Marriage & Divorce - 14 December 2007

when we got married she said she wanted to have them

2007-12-14 13:20:45 · 23 answers · asked by ? 6

I'm 25 my boyfriend is 29. We have been together for 7 months. He wants me to move in. I'm thinking about it. I will have my own room with all my stuff in it. We spend all of our free time together. I will stay over for 4 days every week. We get along great. If we have a problem with one and other we can talk it out. He's my best friend here. Yet I am still a little freaked out. It's not about the money at all. I am going to start working 2 jobs and we would never see one and other. We miss each other when we can't be together. He lives about 25 min away across town.

With God and all that aside. I want to know from people that have tried it. What do you think. Does it help or does it hurt a relationship. I read what the so called Experts say. Word is it increases the risk of divorce. Screw them I want to know what the people say.

2007-12-14 13:14:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a flurry of emotions, and an even greater range of worries. And since my wife never comes home, (which was the first issue) i need to lay this out to the WWW.
1) She wants to leave me so she can see the world, where only 20'ish, so i feal left to the way side because i put so much of my heart into the last five years of our life.
2) For the last three months she has stoped comming home at night's, somtimes for days at a time, while i come home alone.
3) I've paid most of the bills for the longest time, and now that she want's to just 'up and move' im left with all of the bills
4) not 3 weeks ago, i co-signed on a new car for her
5) I got a new (day job) so we could spend evenings together, now she stays out every night, comming home when im in bed (3ish)

All of these things, for which i know your thinking "Thank god the H0 is leaving. I know, i know, but i love her, shes been my girl for ever, and now she just wants to leave??!?!? My heart is broken.
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2007-12-14 13:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can somebody clear up the Mississippi Minor Marriage Laws???? I come from an abuse crazy family and this is my way out, please try to understand, I desperately need some help here. I dont want youre too young, I realize how old I am and what my responsibilities will bw okay. Just..plaese...help me.

2007-12-14 13:08:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

We need to get married, but we dont have paretal consent, and dont plan on getting it. Please, i need help! I come from a crazy family and this is my way out, besides i really DO love him, help me, please!

2007-12-14 12:55:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We agreed to separate and live in different rooms. No intimacy for 3 years, no kids. He lied that he wanted them for 7 years, I ended up having an affair after 2 years of sleeping alone.. Suppose, we hurt each other in the past, but he just can't stop! He checks for my "whereabouts", eats my food (does not bother to clean) and demand me to bring him crisps and salsa. Three weeks it was "I don't want you to spend Christmas with my parents", then yesterday "I never told you that", then "you should come if you are going to be alone". My brain melts. Tonight I found his love letters with a young girl (he is 39) he met over Internet. She is from a small city in Russia and sends him photos (okay, not in bikinis, but still a bit too much for first letters). I don't care - whatever! But it hurts! I don't even fully understand my feelings! It's over, for sure. I don't see any chances for future. But I am just so exhausted! Coming home and having to put up with his antics!

2007-12-14 12:53:59 · 11 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

would you be mad?

How often does your husband go out without you?

2007-12-14 12:53:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he seeks comfort in another womans bed for the night ,and the wife is attacked in her home when her husnabd should be there .Has she only herself to blame .

2007-12-14 12:51:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in Iraq and is telling me that he has little computer acsses. What he does not know is I see everytime he opens my mail. He checks it everyday and reads my emails but it may take 3-4 days before he gets back to me. Anyone have an opinion why a guy would lie about somthing so stupid?

2007-12-14 12:50:14 · 15 answers · asked by seacoral28 3

2007-12-14 12:37:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-14 12:36:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Thinking about divorcing my husband b/c I am no longer in love with him but I am scared that I will live the rest of my life, or at least the better part of near future alone. I have 3 youngs kids and they are a handful but I am very intelligent, outgoing and attractive, some might even say very beautiful. Am I setting myself up for disaster/heartache?

2007-12-14 12:11:52 · 48 answers · asked by goodgirl 1

i read this in pocketbooks but i don't kno if they really do happen...just wondering

2007-12-14 11:36:03 · 11 answers · asked by justME 3

do bf or husband remember there first gf or wife to whom they were saying they love them a lot at that time now they have other gf /wife or they will live them for other girl whats ur opinion

2007-12-14 11:22:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been married 4 2 yrs, ppl say we r a well matched couple........my hsband doesnt knw that i knw the password of his email account.......i check it once in a while coz jus 2 months after our wedding i found him chatting 2 annonmyous girls.........we had a big arguement, i deleted all his contacts.....he apologised saying there's nothin 2 worry bout, he was jus making a fool of ppl. He promised he wont do it again n i thought i was the end.........but 2day visited his account after long time n was surprised 2 see loads of new email contacts........all girls..........few msgs.......a girl has also sent her photos n a bit mention of dirty stuff. He normally deletes his sent msgs, so cant see those ones.
Now i m in dilemma........dnt knw wat 2 do.........he is nice n cool...........goes straightway 2 work n comes home on time everyday.........there is no other reason 2 suspect him.......do u think he is cheater? do most of the married men do this jus 4 fun? plz

2007-12-14 11:18:21 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Divine 2

My wife has been looking at lesbian oriented sites on the web while I'm away. Is she bi? or just into what she sees? I've asked her but she denies it. How should I approach her or ask her about the sites?

2007-12-14 11:18:05 · 8 answers · asked by Vinny 1

Everytime I tell him my feelings about something that bothers me that he might do for example I dont agree with my boyfriend going to strip clubs - i've heard it all about how boys will be boys etc and how many women dont care if their bfs go to those places but i do - i think its very disrespectful and i dont like the idea of him coming home to me after that to take it out on me like many other women - puke! anyway, so he promised me he wouldnt do such a thing cuz he knows it'll hurt me but i found out that he went many times with his buddies and told me he was going to the bar instead.

I feel like its like this with everything, if he puts his mind to something he'll find a way to do it even if its thru lying and that hurts me and we talk about this stuff so much and he promises me the world and doesnt do any of it.

if this is the case and he doesnt love me or whatever why does he still stay with me and say i love you?

5 yr relationship by the way

2007-12-14 11:16:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

left you for someone else ..but keep having you watch to see what your up to.. my bf has that promblem.. to make matter worse they have kids together.. no they never married.. she kick him out christmas eve.. (2 yrs before we met.. i mention this so you would know i had nothing to due with the break up)and moved some one else in new year eve.. but keeps taps on him.. has him watch through friend.. now we have moved to a new state.. so it is not happening.. just wonder what you make of this..also she wanted to marry him. and he did not... now she is married and still acting this way

2007-12-14 11:16:00 · 3 answers · asked by vis 7

She trying to get my attention?
she hugged this guy infront of me and i noticed she glanced at me while doing so is this a good thing. She ignores me all the time were not even friends yet she is 18
she has called me cute before and sometimes when i walk past her she will look me in the eyes

i ignore her to b/c im nervous


im skepitical to aproach her b/c she is the party typeShe is

2007-12-14 11:13:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been with my husband for almost 9 years married for almost 3. i was 16 when we started dating. he was an amazing person with some bad habbits with weed. through the years we had 2 kids who are the love of my life. for the last 2 years my husband is easily agitated and we have been up and down over the weed. i want him to cut back due to i found out he was smoking at home alone with the kids and 24-7. i blew i love him and that is why i am still here i have been called names, told this is my fault, cheated on one time (but he says it was partially my fault bcuz im to good for him and he felt threatend) he yells at our kids like its nothing and says really mean things to them. now i know my husband is not this person- angry and depressed. but how long can i be the strong wife to make my family the happy family again. i feel that i cant and i hv nothing left. his family thinks i should stay strong but he is making me and my kids weeker and weaker by the day. what do i do

2007-12-14 11:12:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ex had R/O for D/V and vacated in settlement, it was bogus to begin with, only a ploy so I could not recieve any spousal support., (this is in Cal.) now that R/O is vacated can I go back to cour. Ex makes 3-4 times my salary we were married 20 years

2007-12-14 11:01:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are in the process of a ugly divorce. Our 5 kids want to get us christmas gifts,how should we handle it? Who should buy the gifts?? Should I buy a gift for my ex?? Should he buy me a gift??

2007-12-14 10:55:48 · 12 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2

Just to make our soon to be marriage better, is there things we could learn to help us better our relationship and marriage. We have fights sometimes and I just want to know how to better our relationship when we get married. now he doesn't want to go to counseling, how should I convince him that its just for help and not because we have problems now.

2007-12-14 10:47:32 · 13 answers · asked by Ethan's Mama 5

if you could cheat on your man to be with a guy who was huge between his legs and you could not get caught, would you do it?

2007-12-14 10:31:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have and its tearing me up inside

2007-12-14 09:54:58 · 10 answers · asked by pirney 1

Well last night after work my partner got asked to go to the pub with work for a few drinks and he did... The point is that i never get to go out anywhere as i am stuck at home with our 3 children.... If i go somewhere i have to take atleast 1 children with me.... As we have a 3 and 2 year old and a 8month old it is pretty stressful and i dont get a brake as we have no family or friends close by, i was angry with him for going to the pub, but he doesnt think i have a reason to be angry with him!!! does aneyebody think i should have been angry at him?????

2007-12-14 09:52:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

ideas please

2007-12-14 09:47:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been married less than a year. We moved to a new state, and he's made a friend with some girl from his work. They hang out and do lunch every week day, they do happy hour together, and now she's asked him to go into a business together and he accepted, when HE AND I were planning to start our own business. I've met her, at her housewarming party , she barely had two words to say to me. I dunno. I hate to feel so insecure, or even jealous. I haven't made any friends yet and I take lunch alone, all though I've asked if I could meet my husband for lunch but he blows me off, yet comes home with these marvelous stories of "guess where we went today for lunch?". I'm being totally gay, I think. But If I had a friend who was a guy, wouldn't HE be freaking out a little? What do I do??

2007-12-14 09:43:54 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm in because my wife would not be happy if i was out spending our money.....lol

2007-12-14 09:29:22 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. You use sex as a weapon to get what you want... why honor a weapon?

2. You ask use to have sex with just you but you aren't good at it and you don't care to be good at it.

3. Not only are you not good at it but you rarely have it?

Is it just that you need someone to sap emotions off of and pay your bills... is that why you get married? Because for most of you, you are sexually selfish and useless...

To those few out there that do care, do initiate and try like hell to please your man... I give you all the adoration in the world... you are a rare thing.

2007-12-14 09:23:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous