Marriage & Divorce - 12 December 2007

My problem is he ejaculates way too soon it is like a one two three all done kind of thing. Is there anything that can be done or any pills that can be taken that can make him go longer? I want to get some kind of enjoyment from having sex.

2007-12-12 05:53:22 · 24 answers · asked by my life my joy...bailey :-) 2

In addition, my son recently was diagnosed with bi polar disorder and my father is being place in a Nursing Home. He wants me to take care of my father, my son in addition to all the household chores and cooking cleaning, lawnwork, upkeep of the house while he retreats to his room and smokes and drink. Do I have cause to be upset? Help

2007-12-12 05:45:03 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know all the signs of when someone no longer loves you, you try with all your heart to just accept it and move on, but for some reason you just can't stop all your feelings and emotions. A long time has past since this relationship was over but I can't seem to get over it. I want to and in all honesty really wish I could hate the guy and have every right to. I keep busy, go out with friends but nothing feels right and I can't seem to find anyone I'm even interested in. My heart is still hanging on while my head knows better. What do you do? Nothing?

2007-12-12 05:40:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have physical custody, we have joint legal custody of our two kids, ages 12 and 8. I live 7 hours away from where their dad lives. This makes normal arrangements difficult with school, work, etc. He has not seen them at all since July, and they have had many days off from school in order to visit with him, he puts forth no effort. He rarely returns calls the kids make to him, normally about one call for every 4 or 5 messages left by them. So,I have been calling regarding Holiday plans since November. I told him the kids had activities on the 21st, 22nd,and the Christmas Eve Play at Church that they wanted to be involved in, therefore, could we arrange something from the 26th of Dec through the 6th of Jan. After at least two weeks with no response we made our plans. He calls two days ago and says, he can only get time off 21-26, (LIE, I know he gets the next weekend off too) so my plans will not work. Now kids are sad and I feel stuck- cancel activities, or tell dad to work it out?

2007-12-12 05:28:15 · 9 answers · asked by B. 2

2007-12-12 04:57:08 · 11 answers · asked by clio 4

god, I almost can't ask the rest. is it going to matter if I dont pursue or even if i try to get it vacated? Ptld.Or.

2007-12-12 04:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by beccatainment04 1

I know this more than likely gets asked 24/7 but when you got a divorce how did you cope with it. Maybe it is the best thing but it hurts. Like I get emotional and then pissed off. People have done it before me and will do it after me and I know eventually it wont hurt as bad but in the mean time what did you do? I'll hafta see his family still and the hurt is going to still be there like a slap in the face. Knowing I stood by his *** through sh*t no woman should hafta to but "through thick and thin til death do us part " and now things are the slight bit hard for him he wants out. What did you do to move on? What helped you the most?

2007-12-12 04:39:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Don’t you think all the child support given should be put in account to make sure it is only spent on a child? I believe like a credit type card would be used to keep track of purchase to make sure it only went to the child. It is hard to believe that the parent having custody of the child doesn’t use some of that money for personal gain. The get the luxury of having the child most of the time why should they get an added bonus. In a relationship where the person paying the child support is involved in their Childs life they too have to buy just the same amount of things as the person having custody of the child. They too provide a roof over their head, clothes, toys, food, gas, and all the expenses. Is it fair that it usually works out that in that situation that really only the one person is really putting up the cost of raising the child? I know there are deadbeats out there, this is to fair to those who are not.

2007-12-12 04:35:36 · 16 answers · asked by Zenkai 6

would you move to another state to avoid him/her? I heard this question on Divorce Court sorry

2007-12-12 04:32:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

about people on this forum that are REALLY having affairs and won't tell their spouses? It makes me sick at how lovey dovey they are online in front of the world and then lie to their spouses.

AAARRRRRGGGGG!!

You know who you are...and it's sad.

Sandy :O)

2007-12-12 03:59:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd like to know what yahoo community feels about arranged marriages. People who have not heard of, have experience, or just would like to offer their opinion are all welcome. But please sensible answers only.

2007-12-12 03:57:53 · 32 answers · asked by "*♥*Nafisa*♥*" 4

Hi, hoping for answers from divorced people!!

Our kids are the same age exactly, but she is 35 and I am 47. We get along great, we both laugh a lot with each other and even at each other, we both admit that we smile all the time now that we have met even when we are not together. This is nothing like when I met my first wife --- now I have music in my head all day long and I feel dizzy just thinking of her!! Each of us has been divorced for several years. We are agreed to take it slowly, step by step, and see where it goes. So what's the problem? I am just worried that the age thing will catch up with us -- in 15 years I will be 62 but she will only be 50. Do you think I am worrying needlessly??? I do feel that with our kids being the same ages exactly, that pushed us more into the same calendar mentality.

2007-12-12 03:53:29 · 19 answers · asked by jasper 2

2007-12-12 03:51:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 03:50:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 03:50:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 29 she 25. We were together for 3 months. We were really into eachother and things went way to fast. We had sex within 3 days of knowing eachother and things skyrocketted. She expressed to me sometime that she needed space but was doing it so things didnt get messed up in teh future for us. Then she todl me that she agreed that things went to fast and kinda freaked her out. She had just got out a a verbally abusive relationship one month before me got together. She states that she was still messed up by her ex. She broke yup with me telling me she lost the spark, cause we were togther to much. She stated to me that she still wanted to talk to me and hang out and she will pronanly regret the decision to break up with me. My question is she still thinking of me? We never had any problems in our relationship she stated she wanted to marry me etc. She states today that this is not easy for her either and she would like to stay friends with me. Does this show she is confused right now?

2007-12-12 03:45:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 03:42:29 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sometimes thing many of us of the male gender are in fact looking for a mother as much has a wife and a lover! My wife is my lover, but also my best friend too! So moms, ladies and wives out there. Which one are you? A mother or a lover?

2007-12-12 03:40:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 03:26:30 · 8 answers · asked by colleena m 1

points with her if you told her about it ? Is it that wrong to want to keep my good image and not expose her to an embarassing fetish?

We have been very happily married for almost 6 years !

2007-12-12 03:25:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex(husband) cheated on me not even a week after I got home from having our son with his ex gf. We seperated and I put him on child support. He has not made any payments. He was also very abusive during our relationship. He blacked both of my eyes once and whenever I hear he's in town I have to stay in a women's shelter because he's very violent and pays no attention to the "Protective(Restraining) Order that I have on him. He's never purchased diapers or clothing for our now 1 year old son. He also has another son that he doesn't do much for either. And he is just a total dead beat maniac. He moved 10 hours away is dating other people, going to college(so he says) and seems to be doing fine while I'm here busting my *** going to school, working, and raising our son. Why does it seem like he came out on top when he did all those hurtful things and is just an evil person with no conscious? I ask a lotta questions about this guy because it just all seems so unfair to me.

2007-12-12 03:23:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

*This is not about me this time...I did not cheat*
Have you worked it out with your spouse? What does the guilt feel like? Do you have horrible thoughts and/or images of what your spouse had to endure just out of the blue? I am just curious, I always hear the the cheater has to live with his actions and what he/she has done and that can be worse than being the betrayed and having to "get over it". Just wondering if that is true, because I can tell you from experiance being the betrayed is like living in your own personal hell for a long period of time. I just want to know if someone that is truly sorry for their actions, really "suffers" from the guilt. Thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-12-12 03:21:12 · 8 answers · asked by hurtand still in love 2

My husbad and I have a very satisfying sexual life. We have been married for over 8 yrs. I have 2 kids and life is good. He never cheated on me and he is a home buddy, perfect, compare to all the issues I have seen here. 2 years ago we decided to spice things up by doing a threesome. We were both ok with it. The deal was we would do it with a man first, then with a lady for him. One week before the date I noticed he started to have second thoughts...but I told him it was too late. I really wanted the experience. We did it and it was a disaster, at least for my husband. He couldn't function and told me repeately in my ear we should stop, but I ignore him. This almost broke my marriage. It has taken us almost two years to heal from my selfisness of that night. He is happy now, I think he got over all this,,But I haven't,,I feel guitly we never did the second part of the deal. He doesn't want to do anything else to hurt us again,,But I can't live with this guilt. any advice?

2007-12-12 03:20:53 · 31 answers · asked by Nena77 1

The wife and I are split up my major problem for this do to depression. That caused alot of damage between us. I except full blame for that. But my question is I have been getting help taking my meds and trying to keep in contact with her. She says she needs space I gave her 600 miles she has the kids and I just miss her and them so much what should I do? I call her 2 times a week we talk for a long time each time. She says she is to bussy to i miss you or I love you. is it over? should I just move on what should I do.

2007-12-12 03:20:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this person needs your advice,both of them had a test before their wedding,she is confused,she is in love.............she is thinking of leaving that guy,is that the next thing to do.

2007-12-12 03:08:57 · 18 answers · asked by oginnik 1

I never did but women always say we do, there are tons of female cheats. It's a lame strereotype.

2007-12-12 03:01:44 · 59 answers · asked by macsareeback 2

My husband and i seperated a month before he joined the military. Well things went from bad to worst when he was in the military. He got back to town 3 weeks ago. I had been checking his account over the internet when he was there to see when he got payed and how much he was sending me but now it's a habit. He is back in town after being gone four months. We have meet a few times and sleep together another time he bought me clothes and took his daughter out. Anyways if it is going to work out it is going slow he never answers his cell This is what caused all the problems in the first place. Well i really don't have a reason to check his bank account anymore and i know doing this might even hurt me one of these days but i still do it. We are still married and havn't got divorced yet is this wrong?

2007-12-12 02:58:02 · 23 answers · asked by poo~poo 1

2007-12-12 02:54:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How did you get the courage to leave your spouse and how did you do it. How long had you contimplated leaving before you actually did it? And what happned after you left, were they mad, did you call them or did you just let the lawyers handle it?

2007-12-12 02:38:28 · 18 answers · asked by lesliebedford623 1

Daily after work he will have his dinner in front of the computer and will be surfin the net till bedtime. That's it. Everyday can pass by without us talking to each other......After 13 years, he does not even bother to remember or celebrate our wedding anniversary anymore. Everything is mundane & monotonous.... I am bored. I don't yearn for sexual intimacy anymore so whenever he asks for it, I cringed. How to spice up the marriage when he does not seem to bother to make any effort of his part?

2007-12-12 02:30:49 · 12 answers · asked by Hira 1