Marriage & Divorce - 14 December 2007

Which Indian Government offices do marriage registration under special marriage act. Its understood that 30 notice is required for this marriage, I am working in abroad and my would be is in India, is it possible to give 30 days notice from abroad and return to india during marriage. Only legal experts please answer

2007-12-14 22:19:47 · 4 answers · asked by sweetguy 1

been married for 17 years , have 2 boys (9&13 yrs). things have been getting worse , she feels disconnected ,she is not happy at home , she will not leave , I will not leave , we go to councelling , hasn't helped , no sex for almost 2 months, she will not even go to a movie with me ? she has told me the major sources of the problem : hates my parents ,and is tired of my slowness in getting jobs done .She is no saint , but the mother of our children , I,d rather fix then separate ...what can I do???

2007-12-14 21:39:16 · 21 answers · asked by royalcres 3

My husband and I are about to seperate, we have had many ups and downs especially over the last year and there have now been violent incidents (between both of us I may add not just one sided) although I have come out worse.

My husband wants residency of the children and has threatened to get me made out to be a fruitcake in court etc so I am worried about taking him to court over this issue (he has also told me he will kill me before I take the kids in the heat of an argument)
I have decided that we should split the time we have with the children 50 50. I have found a house around the corner which is 2 minutes walk from this house that I am prepared to move to and my children will be with me for half the time and with him the other half. In essence it sounds perfect but I am wondering what your opinion is of it actually succeeding?

I am moving out because it serves as the easiest and most hassle free thing for our children if I started proceedings to make him it would end up.

2007-12-14 21:22:03 · 12 answers · asked by Yoga Wifey 3

2007-12-14 21:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

m WAS dating and friends with a guy who on both of our dates has talked about being mean.
On our first date he told me he could be mean SOMETIMES.
I didnt ask what he meant. Just thought it was weird joke.
Then on our second date he looked at me very seriously and told me he was thinking/toying with the idea of being MEAN to people.
What the hell does he intend to do ?
he has been hur tby other girls in the past.
does that mean he is trying to tell me he might hur tme too ?
i DONT want to wait around and find out. He is 34 years old and I dont think will change.
he calls himself hot and says he wants hot rich girl to marry. he has started playing headgames mentioning chicks hitting on him to make me jealous.
even said he might have pet project. a special new girl.
ive found posts he makes about women online and he calls women in their 30s hags.ewww
i have told my best friends about him and they all say to block his emails and delete all his information.
agreed ?
18 minutes ago - 3 days left to answer.
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or will that make him angry and violent when he sees his emails to me are now blocked ?

2007-12-14 20:38:40 · 11 answers · asked by Leea 1

If so how long? and how do you make it last?

2007-12-14 20:38:07 · 15 answers · asked by HRHGavin 3

for awhile now ive thought that my husband was cheating on me. One day i went into his email and i found a letter that he wrote to his new love interest. he stated that he couldnt wait to get a divorce so that he could be with her. When i confronted him about the letter he threw me and our 2 kids out and said that he wants a divorce. This all happened over the past week. Hes going to file for a divorce in a few days. I need advice on the steps i need to take from here on in. I told him that i dont want that girl around my kids. am i wrong? she knew that he was married and had 2 kids and she still pressed on to be with him. Now i have to get and job and find a place to live fast, im so stressed out. I need advice please!

2007-12-14 20:12:12 · 17 answers · asked by supermom814918 1

Been together for 10 years, had our fair share of turmoil, like most. But things were so good recently.To show him how much I appreciated him/us, I got him everything he wanted for Chanukah. + I got together with family members in secret and purchased a gift certificate for his lifelong dream. SKYDIVING. He was thrilled!

Night 1, 2, 3, 4 go by, and nite after nite I get nothing from him. Finally night 8 is upon us, and late that eve he admits that he's gotten nothing for me. I love giving gifts, and I know that's what it's all about. But man, my heart sank because I only asked for one thing (a juicer). I even told him if we didn't have that in our budget just to get me some cute/inexpensive pajamas. He did neither. We spent a good deal on the kids; I see where he might not have been able to go all out for me. Thing is, he did this to me last year, too. I want to forgive. But my feelings are so hurt. I feel unimportant. Seems when things feel good, he does this. W/so many things. Wtf?

2007-12-14 20:11:13 · 8 answers · asked by Misty P. 2

2007-12-14 19:55:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don´t know if I just don´t want them or that I am not ready, however I´ll be 33 this month...
my situation:
*+long, stable and good relationship with husband
+3 bedroom flat
+husband is currently out of work, but is looking for a new job and never takes a long time to find another good hob
+I am at college, but will finsh in 1 year
+no family or friends nearby

so what do you think? what should definately improve/change or are they just excuses??

2007-12-14 19:49:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Granted this was long distance and we were both involved with other people...Got over it, moved on...Now he is back...But I say, you leave when things get complicated, don't bother coming back, life is complicated, and so is love...U don't have the balls for it, I don't want you for my man...who agrees? and who doesn't? No more chances...

2007-12-14 19:42:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been playing an online game with me for sometime now. He was flirting with this married woman (you'd think she would know better). I saw it with my own eyes but didn't see it as important and I thought I should stop him anyway, so I did and everything was fine except she use to send tell to him really late at night it was very annoying.... anyway I find out that he gave her his email at work or some other email for her to mail him and he says its nothing, its just about raiding. Do I really look that dumb? anyway I kind of knew he was talking to her another way but now am sure and it really ticked me off that he would deceive me for "nothing, just raid talk". I mean after confronting him he brought flowers to apologise but all they do is remind me of his deception and now he is still grouping with her online even after all I have been through and he calls me a ***** and a cow after I ask him about it again. I feel abused and disrespected.

2007-12-14 19:42:03 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 4

How do you stop loving someone after 16 years and 5 kids?? I am so mad at my ex for so many things, I just can't seem to stop loving him. How has he stopped loving me??

2007-12-14 19:36:50 · 10 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2

I'm not in this situation, I've just known friends who have.

2007-12-14 19:34:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you knew ahead of time your future in laws were not so nice would you still marry that person?

2007-12-14 19:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently with a guy who is really a loser. He leaves me at home with the kids while he goes out and parties, and he doesn't have a job. Is it wrong of me to be open to offers from other men, if I know that it is not going to work out with the one I am with. The only reason I haven't left yet is because we are living with my family right now and he has nowhere to go.

2007-12-14 19:28:37 · 14 answers · asked by Amber D 2

My wife has never really enjoyed sex with me or anybody else. At the beginning of our relationship this was okay but now, years later it is very bothersome. She wants to have sex with me but I feel it is only because she feels it is her duty...she does not enjoy it. I do not enjoy having sex when she is not enjoying it. Would it be damaging to the relationship for me to just masturbate?

2007-12-14 19:21:21 · 28 answers · asked by nwcowgirl024 3

expensive but I want it to be unique...any suggestions on what to get her? She is around 40 to 50 years old.

2007-12-14 19:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by LiFe is WONDERFUL 3

2007-12-14 19:17:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering what everyone thought about this question.

2007-12-14 18:58:09 · 31 answers · asked by xxeastbaycorexx 2

What do married people (NOT DIVORCED People) think about child support?

2007-12-14 18:27:30 · 12 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5

It's been 3 yrs and one wife later for him, but he still tries to contact me. I had to change my email which I've had since 1998, because he wouldn't stop emailing me and yes, I could have blocked him but he has those stupid Google searches programmed for my email addy so anytime I would join a public forum he would find them...After I changed my email he found me on myspace and sent me a really nasty email about how he hated me, but then the very next day he sent me one apologizing, all to which I didn't not respond (I did set my MYSPACE to private so he couldn't see what was going on with me.) It's been about a month or so since I heard from him, but then tonight out of no where he sends me this TEXT telling me he had moved and wished me an early happy bday. I just want him to leave me alone...I've begged and begged and I don't know what else to do. Any advice?
26 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer.

2007-12-14 18:16:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i pay what the court says i should pay, she tells me that they still cant make it. should i pay more?

or is what im giving enough

my kids are feed, have clothes, and toy so the kids dont go with out

2007-12-14 18:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 17:46:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for only a few months & I already find myself having a competition with my husband's games. I am at this stage where I am begginf my husband to spend time with me. He rather sit in front of the playstation & play for hours instead of us spending time together. I am tired of begging him for his attention. He should know his responsiblilties, etc. I don't mind him paying 1 or 2 hrs during the weekends but 7 hrs on 1 day of the weekend, I think that is a bit too much.

And when I do remind him that its too much now, he will give me the 5mins story or he is almost done & after asking him for the 10th time now, when he finally puts the computer or PS off, he is all moody.

All I want to do is spend time with my husband but he rather be spending that time with his games. Should I be begging for my husband's attention it this way

2007-12-14 17:36:53 · 14 answers · asked by Cute 2

your fantastic husband totally forgot about it and has been forgetting about it for the past 5 years of your marriage?

2007-12-14 17:34:07 · 14 answers · asked by Equinox 6

2007-12-14 17:32:27 · 15 answers · asked by Nadir L 1

I have a fiance that is, to say the least, selfish. We have 2 kids together, and he always leaves me with them while he goes out to the bar with friends, but I am not allowed to go out. He won't admit to cheating, but I think that he has. He used to be addicted to drugs and he would stay gone all night and not answer his phone. Sometimes, he would say that he was going to the gas station, and I would not see him until the next day. One time, he disappeared for 3 days! Also, he doesn't have a job right now and we have to live with my brother. I just had my daughter, and yet, I am the one desperately looking for a job. We don't even have a car! He doesn't even go to bed until 4 or 4:30am and doesn't wake up until like 3pm. He isn't even worried about supporting our children...I know I need to leave him, but I love him....sometimes. What should I do?

2007-12-14 17:26:10 · 21 answers · asked by Amber D 2

The hidden phone numbers (Listed as department at her work) the text messages arranging a meeting,( Younger man at her work), even the smell in her hair and between her legs one night. It is all explained away by her logically. I know she has cheated on me, I have enough evidence to confirm it but it appears that even a photo of her doing the thing would not get admission or remorse from her. I have tried to keep my faith in her. She will not admit to anything and after two years my self esteem has disolved, I have no trust in her and depression haunts my every day. I cant hold down a job and have gone form a warm caring man to one who is bitter and angry everyday. I dont sleep and my health is deteriorating.
The question is after two years of trying how do I get her to admit to it and start to help repair this marriage (and my life) or is it time to jus bale out.
I always felt that her admission, regret and appology would restore some value to this marriage and trust to our life.

2007-12-14 17:00:45 · 14 answers · asked by norm d 1

I have asked my husband several times to not look at porn, his first response was he didn't think it bothered me, he said he would stop since it does, I was thankful for his concern and trusted that he would quite. Time and time again, however,I have discovered that he still does, he says he doesn't have a problem with quiting but yet he continues after I have asked him to stop. We have had several conversations about it and swears that he doesn't do it anymore, but I discovered today that he is registered to the playboy site. What is going on? How do I deal with this?

2007-12-14 15:54:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous