Marriage & Divorce - 12 December 2007

Well, its quite a dilemma :-)
Let me first give you some facts...
I'm 20years and still a student - probably until 2009. My boyfriend already works and ofcourse he wants to move out with his parents. We would really love to buy an appartment and move in together! Financial it will be OK, not that we will be rich and stuff but just ok to survive.
My mum is my best friend but the last weeks we have a lot of fights, so I was thinking that it would be better to move out so our relationship could be back to normal. She doesn't think so, but she will support my decision.
But there are a lot of people saying that life is hard out there and that I don't know what I'm getting into... That after some years you will be tired of your husband and blablabla. I know there are some bastards out there but mine isn't one of them! He's so generous!!

What do you think?

xx

2007-12-12 07:41:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK I'll try a different wording this time. My wife has to have a domesticemployee. Not having one would be socially embarrassing. But the rule there is that she must pay the employee from her personal money. Last night she said she needed $200 becuase she owed it to someone for something. I cheerfully gave it to her, then she said she needed another $200 and was evasive about why. This morning I discovered $300 she had left for the domestic employee and suspect that it came from the $400 I gave her last night.
So my question is - How should I discipline her? Verbally? Spanking or something more intense? $400 worth of "lip service"?

2007-12-12 07:38:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told my hubby that i had lunch with this guy that gives me so much attention compliments me.we had a big fight about it.he automatically think that i slept with this guy and god knows it was just cassual lunch and conversstion. well i told him that he gives me so much attention guess what he answered me?? everyman is different and he loves me uncontionally...

2007-12-12 07:38:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father died recenty my sister has grabbed the will and will not show it me am i entitled to view the will. i asked the soliceter but its up to the executor of the will to grant permission well were do i stand!!

2007-12-12 07:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by peter h 2

This is the same question earlier.
Last night was a horrible night. My wife was upset because I'm 'slow' in doing things around the house. She was upset so I was going to go to the guest bed and sleep there. When I was about to leave to the other room she called me names and scratched me hard so that I bled from the scratch. I came up to her face and held her down and started screaming what is wrong with her. She settled down so I left to the other room. While i was sleeping she opened the door and said she wanted me out of the house, but she threw a kids camera at my stomach and threw a small book at me as well as a kids toy. She then threw my cell phone at the wall so that's when i got up and rushed her, but she took my wallet and ran to the main bed room. There we were screaming and she wouldn't give me my wallet and I didn't see it anywhere. She tried scratching me again so I held her arms by the wrist down. When i did that I pushed her hands by her face since she was laying down.

2007-12-12 07:37:10 · 33 answers · asked by the_blue_eyed_papi 2

Do you like large or small? Do you like thick or thin?

Does it really matter or how he uses it?

2007-12-12 07:32:10 · 30 answers · asked by pacemark5 2

I am 21 yr old woman…yeah...young to be thinking about this kind of stuff, but I am extremely romantic and believe in marriage…well…at least I should, right? I would like to know who here has been happily married for at least 5 years. And if you are single…do you believe in marriage? Because now I am wondering…is it very, very difficult to be happy with the person you claim to love until the day you die?

2007-12-12 07:29:27 · 18 answers · asked by miams 1

Marry amarine or a US.Navy guy who would u pick? and why?

2007-12-12 07:28:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just wondering because I had a pretty good idea but everyday I realize that I could have never imagined how difficult it actually is.

What was your biggest surprise, shock, difficulty, obstacle - whatever you want to call it?

I'm asking about you so don't tell me about me.

2007-12-12 07:22:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 07:18:56 · 32 answers · asked by Neomaxizoomedweebie 3

2007-12-12 07:18:06 · 46 answers · asked by sheltonj2406 3

After your wife had a couple children her body looked different right? Well do you find her very attractive still even if her boobs are kind of saggy now? Are you still satisfied with her body?

2007-12-12 07:14:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has just thrown me against a cupboard and repeatedly shaken me back and forth with my head banging on the cupboard.
Because daughter not going to bed easily he's blames it on me.

2007-12-12 07:12:50 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I find that I'm s.e.x.ually attracted to a different man. I have not done anything with this other man and I do not plan on doing anything with him..

But

Why am I attracted to this particular man other than my husband. I do not want my husband to touch me at all. I know the other man wants me and lately I have been avoiding him though I'm constantly thinking about him...

I do not even want to share the same room with my husband any more..

what should I do?

2007-12-12 07:10:13 · 24 answers · asked by ME 1

His mother, though divorced, still keeps his father's last name and has been well known as Mrs. Wallis.I decided not to take my husband's last name when I married my husband because I feel weird to be called Mrs. Wallis. He asked me several times if I would change my name in future. I am not sure about that. Just want to see what other people do. This may sound like a strange question to you but I moved here from a culture that women do not use husband's last names - just a different tradition.

2007-12-12 07:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by smeagolrocks 2

Here is an issue I am facing...

I know someone who's ex is trying to collect backpay from 24 years ago... There was never any child support collected ever... And now the ex is trying to get money from the father... Is this possible? I live in Ontario....

2007-12-12 07:00:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

have my counseling session tomorrow and want to run this question by here before i do. What do these statements really mean? "i never relized how important my vows were" "we had great sex it was crazy,i have a problem with that" "not looking at your clothes looking at you" "have you been intimate with your girlfriend" "can i have a hug" "i want you to let go" "so, you still love me" "ive never been happier in my life" "you look good" "why are your teeth so white" all these statements and questions have been directed at me by my ex wife within the last 2 months and she just got remarried in july. what if anything am i not seeing here?

2007-12-12 06:59:51 · 11 answers · asked by pheggie101 1

2007-12-12 06:57:26 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

if she wanted to? Accepting comps would count also could be anything.....

2007-12-12 06:52:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found out he is only buying me a diamond necklace for christmas. i have put up with this man for two years! i think i am worth more than that and he is lucky to have me...no other woman would have him!!! last year i even broke off an affair i was having with his brother...my husband's fault. this never would have happened if he spent more time with me and not worked so much. his brother actually listened to what i had to say!! i just think i am being slighted here. maybe once i am gone, he'll appreciate what he lost. can someone help me???

2007-12-12 06:49:12 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

who do i give the money for child support the mom of the child or do i need to pay the state and then they give her the money

my son is 13
we live in va

2007-12-12 06:44:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

what are the laws in Texas? any signatures needed?

2007-12-12 06:44:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

From my previous questions, My wife luv me but not in-love w/ me. Her luv was due to 20yrs of marraige and family. She is not in-love w/ me because I guess after 20yrs, the magic are gone or it's on simmered and not on Hot. She wandered off and had a fantasy luv affair w/ a real person. She claimed nothing happened and I believe her. It's too soon to tell but I guess we are trying to work it out. But once you are out of luv w/ your mate, can you or have you fall back into luv w/ your mate once more? Or am I fantasizing ? I luv my wife and willing to let her go to explore her new found success. I'm trying to chase her back. Is it an impossible dream? Ladies, your honest feeling please? TIA

2007-12-12 06:32:22 · 8 answers · asked by 1-Confused-man 2

I am 29 she 25. We were together for 3 months. We were really into eachother and things went way to fast. We had sex within 3 days of knowing eachother and things skyrocketted. She expressed to me sometime that she needed space but was doing it so things didnt get messed up in teh future for us. Then she todl me that she agreed that things went to fast and kinda freaked her out. She had just got out a a verbally abusive relationship one month before me got together. She states that she was still messed up by her ex. She broke yup with me telling me she lost the spark, cause we were togther to much. She stated to me that she still wanted to talk to me and hang out and she will pronanly regret the decision to break up with me. My question is she still thinking of me? We never had any problems in our relationship she stated she wanted to marry me etc. She states today that this is not easy for her either and she would like to stay friends with me. Does this show she is confused right now?

2007-12-12 06:31:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 16 years old and a little over 2 months away from my wedding. I have known my fiance for 16 years and will be 17 in january (2 weeks before my wedding) but i am SOOOO afraid of getting married at this age becuase of how high the divorce rate is, I dont want to lose him at all..I have talked this through with my parents millions of times...which is why im even engaged now (they just helped me come up with my answer, they didnt tell me to get engaged) What should I do to become less afraid...any tips on keeping a marriage happy? Is our wedding a little too soon?(we have been engaged for a year..well will be a year christmas eve). I have talked this all out with my parents and they say they are concenting to the wedding because they know i love him and they love him too...heck they have known him longer than theyve known me..haha. But what are your suggestions?

2007-12-12 06:20:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-12-12 05:57:48 · 22 answers · asked by Spiritual Player 2

I am in a relationship and I am ready to get married mainly for the simple fact that I am tired of living in sin. We live together and have been living together for a few months. We both want to get married but want to make sure we are right for each other. I know its wrong to have sex before marriage on that same note I know we are supposed to abide by the laws of man. Technically we are "common law married" but I get so sad when I think about not being married because I know it is GODS will. Any suggestions on what I should do?

2007-12-12 05:56:52 · 19 answers · asked by Bee 1

We broke up one week ago, she wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..

We started out our relationship really fast from the gecko, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.

It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..

what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.

2007-12-12 05:55:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous