.

We're not together now, but she tells me if things don't work out with him, she'll consider coming back to me.

How could she do this!!!! we were together six months and the whole time she was saying how much she loved me and wanted to have kids with me and MARRY ME. She even told me that she wanted me to adopt her son. She ignored me suddenly after six months!!!! no contact at all.

She says I'm too young for her....I'm only 2 years younger!!!!

Will she come back?

2007-12-11 12:14:32 · 27 answers · asked by kylej088 1

My husband ~ whom I have now been apart from for a year with the kids ~ used to want me to go out wearing short skirts and revealing outfits, and this i did (and remained faithful) but it also got him all jealous. Now we are apart he calls me a s lut. I can't decide whether I should go out and enjoy the partylife i've missed being a mum before its too late (and have some flings :-)) or whether I should be a stay at home mother :-( Am I a s lut if I go out and party and enjoy life?

2007-12-11 12:06:26 · 13 answers · asked by SomeWish4 1

Ladies, here is a question for you. Would you prefer a virgin?
I ask this question because as a virgin I realize that women don’t appreciate men as virgin as how a man would appreciate his girl as one.
Is this true with most women?

2007-12-11 12:02:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

on my other question a lot of women said i lied to her and cheated her out of motherhood and predicted us getting a divorce. do you really see that big of a deal

2007-12-11 11:49:50 · 25 answers · asked by rico.v 1

what type of woman who goes out and cheats on her manand right in her home with .2. other ones there with her at the same time like this trailer park trash. who is in her.40.s thinking a guy younger would want her. streach marks sicking . she is a tramp we just used her like the who. she was and still is isnt that sicking

2007-12-11 11:46:39 · 7 answers · asked by matthew v 3

I am 22 years old. I got divorced from my first husband when i was 19(together for 2 years,married for 1) we have a 4 year old daughter together. as of now i have been with my present husband for 3 years/just married in march....we have 2 children together.....question being is my ex and I have recently reconciled and realized we would both much like to be together again..... ..my present husband has been a jerk(BIG TIME) until he started working offshore and being gone for 1 month and home for 12 days......so i really just dont know what to do.....i still have big feelings for my ex and my husbands actions arent convincing me to stay........please no hurtful answers....i just want some opinions on what you would do if you were in my shoes?

2007-12-11 11:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by heather w 2

He wants a divorce. We have 2 children, and we currently lease a home. He is ending the lease in 30 days, has given me NO money, and just told me to "get a job". When asked how I will pay for child care, he tells me that HE will go for full custody, so I don't have to worry about it. Can he do this? What are my options? I have no money for a lawyer.

2007-12-11 11:41:21 · 40 answers · asked by Michelle 2