Marriage & Divorce - 14 December 2007

2007-12-14 03:12:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work in a high school as a teacher. One of the other teacher's in my school has been getting close w/ married men who are the parents of students. I have known this for a while and minded my business. Well in the past 6 months she has made advances towards my husband. She texts and calls him non-stop and she even has stopped by our house. I have heard from my friends that they have seen them out at bars together etc. while I couldn't go b/c I am pregnant. With this situation and others, my husband and I are now going through a separation. It has left me torn b/c my homelife and worklife are now connected and I don't want to be in either place. I have spoken to the co-worker but it has done no good. Ultimately my husband is his own person and I hold him accountable. So, the question is do I tell my boss? He notices that something is wrong and is a very fair and genuine person. I just don't want to cause more drama.

2007-12-14 03:12:11 · 39 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4

2007-12-14 03:05:16 · 17 answers · asked by Marie Rose 1

We dated for 3 momths i 29 she 25. All of a sudden she states she was not feeling the spark anymore but she was so into me and wanted to marry me and have kids etc... There were issues of her claiming she neded space and that we needed to know eachother more. She was in a verbally abusive relationship one month before we met ended in a restaring order. She was so happy with me saying how lucky she was and all. She also says she wants to remain friends cause i am a good person. She states she wants to be friends and still hang out. She also states that she broke up with me in a way maybe to get to know me better and for me to just be cool and let her think. She todl me thatt we had a good relationship and she will probably regret this decision for breakup. Family loved us together. She knows i love her and would do anything for her. Is this her way of figuring things out or am i done in her mind. I am just confused on how this came out of nowhere. Any advice of life exper.

2007-12-14 02:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

...my X, we are divorced, but we are on talking terms. She does have my two daughters. She did not directly asked me, but offered to show me her Christmas wish list. What would you do?

2007-12-14 02:49:34 · 11 answers · asked by Randy W 4

Do you think a woman should never settle for second best when she is looking for a partner?

I was really in love with a guy for 5 months. We got on great together except for the fact that he lied to me for two months that he had been married before and had two children. He is only 29 and his children are 2 and 9 years old. He never loved his wife but just married her because she fell pregnant.

However, even though he treated me very well I got fed up with the situation. He had to drop out of college to work when she got pregnant so he has no money. I was paying for most of the bills when I was with him.

His ex-wife was getting his daughter to find out how much I earned and kept asking his daughter to buy things for her. I felt used!! On top of all that his children were being abused and locked in their rooms for hours on end.

2007-12-14 02:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have two beautiful children ages 5 and 2. My youngest will be 3 this month. It seems that since the birth of my 3 year old I have totally lost my sex drive. We have had sex about 4 times in the last 3 years. My husband is very understanding and we have been to counselors, I have had tests run and my doctor says I am a healthy 31 year old diabetic.
I was molested by a family member twice when I was 10 years old and I don't know if that has anything to do with it or not. My husband is the first guy I have had sex with.
I have told my husband that maybe he should divorce me and find someone who can give him the sex he needs. He tells me don't be ridiculous and that marriage isn't all about sex.

Please serious responses only. Is there something I can take or do to increase my sex drive. I find my husband attractive but just hate the thought of sex. I don't know why.

2007-12-14 02:41:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's been divorced for almost 2 yrs (she left him) - she had a boyfriend over the summer but now that she's ended that relationship, she calls her ex (my boyfriend) to invite him for dinner - their kids are with her and she says she's made "too much" food. He luckily doesn't want to go and knows this bothers me. He has 50/50 custody so he sees his kids a lot so I know it isn't for that reason. She also makes excuses for being at his house - example: his house is 1 mile from where she works and she lives 2 miles from him - yet she asked if she could stop by his house (they had a mtg at kid's school later on) and take a nap b4 they left for the mtg. He said no - but am I making a big deal out this? It isn't like she lives that far from where she works and couldn't go home to take a nap. What do you think is going on w/ her. I don't think it's b/c she wants him back & I know he doesn't want her. Why then would she be acting like this? Am I overreacting??

2007-12-14 02:33:45 · 35 answers · asked by singlevtmom 1

I left my kids dad in July, and I moved to Ohio. He came and stoled them Monday, and took them back to Florida. We were never married, but he is their father. I have no court papers saying I have custody, nor does he. He filed for custody in fl., but we have not been to court yet. Know any statues?

2007-12-14 02:31:58 · 8 answers · asked by Mother 1

2007-12-14 02:31:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

HELP!!! so they have been calling my husband private for 5 years!!! yes..pathetic...its gotten to the point that either we find out who it is or we will end up divorced...i called the service provider and they said i needed to get a (apenant..dont know how to spell it) which i believe is a court order...how do i do this??

2007-12-14 02:30:07 · 36 answers · asked by LyNn 1

2007-12-14 02:29:40 · 16 answers · asked by michele 1

i was riased in childrens home .i never had anyone to teach me how to make a turkey dinner .my husband and i have been married 6 yrs .3 of those years he was deployeed ,2 of those went to his family (verrrrrrrry far away ) last yr we had chineese .this yr i really wanna try and do a christmas dinner .i am not the best cook .anaidn ..noone taught me so yr by yr i get better .lol
i have 3 kids ages 8 ,4 and 4.i got a 13 1/2 lbs turkey .good size ?too big?
ok keres my questions ..
how long to defrost ?what temp to cook ?when do i take the insides out ? my husband loves giblet gravy .is everything inside the bird the"giblet "?my friend said to stick an apple inside the bird .(sounded gross ) normal ?
i need the EASIEST fool proof turkey recipet.pls help ty .and
Merry Christmas!

2007-12-14 02:11:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am five months pregnant and seperated from my live in boyfriend.He treats me badly like unplugging the fridge,removing the lights,removing the toilet seat,barricading the living room,spreading stuff in the other room I am using which would affect my health.Its inhumane and do not understand why he is doing this.We even had an altercation where the cops got involve.

2007-12-14 02:08:38 · 29 answers · asked by L A 1

I divorced my ex-husband 5 1/2 years. My kids lived with him 10 month with him in that time I met my boyfriend and moved together (at this point I didn't have the kids); we had great times together we barely had disagreements. Then my ex-husband couldn't handle the kids and they moved with us. My boyfriend doesn't have any children and it has been very difficult to transition from single to have an instant family. He is helping me a lot and he had taken the father part very serious, to the point that I feel that we live only by his rules. I love him and love my kids; I feel I'm in the middle of this. My kids are in their teen age and I heard most of the parents goes through difficult times at this age. My boyfriend wants me to be more like him; I tried to support his rules but sometimes I think he over reacts for small things. I don't know what to do at this point? I know my boyfriend cares for me but I don't feel he cares for my kids, what should you suggest I do?

2007-12-14 01:58:47 · 10 answers · asked by Dulce C 1

My ex husband's girlfriend will not leave me alone. She calls, leaves messages, and text messages me all day. She had my youngest son's medication transferred from the pharmacy by my house to the one by her house. She calls in and picks up his prescriptions before I get a chance to. She registers them into after school sports, when practices are before I get off work. She makes dentist and doctor's appointments for them, then calls me and tells me when they are. She tells my kids that I am not a good mom unless I buy them this and that or enroll them in sports etc. She sends emails to my youngest son's teacher, pretending to be me to get information. She called the glasses place, saying she was me, to see how I paid for the glasses. Every time I talk to him about it, we have a decent conversation and then within a hour she is calling being rude and demainding. I am so tired of all the drama. I want her to just leave me and my kids alone. I didn't marry or divorce her. HELP!!!

2007-12-14 01:33:16 · 23 answers · asked by cyn s 2

I have bean having problems with my husband for a while now, and am tired of him getting home at midnight and for me to know that he gets out of work around 6pm. I got ready for a divorce am ready for it as well. By the difference of Religion he dosen't belive on fixing things because of a Child together, but in my principals I do. But am tired and don't want to go further with this person, am ready to move on. He is agressive and am affraid of his reaccion, How Do I tell him I want the Divorce?
Thanks For ur help.
An unhappy Wife, soon to be single mom...

2007-12-14 01:31:40 · 21 answers · asked by Iveth 1

2007-12-14 01:17:53 · 4 answers · asked by sharmaz_translator 2

I live in NY and I have to have papers served to someone in Florida. How would I go about this?

2007-12-14 01:07:34 · 10 answers · asked by afuller454 1

Okay, here's some details: he waltzed in one Fri night and announced he was "leaving the relationship." After I picked my jaw up off the floor, he left and started moving his stuff out of the house that weekend. That was March 2004. Oct would've been our 19th anniversary. I'll call him "Glen."

Now it's almost 2008 and I still miss him. I'm in another relationship with an incredible man, James. He and I are really more compatable than Glen and I were. I'm happy and doing well except that I'm very in touch with a part of me that still misses Glen.

Of course I would never go back to Glen, not even if he asked me. But I some days I miss him all day long, and have these stinkin sweet dreams about him at night.

I'm afraid I'm not being "really present" to my current relationship because this part of me can't let go of my ex. Should I be completely over him by now, i.e. no poignant dreams at night and no achy feeling in my heart when I think about him?

2007-12-14 00:55:28 · 17 answers · asked by Acorn 7

My boyfriend and I was broke up for 3 months..he started talking to some other girl but nothing ever happened between them.We have been back together for almost 3 months(been together almost 6yrs) I cant stop thinking about him and this girl. It runs though my head all the time. What if's..Does he think about her?. Why do I keep doing this? I'm driving myself crazy please help

2007-12-14 00:54:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every morning for the past 2 years my wife runs down to log onto her work computer as SOON as i get up to get into the shower. She comes running up when i get out. She says she is woring , yes she does work from home in the mornning but at 5:00 ?? iF I HAPPEN TO WALK IN ON HER WHILE SHE IS STILL ON THE SCREEN IN THE MORNING, SHE WILL CLICK IT TO ANOTHER PAGE. I beleive that she is readding personal e mails i am not to see. She did have an affair about 6 years ago.........

2007-12-14 00:54:15 · 13 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1

Well to start I'm 25 and my fiance is 25. Our sex life is good 75% of the time. The 25% is when she is on her period. During that 7 days my sexual hunger grows and grows. Am I in the wrong for asking for one oral experence during that 7 day period? When we were dating she had no problem doing that once a week but ever since we got engaged oral has not happened but maybe once per month. Last night we got into a verbal fight and I asked if she would help me out orally and she said no she didnt want to. So I said thats fine dont expect me to go down on you then. Am I asking for to much? We have had talks before and both have agreed to compermize I would not ask for sex as much and she would be more sexual. I think I have kept up on my deal but in my eyes she hasnt. I dont know what to do. I am willing to try anything. What works to keep both people happy?

2007-12-14 00:23:35 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous