2007-12-17 22:37:41 · 18 answers · asked by juan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The ideal age for men to get married is when they are mature enough to understand marriage and the work it takes to maintain one. All men mature at a different age, so it really is up to the individual person. In my opinion,no person(male or female) needs to be married before 25.
2007-12-17 22:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by wamom 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
After college. Getting married before you are done with college will cause federal aid & other sources of college aid to decrease the amount you can recieve since they believe that you are able to pay for yourself since you can afford marraige.
I'd also wait until all of your ducks are in a row financially, religious, work-wise, family-wise, & insurance wise. Too many marraiges are ruined because people didn't think out all of the unromantic details, only to have those unromantic details come up later in fights. If it's true love you won't mind waiting until you are more settled.
If you aren't planning on going to college, then I'd wait until both of you are after the age of 25. Before then, you are still finding yourself. Very few people are the same person at 25 as they are at 18 or 21.
2007-12-17 22:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Studies show that women who have children at about age 30 have healthier, happier and smarter children. So you figure if they marry few years before that, it would be "ideal".
I have personally seen women who marry early (in 20's) and they are still not done with "me" factor. And then I've seen women marry in their 30's and they are much better mothers. Of course there's more to mother hood than age, it seems to make a huge difference.
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Men are arses no matter what age (I am a guy).
But if you are not considering motherhood at all, then any age is good (about 20).
Good Luck.
2007-12-17 22:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lover not a Fighter 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A man should be at least ten years older than a woman. Otherwise he will trade her in for a younger model after a few years, which is not very nice for the female. So I would say any age over 28.
PS if a very old man marries a woman of reproductive age, he should be rich in order to be able to provide for the children if anything should happen to him.
2007-12-17 22:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by 2kool4u 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
25 age
2007-12-17 22:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's old enough to accept the responsibility for sticking beside someone through the good times and the bad.
Notice that many men get married too soon.
2007-12-17 22:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by Vitiran 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you mean to have children, then do it by 28 or so, so that you can have kids before 35. Otherwise, who cares? People get married up until the end of their lives. It all depends on when you find that person who makes you want to do it.
2007-12-17 22:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The right age is when you find the right girl.....but for me it's 28 - 32. It's an age where you should be financially sound and stable and have enough to start a family.
2007-12-17 22:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Whatever age he is when he finds the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with. Realisticaly. Even the idea of her getting old sounds cute to him. Not when you are 18 or 19, though.
2007-12-17 22:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its depend, but I prefer when he's ready between 28 - 40
2014-10-20 13:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by pauljohn louis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋