Marriage & Divorce - 17 December 2007

She continues to walk on him and run his life, where do I fit in? We have crossed the just friends line, we can't just be friends, but I can't compete with a woman that continues to run his life and tell him where to go, when to go and what to do when he gets there. Am I just wasting my time?

2007-12-17 23:42:20 · 22 answers · asked by sweetpea 2

the boyfriend has separeted with his wife who is in England with their 2 boys, I dont know why they separated, and iam so in love with him, and dont know if they will reconcile, I hav done this because I lost interest in my Husband due to his ill-treatments and abuse. should I be serious with the boyfriend or I just use him for my feelings? I cant rely on the boyfriend financially coz he doesnt work but does some piece work.

2007-12-17 23:29:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel entitled to a part of it not only because we are married but because he is a foreighner and after 2 yrs together i bought his papers because i love him a yr and a half after that he left me. I will never really know if he used me for a greencard but it appears that way. We have a daughter together and i have one previous marriage I just had surgery and had to move out to live with relatives. Disability is really low i only get 150 a week and have to pay 63 to keep our daughter insured under my insurance because he cancelled her the day before he graduated ait so i don't even get 90 a week. I called him and told him i want my portion for our daughter and he said your not getting a dime of my money & hung up on me & said i'm going to go withdraw it all monday so he went and withdrew 6,000 and spent 2,000 the day before. He will pay me child support if i go to his house on friday he has always been good about that but it's not a great thing he is only doing what he is suppose to

2007-12-17 23:22:55 · 8 answers · asked by poo~poo 1

But sometimes it's better to just keep ur mouth shut !!

I mean sometimes i say what's on my mind for the sake of comunication with my partner and got into huge mess becuz of that

Does anyone agree ? and why ?

2007-12-17 23:19:16 · 8 answers · asked by Maria 6

2007-12-17 23:09:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex and myself decided that he has full custody of the kids and i have full access but last weekend i went to visit them ( tried ) but my ex would not let me see them what right have i got.

2007-12-17 23:09:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend of nearly three years cheated on me and I've been feeling the blues ever since. We have two children together twin son and daughter about a year and a half. I found out in the middle of this year and we broke up for two months then i got back with her partly for the sake of the kids. But even after all this time i can't get over what she did. At times if i sit down and think for to long i get on this emotional roller coaster. She's changed a heck of a lot for me and given up most of her freedoms but I'm still lost and confused i just don't know how i feel about her anymore. I thought this would never happen and i don't think there's any excuse for that no matter how much fighting and arguing is going on. At times the sadness is to much to bear it's like my whole world crashed down. I'm young and i don't want to waste my life on a dead end but i have my kids to think about.

2007-12-17 22:59:16 · 20 answers · asked by Angel R 1

2007-12-17 22:52:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 22:48:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-17 22:43:06 · 14 answers · asked by sm 3

2007-12-17 22:37:41 · 18 answers · asked by juan 1

It doesn't really make sense. Wouldn't the people who were prepared for the marriage be better off?

2007-12-17 22:30:47 · 9 answers · asked by Halley 3

Recruiter in the Military. Going through a divorce at this time, as expected, the wife is unhappy about it. He has been supporting her for 7 years. She hasn't had to work, or do anything for 7 years. Now that he is getting serious about the divorce, and told her he is going to move out, she gets angry and calls his Commanding Officer and whines and complains to him. There is really nothing the CO can do, other than get extremely frustrated with her, which in turns goes to him. His CO said that he has to keep the peace with her until his Recruiting time is done (10 months) or else his career hurts from it. As in, stay with her or you're fired. Now, what in the world does he do in this situation. He can't stand the woman to stay with her, but if he doesn't then he loses his job. She really has him right where she wants him. Can the CO fire him because of his wife annoying him? Thank you

2007-12-17 22:25:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We met at 14.(he was 18) Had a baby at 15. (a boy). Then we had a second son when i turned 18. We were always pretty happy i thought. I found out not long after having my 2nd child he was sleeping with a 16 yr old. ( he says once, but i never found out for sure) He was 22. Then we got over that rough patch. We finally got married in 2000. Our boys stood in our wedding. In 2003 we had our last child (baby girl,Eden). When she was about 2 months he left me and moved in with another woman and her children. Now I know this sounds awful but stay w/ me. I waited for 3 years for him to come back home and to my complete amazment, he finally did. Ok, sooooo we have been back together for like a little over a year and I just feel like he hates me. He seems so angry all the time. He is always yelling and mad at the lott of us. He says he left because I was lazy and did not help him, maybe that is true ( i never agreed but that is how he felt)I am trying so hard. I swear i am. I am 29 now.

2007-12-17 22:21:18 · 8 answers · asked by Samijo 5

We work in the same large office and there is a young girl that works near him who he chats over the internet to all day! They sit literally 4 feet away from each other but when I go over I see that he has a chat window open and he only talks to her. They even chat in the evenings and basically whenever he goes on-line. I told him that I didn't like it but he said he felt sorry for her because she has confided in him about her personal life and problems she has. I think she has just given him a sob story and it probably isn't even true. I have heard that this particular girl has a reputation for being a bit 'free and easy' with herself if you see what I mean. My husband promised he wouldn't do it again but when I went over to his desk yesterday I saw that he was chatting to her again! I don't know why but i pretended I hadn't noticed.

2007-12-17 22:17:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I moved to Ohio in July and foolishly signed away about everything because of emotional stress and not getting an attorney. Now after our year of legal separation is up, my husband, who still lives in North Carolina, is filing for divorce. Is it possible to get my agreement voided and file a new agreement?

2007-12-17 22:12:04 · 6 answers · asked by sharon 2

2 days before my birthday, i caught my husband bringing a ***** home in the middle of the night...i thought he went over to his mum's place to sleepover. but my neighbour, who is my friend, told me that someone is in the house, but i don't believe her till i got home and its true...i was so frustrated that i slapped and hit him. it was more frustrating when i couldn't get to hit that *****. when i told his parents about this, they just wouldn't believe it, till i said that i really saw with my two eyes...and they gave him a bashing...his parents begged me to give him another chance...i don't mind that, but does he want to give himself another chance to repent? and after all this had happened, can i still have sex with him? i am in need too...but i find that he don't need me for that anymore now, but i also feel disgusted..

2007-12-17 22:07:20 · 12 answers · asked by sweetiepie_1712 1

It's very hard to decide right now what I want. I know that me and my husband are not compatible. We have totally different personalities. We have accepted our differences, and are just living with eachother ignoring how far apart we are. I am outgoing, adventurous, want to have fun, have a positive life perspective, for me life is just too short not to enjoy it. My husband is totally different, he is too emotional, loves sad movies, gets easily stressed with his own or other's problems. He keeps everything to himself, and wants to stay inside all the time. After living together for 2.5 years and having a kid, and struggling to compromise, we have reached to the point that he watches his own sad movies in his room, I have a seperate room and I watch my own comedies. I go out with my friends, and have my own life, and he stays in because that's what he wants. We barely talk, maybe one or 2 words a day. We had sex 3-4 times during the past 2 years, and basiccally we are in repression!

2007-12-17 21:19:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for a 2 years to my hubby. for the last two years i have put up with him being very verbally abusive, not holding down employment, being irresponsable, and just downright mean. dont get me wrong, we have had some great times as well. but when we have arguments he says things that i wont ever forget or heal from.
I have told him in the past that if the abuse didnt stop one day i would grow to despise him and that it would make me snap.
Every time he has been this way to me i feel like i love him less. now it is to the point i just want to leave him. but suddenly he is guilting me and telling me he wants to "work on being a better husband". but.... i have heard this before.. many many times. I Just feel like i am at my end and I want to leave him. It just seems hard as we have a 7 month old son. But i know my hubby and i know if i stay, i will be unhappy over the way he treats me for years to come. i need advice. seperate? and if so, what is the best way to.. :(

2007-12-17 20:56:19 · 10 answers · asked by jordy 1

if the man is not able to secure athe first wife's consent.And the wife is a christian.Can a husband still marry after converting to islam?

2007-12-17 20:44:24 · 6 answers · asked by miggy 1

i dated a girl for four months. we were together every day. the first two weeks were amazing for both of us. but i got scared after two weeks when i found out her ex (one month away from divorce being official) was bad mouthing her infront of the kids. i completely did a 180 and ran away emotionally. we still hung out, but she was on an emotional island and ended up sleeping with another guy and me for two months. i found out when i called the guy. the moment i found out, i freaked out on her and started threatening her custody - that i would go to her ex and that she would lose all her custody. i never meant any of it. she told me she never wants to speak to me ever again. it's been 3 months. the other guy she ran to, they didn't work out. i'm sure b/c he was just using her for sex from what i've been told. i know she has feelings for me. but her ex found out about my threatening her custody, and is now involded. they're in the middle of a custody battle. how do i win her trust back?

2007-12-17 20:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She constantly complains about not being able to do anything and she tired of being stuck in the house. We live in a small town and the nearest city is about 20 mile away. Now, I work crazy hours (night then days then nights, etc) and I have to commute an hour both ways to work, by the time I get home I'm tired and don't want to drive anywhere. I contantly ask her to get a license, but she says if I continue to bother her about she won't do it. We have two toddlers and I'm concerned that if something were to happen while at work I couldn't be there to help her. Also, most women like to go shopping or get their hair done etc... and not be stuck in the house. So I don't understand, especially in this day of age where everything is driving distance not walking distance that she doesn't at least try once to get the license. Please help with any advise on pursading her. Thank you

2007-12-17 20:14:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has never made any remarks of wanting to have sex with me or start the act ever since she quit drinking. When she use to drink she would always want it and especially the next day in the morning. Now that she stopped drinking its as if she was
use to having sex drunk and now that she
is normal she dont want it anymore....is this
the case or now that she has stopped drinking she realizes she doesnt really want me sexually anymore.....

2007-12-17 20:14:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Got in a tussle with Mom's BF over my PS3, Not my fault.
Should I go recieve my belongings?

2007-12-17 19:37:39 · 10 answers · asked by Plasticface 1

2007-12-17 19:25:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

just a plain affectionate hug.. or a goodnight kiss.. or a good morning kiss.. I miss it so much.

(he doesn't seem to understand how much i yearn for it, i talked to him about it, no effect)


today morning, i requested him for a hug, and he point blank refused. but it was all normal business after then, he was joking and all. he didn't even notice, that i was down, and cried a bit after he had left the room.

2007-12-17 19:07:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok heres the thing. make a very long story as short as possible..... we dated 2 and a half years...we talked abt marriage all the time...one night outta the blue he calls me and says were over...im like wtf u asked me 2 marry u even today (bc he always talks 2 me abt marriage but im 18 so im not ready) he says ok comes to my house picks me up kisses me and says tomarrow were ganna get u an enagement ring. he leaves my house...he doesnt ever call me \back and ignores my phone...2 days later i realise were over...ok...its been 2 weeks i just found out hes engaged...apparently he cheated on me and now is engaged. ok i kno im lucky and all but...hes telling pple lies abt me and also making it seem like weve been broken u longer...hes a very smooth sly talker and pple like him and dnt know the truth abt him...im really tring to be the bigger person and not tell pple he cheated on me and stuff...bc i believe hell get whats coming to him...but in the mean time its very hard...pple prob think

2007-12-17 19:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the five most important things that you "Must Have"
When it comes to committing yourself to a long term relationship like marraige. I am not talking about what attracts you initialy... I am talking about, what are you looking for?
What goes on in the mind and heart of the male specie?

2007-12-17 18:55:28 · 19 answers · asked by commoncents 4

guys, if you were drunk and were chatting to your ex (Whom you wanted to impress cuase you both already admitted still bein in love) , if you got so drunk you wound up wacking off on your web cam for her. would u contact her the next day? also if you were smaller than usual?

2007-12-17 18:55:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where online did you meet? How long have you been together? How long did it take to find each other?

2007-12-17 18:53:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous