Marriage & Divorce - 12 December 2007

My mum has been married to this man for a couple of years and we have just recently met his children. However me and his son have hit it off and got to know eachother rather intimately. Is it allowed to happen? I When i met him i didn't even know who he was...

2007-12-12 23:58:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 23:49:40 · 15 answers · asked by arindam roy 2

I have missed him badly. I am preparing a good meal now for dinner but HOW CAN WE SPICE UP OUR BEDROOM LATER? Any sexy ideas pls thanks!

2007-12-12 23:40:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

im only doing it when theres no one nearby and we are shopping in the store or something, i would unexpectedly grab his pants and i thought it was sexy and wicked and i was not doing it to shame him, not at all ...but im just naturally playful... is that so bad? why he doesnt seem to like it? i love touching him specially his c%#k and cant help myself!

2007-12-12 23:14:41 · 37 answers · asked by M 1

2007-12-12 23:01:29 · 30 answers · asked by muson 2

2007-12-12 22:36:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

1. if you call a guy and he is willing to talk on the phoen for hours at a time.
2. he actually says " i love you"
3. you contact him daily, but he only contacts you once a week or something.
4. he wacks off on his web cam for you
5. he makes you little videos and emails them or emails you pictures of himsefl.

2007-12-12 22:07:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and hes brother wear girls clothes i love it coz he looks better than me
hes brother wears them in public but my husband doesnt but he wants to

should he i would love him too he looks really sexi in them

2007-12-12 22:00:02 · 20 answers · asked by SARAH 2

My husband and I work at the same place, a small cafe that we run.. I usually work nights and he days. Yesterday I had occasion to work day shift with him. He had mentioned to me that he thought our dishwasher had graduated from Marshwood High school (where I graduated). I asked her about it and she said he was just pulling my leg. Our prep cook said "yeah, he says that to me all the time. Whenever anyone does anything really stupid he says they must have graduated from Marshwood"..... I am the only person my husband knows who went to that shcool and I feel that I am being the butt of his jokes behind my back when he is at work. Would anyone else feel offended by this or am I ,as he says, too sensitive? Any advice on how to handle this?

2007-12-12 21:59:33 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Delanne 6

Especially when a woman is under going monthly period. Pliz explain am in darkness

2007-12-12 21:49:45 · 16 answers · asked by felloh 3

feel iam being cheated on but dont know how to get him to trip up and say that he is

2007-12-12 21:34:17 · 15 answers · asked by valerie s 1

For example, if I've been negative my whole life, will marriage solve this and make me happy? I have also suffered from anger issues my whole life. But if I had children I know I would be so happy to see them every day.

2007-12-12 20:23:44 · 16 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3

is there any specific reasons for this

2007-12-12 19:46:18 · 20 answers · asked by nani 2

Right now I'm in college, but let's play make-believe. My wife and I have 2 children. They are 12 and 14. We're both successful physicians. Now we get a divorce and she won custody of the kids. Since we're both making 300k apiece, would I still have to pay child support? remember. this isn't real so don't call me a deadbeat and rip on me. Besides, I'm old fashion. When I get married, i plan on staying married.

2007-12-12 19:39:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sir,
Husband filed Divorce petition against wife, Family court dismissed it and advised the husband to take the wife and lead marital life.The question is if husband does not comply with the Court order what is the remedy for wife ? Now wife staying with her parents. Can Family Court or High Court take action against husband ? Any other remedy for wife....

2007-12-12 19:36:58 · 13 answers · asked by Raghu R 2

I dont know how to ask this without writing a book. I loved my wife she loved me. We had a good life and then she left after 17 years. Her parents died and she went crazy. She met a guy in California we're in Jersey. I begged her not to do this but she won and i left, leaving her the house the kids ETC. this was almost 7 yrs ago. after about 2 years she wants me back but i had realized i wasnt as happy as i thought with her. I still love her we have three kids getting older and i think she loves me. The thing is Ive met a couple women that i got alone with much better then we ever did so i know soulmates exist. I just cant move on. I feel guilty moving on and being happy and even though i pay a big support + she dont have the life we had together. How do i get rid of that guilt so i can move on? or should i go back to an ok relationship despite all the disaggreements from being two different people? Theres alot more to this but this will have to do...

2007-12-12 19:22:03 · 6 answers · asked by equi_tye 2

my sisters-in-law behave like protectors of their brother. I feel like they don't see me as part of them. Since they are close with their brother, they often discuss me and my actions, since i am a third party anyway. And well, brother is always right..

I feel like this is lack of respect for me as a person. I really don't like that attitude. Are all sisters-in-law this way?

I am happy they don't live with us. but whenever they come for some days, i have to put up with all this.

What would you do?

2007-12-12 19:09:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When does a women welcomes her husband whole heartedly.
Serious answers pl.

2007-12-12 19:05:11 · 13 answers · asked by Khartree S 2

I'm black and he's white and anytime I'm with my boyfriend people gawk at us and shake there heads.

I'll admit that I used to be the same way. I used to think it was wrong to date outside your race, but I'm actually happy. I met the man I'm with years ago and he wants to be with me.

Is it wrong for us to be together? What should I do when people stare? I'm 19 yrs old and he's 20.

2007-12-12 19:00:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have just broken up after 9 years, he got me a skimpy bikini, what should I get him? All answers, serious or otherwise, happily accepted.
Thanks!

2007-12-12 18:53:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

why does a man go out with his friends and talk about a woman who he was with in a sexual way putting her down like she was no more than trash i was married and had never cheated on my husband . but i meet this man and cheated on him just once my husband found out and divorced me over it . today i found out the man who i ruined my marrage over was talking about me like trash is all men like that .

2007-12-12 18:47:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance (father of my 1yr old son) admitted to me he cheated on me. He admitted as he drove me to the Health Dept. because the girl he was with just told him she may have been exposed to and STD from another mate. I asked why he cheated he said partly because I wasn't giving it to him at home. Which I wasn't because I have been telling him since our son was born I need to get back to the no sex b4 marriage belief I have. I didnt cut him off cold turkey though. As a matter of fact he recently got some and tried to get me pregnant. He says he wants to get me pregnant one more time as a garauntee I'm not going anywhere. I have not done anything to make him think I will leave him. I broke off the engagement the week b4 he tried to get me pregnant again. I told him now is not the time for us to get married bc i feel he was not being completely honest about somethings. I never said we would never get married. I just wanted him to wait to propose later after we worked on somethings. Help

2007-12-12 18:35:37 · 24 answers · asked by babygurl38063 2

A friend of mine has been engaged (ring ceremony) as in Indian tradition. It happened under family pressure. She now wants to call her marriage off to marry someone else. What excuse should he give the guy she's been engaged to? She feels sorry for him and her family and feels they are at no fault. Also she is unable to decide how to convince her parents about facing their family. Should she say the truth as it is, obviously the guys family will get pissed that if it was so why at the first place they did it?
What excuse can she give to call it off preventing such scenarios from happening?? Pleaseeee advise.

2007-12-12 18:33:03 · 16 answers · asked by Pavan P 1

I had a very loving, happy, fulfilling relationship with my boyfriend (or so I thought). He broke up with me randomly for reasons that are hard for me to understand, although I think his point was that we are just at two different places in our lives. He is the first guy I ever talked about marriage and having kids with. It's hard for me to let this relationship go because of the future we once talked about. Are separation is hard to accept because how can two people talk about marriage and kids and then one day be completely over? I still have hopes of us getting back together because I truly believed he was "the one" and he had said the same about me.
I have asked him what he thinks and sometimes he says he sees himself marrying me one day...Other times, he says I should just move on because he doesn't want to hold me back from living my life...
Is it completely irrational for me to be having thoughts of us reuniting again one day?

2007-12-12 18:32:15 · 6 answers · asked by Jane 2

I think many people who get divorces or cheat on their partner have little self-discipline arising from a very easy, carefree lifestyle. I think most people who stay together have gone through many trials and tribulations but have kept on fighting even though there may have been times when it seemed hopeless.

For example, I know a lot of people who smoke pot, cheat on their partners, do crimes, cheat in school, drink too much, party too much, etc. and I can just tell that they are going to get a divorce later on in life. You can just tell. I can't explain it, but you can just tell. You can just tell that there is no way this undisciplined cheater is going to get married and stay that way until one of them dies. There's just no way.

On the other hand, I know people who have worked really hard in life despite harsh odds. They have grown up in poor environments, had to deal with abuse, struggled in school, etc.
But they end up successful in life because of their drive to succeed.

2007-12-12 18:26:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband just told me that I do not turn him on. I am heartbroken, he said I can make him hot if I do stuff to him...but he is not turned on by me. He said that three of his previous g/f have been able to so he does not know what it is. He says he has never been turned on by me. What does this mean? What should I do? I need reall help.

2007-12-12 18:16:26 · 22 answers · asked by girlygirl 1

hE THINKS WE ASHOULD TAKE IT SLOW AND WORKINT OUT, NONONO@

2007-12-12 17:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by want2flybye 5

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date prior to marriage?
3 first marriage or ...........?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily divorced?

Please share your story and write as much as you like.

Thank you.

Fine Print: I will delete insults. I am sure you will understand. This is just a question.

2007-12-12 17:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and i have sex..but i need sex like every night..no lie...sometimes when she is sleeping i masturbate and i feel bad...but she cant have sex with me every night. We normally have sex once or twice a week..if that...and i cant do that. She gets up early and goes to bed early so she cant satisfy me. Dont get me wrong when we do have sex it is amazing....and we have sex for hours but she is like a drug I cant get enough of her....AM I AN ADDICT?

2007-12-12 17:29:43 · 14 answers · asked by Kristina S 1

I am still in love with my husband he doesnt love me anymore so what do I do now?

2007-12-12 17:18:16 · 0 answers · asked by onceafool 2