Marriage & Divorce - 14 December 2007

i am slim and work out a lot but i still am not totally happy with my legs and it seems no matter how much i run, and use weights they just arent what i would like them to look like ideally. im also only a 34B chest size and wouldnt mind upgrading to a C. my husband goes ballistic any time i suggest some minor surgery that would make me feel so much better about myself. he insists that he would not be attracted to me if i was "fake" but i think thats bs since half the women i've found in his porn file on the computer look fake and he obviously likes them very much? what should i do? should i get the surgery anyway or respect his opinion. btw: i would not use his money for the surgery..only money i've saved from my own job.

2007-12-14 05:21:51 · 29 answers · asked by Heather 3

any one there wherein your hubby walks nude in the house before and after shower,even in the presence of his 65 old mother and even just a few time can talk to mother naked while the mother looking away?What u will think about this, am from usa...i confronted hubby if there is incest going on he says its gross and sick...because i felt like he is seducing his mother. hubby is changing his bad habits whenever i tried opening it up, after i ask him about incest thing, he does not act now so physically close to his mother. Is this an indication that he is just overcomfortable with his mom that he can walk nude in front of her....

thank you for your advice and time

2007-12-14 05:21:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where should I go to get marriage licence? will they open during the Christmastime?

2007-12-14 05:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by tu h 1

she is not really my "friend" her brother are y firneds, but she likes to tag along. she is only 11 or 12yrs old! how can i help her get through this? she is very dramatic and emotional about this kind of stuff, and to top it off- she lives in a not to good area- i don't want to to start doing drugs or something she will regret!

2007-12-14 05:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by what i'd do 4 u 2 love me 1

I hate saying im seperated.....i would rather say single,

2007-12-14 05:12:22 · 33 answers · asked by Reta 1

and your lady was upset because she discovered she's got a peeping Tom? Would you do anything to the guy?

2007-12-14 05:10:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wouldn't it be better to not fake it or at least not share?

2007-12-14 05:09:07 · 23 answers · asked by Disgruntled 2

She shows her best friend of 20 years her gift that cost 500 dollars sneaky without him knowing and the wife shows her holiday gift of 20 dollars from walmart.
They asked me if its the thought that counts.
I said thats what good hearted people say but id rather not answer
They said its a good thing you didnt answer.

2007-12-14 05:09:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do if your ex husband can't stand your new boyfriend, but expects and pushes his new girlfriend on you? He talks so bad about my boyfriend and if I have a problem with his girl friend, all of the sudden I am just horrible.

2007-12-14 05:08:19 · 26 answers · asked by cyn s 2

2007-12-14 05:02:46 · 15 answers · asked by Lean_on_Me 1

They have been married for 7 1/2 years but separated for 4 years and he is about to remarry in May i think. She has not been faithful to him at all and they had to get a DNA test on their youngest. He has been paying child support for their two kids for the past 4 years(since they have been separated). How does he stop her from being a gold digger?

2007-12-14 04:58:40 · 7 answers · asked by deltalicious_oo_oop 1

I have seeked counceling for myself she refuses to go to marriage counseling.The reason for seperating was I was being moody and yelled at her twice.I have told her sorry but she refuses to forgive me saying she can't trust me.She had previouse ex's that was abusive.I love her with all my heart and wish there was something I could do to soften her attitude towards me.I tried begging, pleading,nothing has worked.I wish there was something I could do.

2007-12-14 04:55:31 · 18 answers · asked by andrew n 1

If ur being intimate w/ ur wife/girlfriend does it turn u on when they dig their nails into ur back when the moment becomes intense?

Women, do ur men like it?

I'm always afraid of hurting him so I try to becareful.

2007-12-14 04:46:56 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6

My husband and i are seprated and he just got back from the military . Well hurt happened on both sides but finally we started getting along last week we sleep together and a few days later ate together and he bought me clothes on another day last week i brought our 2 yr old to him and dropped her off at 9 pm i picked her up he said lets all go eat together we had a nice time He said he would call me it is now friday no call At the beginning of the week i tryed to call and text him he never answered. I really don't understand how he can let the week go by i think this means he doesn't miss me? or is thinking i have no idea but it really hurts i need a man to answer this. Everytime i go there i can't call because he doesn't answer so i show up inexpected theres never another women around and from other things i really think he is not cheating. but for the life of me if we are divorcing why would he be so nice with me and then turn around & not call i have not seen him all week since sun

2007-12-14 04:42:59 · 11 answers · asked by poo~poo 1

I met this guy 4 months ago from swisserland online, he seem to be ok , so also talk with his mother who lives in south africa told me she is looking forward to meeting me i am wondering how much of this is true he thinks god brought us toghter since we meet on a christren date site

2007-12-14 04:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by charmone517 1

help i feel so unappreciated! Im 24 and a im a pretty girl but my husband who i have been with for 8 years never suprises me or takes me away and we never go out for the day anywhere, he also never compliments me .. i feel so bored and depressed, i always tell him but he just says im giving him a headache and stop moanng at him ! Can anyone give me some advice thank you,

2007-12-14 04:36:34 · 33 answers · asked by katie 1 1

I believe everyone is "addicted" to something. Work, church, sports, men. What do you dream about. What do you think of 1st thing in the morning? What thought or habit helps you through life and makes everyday worth living?

2007-12-14 04:31:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do any of you agree with her belief?

2007-12-14 04:20:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh, and what does it mean for you?
For example: crankiness, unsightly red stains on the sofa, etc.

2007-12-14 04:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

In adult movies it always appears white. Is this normal?

2007-12-14 04:18:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has never been the emotional type. However, lately, I have been going through a rough period in my life and when I talk to him about it I get absolutely no comfort. He just gets angry at me at says I am overemotional. What can I do to get him to try and sympathize with me and just lend me a shoulder to cry on?

2007-12-14 04:15:00 · 17 answers · asked by Beana 2

Why is divorce so hard? Why can't one just accept the fact the other wants out? Why would u wanna be w/ someone that doesn't wanna continue being w/ u? I understand that person may love u, but obviously the feeling is not mutual so why torture urself?

2007-12-14 03:54:16 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Gotta Luv Pure Evil ♥ 4

my husband says yes but i say no way.

sallie

2007-12-14 03:47:13 · 30 answers · asked by sallienjim 2

womans feminine and submissive side! The men get to enjoy seeing their gal in heels, stockings, ruffled undies, and an apron and women love to wear all that frilly stuff. Its a win win for both!
You should be willing and happy to model anything your significant other desires- right!

2007-12-14 03:38:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, what would you do if you and your husband could not have children there was nothing that you could do. But want one really bad, A friend offers to have sex with you to get you pregnant and the husband agees to this. No strings attached and the husband would be the father. What effects do you think that this would have in the long run????

2007-12-14 03:36:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is nothing my our divorce decree stating I can't move.

2007-12-14 03:27:37 · 34 answers · asked by Secret 1

We have been together for 8 years, married for 2. He and my 20 yr old daughter don't get along. HE told her she could move back home to go back to school. She has an infant. She went back to HIGH SCHOOL. He picks on her all the time. Always finding something to complain about. He says I always take her side. I tell him he always picks on her. He calls her nasty names which I take as a disrespect to me. He hardly works. Gets a job, then quits. We always have money problems. I smartened up and thought if I stopped paying HIS bills then maybe he would step up and grow up. NOPE. His cell phone got cut off and his truck has been hidden from the repo man. Instead he now drives MY car that I just got in July. I just get to pay for it. He has a job this month, but when he got his first paycheck, already stated that if his next one is this short, he is going to quit. He threatens all the time that he is going to leave. Finally told him, that if he was leaving, go ahead.

2007-12-14 03:24:43 · 35 answers · asked by Carollynne 2

I'm in a long distance relationship. I've noticed that the root problem in our relationship is jealousy. I feel like a little bit of this is a normal emotion in a ldr. But the other night, he did something that truly disturbed me. We were talking on the phone, and he kept mentioning how he thought that I could have another man in my bed while I'm on the phone with him. We kept talking, and then my phone died and I waited a few minutes for it to charge to call him back. When I did, he told me to just call him when i got back in town and hung up the phone. Only 3 minutes before, he was telling me how much he loved me, and couldn't wait for me to get home. I know he's an extremely jealous person but I didn't know how bad it was. I tried calling him yesterday, and he basically said he didn't want to talk to me. I have cheated on him in the past, but I thought we were over that. What's wrong with him?

2007-12-14 03:24:14 · 13 answers · asked by singingbird 1

We've been married for more that a year and until now i've haven't *** everytime we have sex.. everytime im almost theire there will be something pops on my mind and i forgot about CUMMING.. i need help for you guys.. Thanks

2007-12-14 03:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

that caused you to fal out of love with him and then leave or consider leaving?

2007-12-14 03:20:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous