My husband ~ whom I have now been apart from for a year with the kids ~ used to want me to go out wearing short skirts and revealing outfits, and this i did (and remained faithful) but it also got him all jealous. Now we are apart he calls me a s lut. I can't decide whether I should go out and enjoy the partylife i've missed being a mum before its too late (and have some flings :-)) or whether I should be a stay at home mother :-( Am I a s lut if I go out and party and enjoy life?
2007-12-11 12:06:26 · 13 answers · asked by SomeWish4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It all depends on the degree & amount you do it in .. and how & what you do to your kids.
You can party without being a ****. You can look absolutely gorgeous without being a ****.
You can make the party seen - but kids need to come first & foremost.
When a mom (wife) gets heavily involved in the partying - does the partying all the time & lets it dominate everything - it is often that the mom puts the kids at the back of their mind .. and the care of the children goes amiss.
A woman needs to do the appropriate partying .. at the right time, the right place ... and probably with the right person.
Your children depend on you. Your reputation is one of your most valuable assetts ... when it is damaged - it is rarely put right again.
Choose wisely.
2007-12-11 12:15:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should.. do this while you are young. There is something so undignified about an elderly woman trying to have a fling. If you respect yourself enough to protect yourself, then you should have a little fun now so you can truly settle down later. But the kids are important too.. so shelter them from seeing any guests.
2007-12-11 12:26:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you want but always remeber, that youre your kids role model and the woman they look up to, dont be a ss lut, or a nympho, just have fun within limits
2007-12-11 12:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by suehellen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal apparently...After being stuck in a bad relationship, seeing whats out there, and having the men fall over you may be a turn on right after the separation.
Then you realize only a small percentage of the men are worth going out with!!!
2007-12-11 12:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by jalady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got kids, so I wouldn't suggest going out all the time. But kicking up your heels every once in awhile is fine. You still have to enjoy life.
2007-12-11 12:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Scott M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think it's fine! Dressing sexy and getting attention for it should prop up your self image. He wanted you to dress sexy all the time you were married, so go ahead and do it. If you happen to run into him at a club, it will drive him crazy! Make sure he sees you dancing with a very large man.
2007-12-11 13:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by K M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right! Put on your shortest, sexiest skirt and hit the town. Live it up while you can. There is nothing wrong with feeling sexy and wanted. I wouldn't care what he thought. You need to go turn some heads. I wish I was there to see. haha
2007-12-11 12:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out have fun kick up your heels get laid a few times and enjoy yourself! wear those revealing cloths and just have fun!
Just remember to take care of your kids too.
2007-12-11 12:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your self. Have fun. Don't care too much about what people say
2007-12-11 12:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥Vanessa♥ஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL get outta here. Your really gonna listen to his dumb ***, hes just mad and jelouse that he cant have you to himself anymore. You can be a great mother and still go out and enjoy yourself. Go have fun and let the loser sulk in the corner if he wants.
2007-12-11 12:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋