have my counseling session tomorrow and want to run this question by here before i do. What do these statements really mean? "i never relized how important my vows were" "we had great sex it was crazy,i have a problem with that" "not looking at your clothes looking at you" "have you been intimate with your girlfriend" "can i have a hug" "i want you to let go" "so, you still love me" "ive never been happier in my life" "you look good" "why are your teeth so white" all these statements and questions have been directed at me by my ex wife within the last 2 months and she just got remarried in july. what if anything am i not seeing here?
2007-12-12 06:59:51 · 11 answers · asked by pheggie101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be grateful she is not still your wife, and be grateful you are not the unfortunate person she has married.
2007-12-12 10:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Translations.
"I never realized how important my vows were" with you, but now I do.
"We have great sex it was crazy, I have a problem with that" It was only sex.
"Not looking at your clothes, I'm looking at you" I am not criticizing the way you look/dress.
"Have you been intimate with your girlfriend?" Have you moved on yet, because I have.
"Can I have a hug?" No hard feelings, OK?
"I want you to let go" MOVE ON, I HAVE.
"So you still love me?" Same as above.
"I've never been happier in my life" means that I am happy now, but wasn't with you.
"You look good" and "Why are your teeth so white?" About time you took some care with your appearance. Pity you didn't make the effort earlier.
But that's just one woman's opinion.
2007-12-12 07:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the grass wasn't all that much greener. She's more familar with you than him and I think the response to all this attention should be to shrug and say "thank you it was my girlfriends idea" maybe she'll get the hint . Are you reading more into this? I think so . You need to take a look at reality. She's married to someone else
She's not happy
She's already ripped your heart out once
And given the chance are you thinking it would be all good again ?
Where's yer sign?
2007-12-12 07:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kathy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-11 03:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're looking too deep in an abyss of the "what ifs."
It could very well be small talk. Or her way of saying that she is open to communicate with you.
Just because she is noticing some things about you may very well mean that YOU have moved on and your attitude and outlook may be different and you not even realizing it.
2007-12-12 07:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy
2007-12-12 07:32:19 · answer #6 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the question.
It sounds to me that she may be trying (poorly) at making conversation and still wants to be part of your life.
2007-12-12 07:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh....c'mon now. You can't really NOT know, cany you? Jealous and wanting to be the center of your life while SHE'S married....stay f-a-r away!!!
2007-12-12 07:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sandra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's jealous of your girlfriend.
2007-12-12 07:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness she's your ex
2007-12-12 07:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by starr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋