the boyfriend has separeted with his wife who is in England with their 2 boys, I dont know why they separated, and iam so in love with him, and dont know if they will reconcile, I hav done this because I lost interest in my Husband due to his ill-treatments and abuse. should I be serious with the boyfriend or I just use him for my feelings? I cant rely on the boyfriend financially coz he doesnt work but does some piece work.
2007-12-17 23:29:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pls. do not distroy your home and yourself just because of lust for another man. kindly go to a marriage concealing or prayer to build your home and have a better relationship with your husband.
2007-12-17 23:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jaro. S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For better or worse must not have been in your wedding vows. What until I am just not happy anymore. You need to rethink what you are doing with your life. Sounds like a mess. How can you make it with a new relationship if you can't figure out the one your in? From the frying pan into the fire. Time to look at yourself.
2007-12-17 23:51:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are just using him as a fill in for what you need from your husband. Why not try getting marriage counseling before you get hurt. If that does not resolve the problem, then you can leave. Right now, you are cheating, and one day you are going to pay for it.
2007-12-17 23:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking permission to go back on your marriage vows? Remember YOU PROMISED. I will not advise you to stay in an abusive relationship, but try to improve it. Get help and leave that other man alone.
2007-12-17 23:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by rustyoldma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why we have second chance in our life's, is to improve on our first..... you can do better than a man that you cant rely on financially...idly it should be about love but reality is about security in all corners
2007-12-18 01:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not just take some time for yourself?
why jump from one man right into the arms of another?
you need some space for clearing your head and
finding out what you really want out of life. take some
time for yourself.....
2007-12-17 23:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done this before,,,you should have the experience to deal with it. Once you loose respect for the person you are with, you cheat,,,and cheat,,,and cheat again...You have no clue what love is.
2007-12-18 00:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by KingDavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have a 69 with him and talk about it later.
2007-12-18 00:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow and the piece work he,s doing is free
2007-12-18 00:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by indm45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest to your husband first then anythink else second.
2007-12-17 23:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋