2007-12-17 22:52:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok...i have two answers here (as of 12/18/2007 2:38 AM) one says yes and another says no..i'm confused and yes its really important, i don't want to live with a whore....
2007-12-17 22:58:06 · update #1
yes i am and i am only losing my virginity with my wife , mary...thanks for ur answer...
2007-12-17 23:00:01 · update #2
i'm not living in the dark ages as u say...u are
2007-12-17 23:02:36 · update #3
Having sex before marriage is sin !
2007-12-18 00:41:53 · update #4
Yes you can. But most PEOPLE who never known relationship (not necessarily sexual relationship) have unreasonable expectation of marriage.
So choose carefully.
Good Luck.
2007-12-17 23:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lover not a Fighter 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just because a woman has had a partner before you DOES NOT make her a whore. The dictionary states that a Whore is a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet.
If a woman who has had a partner before you is a whore then a man who discriminates against someone for having a belief differing to their own is a bigot!
That being said, of course there are women out there who are still virgins, if you have the patience and the smarts to know where to look.
Why do people feel the need to label others? Aren't we all people?
2007-12-18 00:09:35 · answer #2 · answered by Onyx ♠ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably not.
Why is that important?
Can't you live up to the comparison?
If this virginity is so important, how are you going to approach that subject?
"I'd like to go out with you, Are you a virgin, if not I will not."
OR are you going to wait until you know her better then tell her she is a whore because she had sexual contact with another guy even in a monogomus committed relationship.
Its true, you are living in the dark ages.
Not being a virgin does not make a woman a whore. You considering a woman to be one does make you into someone who puts labels on people. I think that is a worse method of treating people.
2007-12-17 22:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
There are many women and men who have saved themselves for marriage.
I think being a virgin is a good thing. However, I do not think just because a woman or man has experienced sex before does not make them a whore! Sometimes, people fall in love and make the choice to have sex. Its not always being permiscuous or just giving it away to whomever!!!!
2007-12-17 23:11:04 · answer #4 · answered by blueeyes_unever_4get 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would you want to?
okay, now my experience may not apply to all cases but let me share with you. a woman that is so afraid or sickened by sex that she remains a virgin into adulthood isnt a very sexual person by nature. i have known two such women. my first wife and a friend's wife. in both cases thier parents had taught them how wrong and dirty sex was, and as adults they couldnt enjoy sex even in marriage.
the best partners are comfortable with sex and thier bodies. a woman that remains celebate into her adult years isnt likely to be comfortable with anything sexual.
i realize my experience may not apply to all adult virgins, but i will bet it applies in many cases. most of us brought up to see sex as a beautiful and good thing would never be able to quell our curiousity for so long. i have to wonder about someone's views on sex that didnt have it for that long. then by the time you marry, you're in it, no matter how much they hate sex or how bad your sex life is from there on.
2007-12-17 23:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by ohiojeff 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why are so many non westerner's asking stupid question's about loyalties , divorce , marriage and virginity ? What I'd like to know is when are the countries who's women's worth is less then their goat or cow going to catch up to the civilized countries of the world?
No offence but come on this is 2007 we're ALL equal , well most of us are anyway , how about that world meeting on global warming hey bet you guys are all proud of how that turned out hey.
2007-12-17 22:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
why is a normal human that has normal relations with other people a whore? what is wrong with you?
i think perhaps you have a very VERY small penis and want to find a women who doesn't know anything about sex so can pretend your normal! grow up and act your age!
2007-12-17 23:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by carlg340 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let's just say yes it is possible but probably rare and hard to find, you will have to do alot of searching. But hey I respect that, you don't want no loosey goosey and I'm sure many other men would agree (even if they don't publicly admit it due to political correctness).
2007-12-17 23:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you need a woman that has never been close to a man as in not kissed, not "thought of" or dated, then it would probably have to be a girl with special reasons for not ever have been close to a man or a with an un-western upbringing... If she loves you and wants to settle down with you, well dwell with the past? she chose you anyway....
AND, if you love someone you love what they are wich is a result of what they have been
2007-12-17 23:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
talk about a steriotype... man you think all girls here have elected of form of practice about sexual things?
For you no... there is no wife... if sending a e-mail blast to warn every woman. your not worthy of a woman or a virgin.
2007-12-17 23:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by rufstuff 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋