Marriage & Divorce - 14 December 2007

2007-12-14 09:21:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok... now that i have your attention, can you sell people on eBay???

2007-12-14 09:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i pay child support to her through the state of Wash.When I get any corespondance from him, it's addresed using the step father's last name. pictures too. It's like she's trying to erase me. but they still accept the money.

2007-12-14 09:13:44 · 22 answers · asked by DAVE L 1

2007-12-14 09:11:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out that my husband (weve been together for 10 years)has been looking at gay stories,some of which envolve storys about "daddy 25"and "little jimmy ".He has a fake e mail "name".He has also sighned up to "adult friend finder" as a man seeking a man for a relationship,3 somes etc although doesnt appear hes taken it any further than filling out a profile.I know he loves me and our children but what should i do?

2007-12-14 09:10:06 · 92 answers · asked by patty 1

i married before one year it was love marrige but after three months he beat me because he dont want me to go my parents house and dont want to do job all the time he was at home then i come to my parents house he was calling me continousily i ask him talk to my father plz i will come my father was very angry at him the boy was very cruel he tell to me that he will not talk to my father iwant to go then i went to other country for change and when i come back i remarried he cheated me a lot when i go for divorce in court his wife to come with him now we are divorced but i am really depreesed at his behvoiur he very bad man and still not giving my own things his second wife is living at my things furniture tv dvd clothes gold all things what to do really felling bad i am cheated

2007-12-14 09:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still love my ex a lot!! I know that we were meant for each other. We had to break up becuase of religion. I am now married to a good man but I know I'm not in love with him. I have tried and tried to keep the marriage bond because i made a promise to God to stay with him forever. I believe that God hates a divorcing and I know its a huge sin. I have done a lot of research believe me everything. I thought he would be a good husband for me and I thought that sometimes love isn't everything,....but I can't take it anymore. I cannot make myself make love with him again!! It just makes me sick to my stomach becuase I know he doesn't have my heart. I have gone into severe depression trying to cope with all this. I have kept in contact with my ex as friends through the whole 3yrs I have been married. There are no children involved thank God!! He is single and wants to be together again. I have been thinking about moving to where he lives and separate from my husband what should I do?

2007-12-14 08:56:58 · 18 answers · asked by l2d 3

I'm 18 and obviously never had sex before, I've put a lot of though into it, and think it would be best to save that special moment for marriage ?

Are there any other guys here that agree with me ?

No I'm not religious nor am I crazy, I'm just stating my opinion...

Girls what would you think of a man wanting to save sex before marriage ? Would you marry a virgin ?

Best Regards

Jordan

2007-12-14 08:51:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I moved to NYC from Phoenix so that we could get married and be close to her father who was sick at the time. He unfortunately has since passed away and I will eventually have a Government job waiting for me back in Phoenix. I am trying to improve a few things for my family as a whole with this decision. Here are the most prominent ones:

1. Affordable housing
2. Same pay with a much smaller cost of living
3. 10 minute commute compared to 3 hours per day
4. More time spent with my wife and child
5. Retirement benefits
6. Better schooling options for my child

To be fair I must list some of her concerns and why she does not want to move.

1. Her whole family lives here.
2. She only has one friend in Phoenix who may move away at any time.

She doesn't work currently and won't have to unless she wants to. If and when this opportunity arrives what do I do if she says no and refuses to leave with me? Does anyone know the legalities of this situation involving a child?

2007-12-14 08:47:49 · 10 answers · asked by curious george 2

ok i maet a girl online we chated for 20 years now i when to see her in the hpilipines and we new that we do love easshother so mush that i what to marry her and her mo and dad is ok with it but i am 44 and have thids kids full time they likr her too they are calling her mom i am 44 years old liviing in canada whatwell poeple say to us ?

2007-12-14 08:41:33 · 19 answers · asked by john c 1

My bf and I have had a certain issue for a long time. I cant seem to forget about it and move on. I feel a lie detector test will settle it and then I can finally drop it. My redundant questions get on his nerves and I am afraid if I keep asking I will lose him.

Is giving him a polygraph test taking it too far? I think he may agree to do it just so we can finally drop this issue.

What do you think?

2007-12-14 08:33:34 · 40 answers · asked by CaliGirl 5

not making a man work hard for her or The man TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THE EASY WOMAN, INSTEAD OF BUSTING HIS BUTT TO WIN HER LOVE. JUST PICK ONE THAT BOTHERS YOU THE MOST AND EXPLAIN.

2007-12-14 08:32:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 08:11:43 · 48 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

My husband cheated on me. With a stripper, he said he wants to make the marriage work. But I feel so sad. I trusted this man I thought he was my best freind. Come to find out he lied to me and cheated. I's been 6 months now and I still feel sad and the thought of a stripper all up on my man makes me sick. I love him but everything keeps going through my head. What should I do.? Help!!!!

2007-12-14 08:08:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a married man has a female friend that he is constantly talking to and saying "baby i love you" and kisses his friend on the lips is this cheating on his wife... even if there is no intercourse involved...

2007-12-14 08:06:35 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 08:05:15 · 28 answers · asked by shygirl 1

Just wondering who shops for who. Do you pick out your inlaws gifts with your husband with out your husband or together?

2007-12-14 08:04:21 · 6 answers · asked by Kat G 6

I am away a lot being a Marine and it seems like every time I have to go she finds another man to keep her sex life active. That has happened 3 different times now that I know of. I am about to return again from a deployment and she gives her word that she has been faithful this time.

The problem is that when I do come home, she treats me like a king. She gives me 100% attention and waits on me hand and foot. I feel so bad sometimes and I try to do anything and everything to “out-do” her in kindness. I seem to never win.

I have two boys and really just can’t see them not in my life on a daily basis. I have stayed with her…AM I CRAZY??? Or are there others that have kept their significant other after they are unfaithful.

Sometimes I feel like I would be better off without the pain she has put me through and find a great woman that I could enjoy life with but………………..I feel trapped.

2007-12-14 08:00:09 · 52 answers · asked by SEMPER FI 2

do you ever sotp loving an ex if they're rotton to you

2007-12-14 07:59:03 · 14 answers · asked by tip 3

In the parenting plan is states that the religion is "joint". That I aggreed to when I though my ex would agree with me on not taking the 4 kids to this church. I am the custodial parent and I am very EX mormon. My ex husband goes to WORK on sundays and they are going sometimes with his parents or family mombers. Their not even with HIM! I am starting to pick up the kids early sundays mornings witch was ok until my ex started this power trip to have the kids go. He is ex mormon too! In the paperwork the weekend visits are until 7 pm. But he's not ever there with them. I called my Lawyer,(waiting) but your thoughs on the matter or what I should do next would be greatly appreciated! Thanks

2007-12-14 07:57:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fed up with making more money. I been working so hard to have enough money for myself, tuition, and family expense.

I feel like life doenst need to be so overwhelm. Do you agree with me ?

2007-12-14 07:56:13 · 28 answers · asked by fedor_fan 2

Living together over year, we are late 40's. From the start things were not great. He didn't like sex much, then after a month, he suddenly stopped sex and he hasn't touched me in 15 months.(I love sex by the way!). Says he simply has no desire for me or anyone. Have been to doctors. It's not the sex so much as a massive lack of intimacy and fun. I'm very loving and open. He'd been feeling horrible for a year, then his attack. Thank God he made it! He seems still bent on self destruction. I had total compassion and have done everything for him, but he rarely talks to me, never laughs, doesn't listen, doesn't seem to care about me, no kisses etc. But he is not all bad! He is also sweet. We never fight, so I thought that was good. I had romantic visions his attack would make him have a love for life and me and have different priorities, No. As much has he loves me, I feel so lonely and unhappy it is pathetic. He will be so upset when I leave. I do love him but I get confused. Advise!

2007-12-14 07:51:03 · 20 answers · asked by kalliemorgan62 1

...if you would be offended if your husband wanted to try women's clothing? Would you find this odd and would you be upset with him? Do you think it would change your relationship? As a caveat, would it matter if he had no other "feminine" tendencies...?

2007-12-14 07:48:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here's the deal, 4 yrs ago I met a man that lives 4 hrs away from me. We had a hot and heavy relationship for 2 yrs. I went and stayed with him for a couple of weeks and told him I loved him and wanted us to live together. He told me he loved me but couldn't handle the responsibility of taking care of me. And he loves my kids. He still sends them cards for birthdays and such. Hello I'm 30 yrs old, I work and support my 2 kids on my own. He wanted us to be "friends w/ benefits" I told him I wanted more so we ended our relationship. Two years later I am married to a wonderful man who loves me and my kids. Would give us the moon if we asked. The only problem is he's 12 yrs older than me and tells me he doesn't need to have sex. We only have sex 2-4 X's a month which makes me angry. I introduced my husband to my ex cause his sis is my bf. Now he wants to come back into my life but just for sex. I'm still in love with my ex and am soooo confused. Any advice

2007-12-14 07:35:37 · 22 answers · asked by Amy N 1

2007-12-14 07:35:18 · 57 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

...How do you feel being without the person at the Holiday time?
Do you want to call? Do you want to have them here just to not be alone ont he Holiday?
How are yo dealing with it?

2007-12-14 07:32:48 · 13 answers · asked by Francesca 5

2007-12-14 07:31:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of four months and I recently made up after I learned that he hadn't paid November or December's rent (I just moved to his state from the west coast and I was without a job). Now I learned that in the past he has had all of these different types of women as sexual partners, although we spoke about our pasts before and after premarital counseling. (While in the army he has slept with a lot more women than he originally told me). I know it's in the past, but I look at him differently now, especially since he lied about it before. He's turning out to be a real disappointment. I'm trying to let it go, but I truly feel disgusted now. I don't even want to touch this man. I know we all have a history, but do I have a right to be upset with him?

2007-12-14 07:28:29 · 53 answers · asked by Just Asking 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for two year and prior to that we were great friends. He has express to me numerous times that he wants to marry me. We never had any big or real problems. I found out in July that he was cheating on me with someone that lived far away from us. (1825 miles away)
When I found out I was hurt of course. I never told him right away that I knew he was cheating. I would drop hints to him that I felt something was going on. Finally one day I just could not take it and I tol him I knew everything. He finally confessed. He promised that it’ll never happen again and that he would never contact or see her again. I spoke with the women and she said she didn’t know about me and wanted nothing to do wit him. I want to know should I forgive him and stay with him or end what we have / had?

2007-12-14 07:25:25 · 13 answers · asked by satavia83 1

Sometimes when I am alone (at work, out shopping, etc.) I wonder what it would be like if I just didn't go home. I wonder how it would feel to just keep driving past the house until I felt like stopping. I wonder what he would do without me there when he gets home from work every day. I wonder what I could do on my own. Not forever. Just for a little while.
But I always go home and do the things a good little wife is suppossed to do with no help and very little thanks.

Has anyone else ever felt this way and how did you get through it?

2007-12-14 07:21:36 · 32 answers · asked by Sarah K 4