ok heres the thing. make a very long story as short as possible..... we dated 2 and a half years...we talked abt marriage all the time...one night outta the blue he calls me and says were over...im like wtf u asked me 2 marry u even today (bc he always talks 2 me abt marriage but im 18 so im not ready) he says ok comes to my house picks me up kisses me and says tomarrow were ganna get u an enagement ring. he leaves my house...he doesnt ever call me \back and ignores my phone...2 days later i realise were over...ok...its been 2 weeks i just found out hes engaged...apparently he cheated on me and now is engaged. ok i kno im lucky and all but...hes telling pple lies abt me and also making it seem like weve been broken u longer...hes a very smooth sly talker and pple like him and dnt know the truth abt him...im really tring to be the bigger person and not tell pple he cheated on me and stuff...bc i believe hell get whats coming to him...but in the mean time its very hard...pple prob think
2007-12-17 19:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
things abt me thats not true,,...ughh so much to say but no more space or room...hellp me
2007-12-17 19:00:37 · update #1
Hi...
This guy did you wrong, hon.. and he sure was a p*rick !!
You are acting dignified and like a lady in your behavior, and i have to say im very proud of you! Don't stoop to his level... and think about this -- the people who know and love you most of all in this world DO KNOW what you are like! It doesn't matter about the rest of the world..!
and YOU know what type of person you are, as well.
i'm sorry this happened, because even though you found out what he's like now, and not later -- it's still hard for you.
take care and i know there is someone out there, waiting for you...
2007-12-17 19:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky and don't waste too much time worrying about him anymore. Show to him your happy and lucky even without him. Visit Boracay in the Philippines or go a Eurotrip like Italy, France, London, Greece.. Life is so wonderful so forget about that jerk. <*-*>
2007-12-18 03:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't give him the satisfaction of upsetting you. The people who know and love you will know that what he is saying is not true, so let it be his problem not yours. Just think how lucky you are that this happened now and not after you were married to him.
2007-12-18 03:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you go through a break up which is not friendly, there will be bad will spread by the other party. It's par for the course. Let it go. People don't know who to believe but they hate a whiner.
2007-12-18 03:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK he like cheated on you. Like you should simply like ignore. Like you are disappointed. Ya kno?
Tell you what...like you go out and get nother b/f
2007-12-18 03:24:06 · answer #5 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am glad, you are the one who he broke up with. i know it hurts, but think about the girl he is engaged to. he is not gonna change and all she will get is a lot of pain in their marriage. you will get over him eventually.
all good luck to you, sweety
2007-12-18 03:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by snowdrop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show up at the wedding and blast the song "What is love". I feel it fit's perfect into you're situation.
Make sure you have puppy eyes when it sing's "Don't hurt me, No more".
2007-12-18 03:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
please do some talking yourself too. the world is mean. if he is spreading tales about you, you better spread some truth too.
i wouldn't mind tainting his name, with a truth, and some spice on it, if he did that to me!
2007-12-18 03:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...just be glad you didn't marry him.
Joy to you!
2007-12-18 03:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋