The wife and I are split up my major problem for this do to depression. That caused alot of damage between us. I except full blame for that. But my question is I have been getting help taking my meds and trying to keep in contact with her. She says she needs space I gave her 600 miles she has the kids and I just miss her and them so much what should I do? I call her 2 times a week we talk for a long time each time. She says she is to bussy to i miss you or I love you. is it over? should I just move on what should I do.
2007-12-12 03:20:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Were you abusive towards her? Is she afraid of you? If not, then I don't see why you two can't get back together. Take your medication faithfully. What you may need to do is woo her for a while make her see that you have changed. It sounds stupid after people being married but it might work in your case.
2007-12-12 03:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she cannot move that far away unless she has full custody of the kids if they are yours you have visitation rights as a father. Secondly if she is saying she needs space and sher is 600 miles away she is saying carry on with your life I do not want to be with you anymore. I think if she does still care for you tell her to move back home or your going to her and the kids because you want to work on the marriage.
If she says No then you know for sure she is probably saying this stuff to comfort you because of your depression problems but has a new life and is telling you it is over.
Good Luck and all really if their your kids and she hasn't got full custody she must move back for you to have time with the kids. If she has full custody your best just to get on with your life and find a new lady don't forget the child support payments and alimony once the divorce goes through.
2007-12-12 03:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kudos on getting the help you need. I know it's not easy.
To be honest, it doesn't sound like she is interested in being with you anymore. You may just have to ask her flat out if there's any chance. Tell her that you are getting mixed signals and want to know where you stand. Regardless of what happens, stay in touch with your kids and don't ignore them.
Good luck.
2007-12-12 03:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the two fo you should go to counseling. Or a professional person and have them explain to her what you are going threw. Maybe she could get a better understanding and try to work your problems out together and if she loves you and really wants to be with you she will be willing to do this..
2007-12-12 03:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. Get a divorce cause it seems as if she don't even love you anymore.
2007-12-12 03:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by Aikalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋