We broke up one week ago, she wants to be friends. says that we can be friends, start from the beginning, and take things slow. She doesn't want to see me right now bc she says i still have feelings and only when i can be her friend we can see each other..
We started out our relationship really fast from the gecko, three weeks of knowing each other and have been dating. for 2 months, until last week.
It is so hard to see her as a friend than a gf.
She says she wants to be single, have fun with her friends..
what should i do?
is it the end?
this is really bothering me.
2007-12-12 05:55:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your toast brother!. Whatcha gonna do when you see her with the new guy she is dating that she is not telling you about.
Signed
Hulk Hogan
2007-12-12 05:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants all the benefits of your relationship but no responsibility or accountability for her actions. She wants to come and go as she pleases without having to tell you or have you concerned or jealous. She wants to date other guys. She wants to use you for whatever she wants at the time (talking, caring, hanging out, etc.) and then put you away on a shelf when she finds something better to do. She's pretty much trying to turn you into a toy or a play thing for her personal amusement. This means she does not respect you or your feelings nearly as much as she should. Don't try to be friends with her. She pretty much slapped you in the face. Turn around, run like hell, and don't look back.
2007-12-12 14:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put distance between you. You both will either move on, or you both will realize that you want to be together. If you stay with her as a friend all you are doing is giving her the freedom to see who she wants, but to know that you will be there to hangout with.
2007-12-12 14:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by J M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have the right idea. Perhaps you're both too young to be serious. If you're unable to be her friend, then let her know that. Be honest with her......and yourself! Please take care of YOU. Anticipate the bright New Year that is approaching!
2007-12-12 14:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry you ha vent been together long....sounds like she is trying to blow you off find someone else I wouldn't put much thought into it! sorry hope things turn out.
2007-12-12 14:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by tessa1198 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put a folk in your self your done
2007-12-12 14:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she Santa will get you a new girl for Xmas fear not
2007-12-12 13:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋