Marriage & Divorce - 11 December 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We fell deep in love and decided within a few months we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. He gave me a ring and asked me to marry him. After 1 1/2 years we decided to start trying to conceive a child as I am 39 even though we were waiting for him to get his financial affairs in order before tying the knot in a few months. Shortly after I got pregnant the lie came out that he was still married although he'd told me many times that he was divorced--even though they have not lived together for 8 years. He says he never loved her. He told me that I am the one and that he has never loved a woman like he loves me...Anyway, it's now 6 months since I found out about his lie and although he promises me that he is getting a divorce, he hasn't started any of it. I am so frustrated. I've told him I can't keep waiting for him and that he has to work this out. He tells me to be patient and trust him. How long should I wait?

2007-12-11 01:09:37 · 28 answers · asked by model_student 2

there is this girl that is always talking to my boyriend and she swears that shhe dont like him, but i think she does. but my boyfriend does not sasy anything about her btu that they are just friends. and i dont like the fact that the ***** is on his dick. and she is a slut that is 16 and haing sex with a 24 year old.

2007-12-11 01:01:24 · 11 answers · asked by Me 1

My best friend is getting a divorce. They have two very small children, and are like family to us. I care very much about both parties.
I told both of them I didn't want to get into the middle and that we have managed to remain nuetral with our other friends that are divorced and still speak to all parties. The last time I saw this man he kept going on about the dissagreements and I repeated numerous times that I did not want to get into it. That it was between the two of them to work sonething out. Then he made a remark about harming her.
I spoke up about what he said and now,he is blaming me. He says that I butted into his business and made it so that he can not see his children. I do not feel that I put myself in the middle.I feel that he put me there. I never wanted to be in this position,I care about them both.

2007-12-11 00:59:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 20 and just got married to a 17 year old and i really want her to stay in school. can she still go to school being married?

2007-12-11 00:36:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

You walked into the party
Like you were walking onto a yacht
Your hat strategically dipped below one eye
Your scarf it was apricot
You had one eye in the mirror
As you watched yourself gavotte
And all the girls dreamed
That they'd be your partner
They'd be your partner, and....

You're so vain
You probably think this song is about you
You're so vain
I'll bet you think this song is about you
Don't you? Don't you?

You had me several years ago
When I was still quite naive
Well you said that we made such a pretty pair
And that you would never leave

But you gave away the things you loved
And one of them was me
I had some dreams
They were clouds in my coffee
Clouds in my coffee and....

You're so vain
You probably think this song is about you
You're so vain
I'll bet you think this song is about you
Don't you? Don't you?

Well I hear you went up to Saratoga
And your horse naturally won
Then you flew your Lear jet up to Nova Scotia
To see the total eclipse of the sun

Well, you're where you should be all of the time
And when you're not you're with
Some underworld spy
Or the wife of a close friend
Wife of a close friend, and....

You're so vain
You probably think this song is about you
You're so vain
I'll bet you think this song is about you
Don't you? Don't you?

2007-12-11 00:18:46 · 16 answers · asked by truth set free 1

Last night a co work lost her husband
....early during the year she lost her first child.... four months after lost her dad and last night she lost her husband....
wow!!... Sometimes I can't believe life... I think I would go crazy if I was in her shoes... My husband and I sometimes argue... but at the end of the day thats my world...

2007-12-11 00:10:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous