Making love out of marriage, what is your stand?

Answer 1

No clue. :\

Answer 2

you ask a good question and really needs to be addressed.
i think that one night stands are for the birds! or what ever other animal only does it one time.
but for people, i think you should have some kind of thing going on for a while before you take on the task of love making.
it "SHOULD" have meaning and not just overnight sex!
i think firmly that there is someone out ther for everyone.
ok yeah not everyone can have the modle or the macho body builder, but then again its whats inside that counts right? well if it is , then how can you tell,.... if you only know each other for a few hours?
if one night stands is what your into then by all means go for it, but it doesnt make it right.

Answer 3

Test drive before you buy!

But no,seriously,it's a personal choice.
For me,it's no big deal.
I don't mean i sleep with anyone,i only sleep with people i deeply care about and people i'm in a relationship with,but it doesn't bother me that it's outside of marriage.
I could never be intimate with someone i don't have deep feelings for,but i don't think i could have held out until i'd got married as i've been in love a few times,and if i'd married some of the people i'd been in love with,i'd have been divorced by now because a few cheated on me!

But yes,it's a personal choice.
If you want to wait for the special someone,good for you.
Though,that person might not always turn out to be that special a few years down the line,married or not.

Answer 4

Not a good idea. Why not get a divorce so you can make love with whomever u want. Your being selfish he/she doesn't know that you're stepping out. Making love out of the marriage if both parties agree is fine, I guess?

Answer 5

Well I have been accused of being very different 4 a woman...but would U by a car or consider it without first test driving it? Even if U R not in love sex is a good thing. And if it makes U feel good, then by all means do it!

Answer 6

You might not feel bad about it or regreat it...for a long time, you might even feel that it was right at the time.. But I do think that sooner or later all the bad feelings about it will hit you, let's say you or your spouse get sick, and the life situation changes.. Then it can be really hard to think about the fact that you betrayed the one closest to you...the one who is now standing by your side..

Answer 7

Marriage is a social arrangement for ful-filling social obligations. But love comes out of pure heart not out of marriage.

Answer 8

I do not know of how a marriage can survive with a third person involved many of my friends have broken up over this I have been faithful all our 45 years of marriage ~~

Answer 9

Making love out of marriage? Are you asking about having sex out of your marriage? If so, then that's just plain wrong and if someone wants to do that then maybe they shouldn't be married. It's pretty simple, yet we find dumb a.s.ses doing it all the time.

Answer 10

I just put down my bible and i think i read somewhere ,where having sex outside marriage is a sin.... but so is a lot of things we do today.....when married couples cheat is not the act its self that causes the problem ...it is "the what lead the action" and" the consequences of that action"

Answer 11

The golden rule is,"If she makes love out of marriage, how would I feel?" I'm afraid I don't like to even hear that. That really kills me. I think it's not good. If it HURTS me it definately HURTS my spouse