Marriage & Divorce - 12 December 2007

Last year I was caught shoplifting, my life changed that day!! My husband left me and took my kids,the house everything! He helped the police and I went to jail for 180 days!! The thing is I still love him. He has since moved on. He has a girlfriend hates me. I dont know why I did it!! I did not need anything! I certainly did not need the item that I took. My heart breaks everyday! I relive that awful day every moment . How can I win his respect back? I am a good person I made a huge mistake. What should I do?

2007-12-12 10:55:37 · 7 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2

married for 2 yrs
together for 6
i'm into kinkier stuff
he's not
i'm heavier
he's thinner
we are trying to have children
he's against "toys"
he likes me on top
i like doggie style
he doesn't like roleplaying
i've never orgasmed
porn is okay, but we are christians--so i have a hard time wanting to go into a porn store
we have sex around 2 times a week
i want it all the time, but we work opposite shifts
any ideas? i'm getting bored with our regular sex.
he doesn't have any drive to please me anymore.
it's just boring nowadays. :(

2007-12-12 10:53:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

been wi guy 6years very possesive left fone in house as i was at my sisters and my partner has finished w me coz he thinks am lying all the time what is his oproblem. im 28 f he is 43 male its crazy

2007-12-12 10:51:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were in a almost perfect marriage and you met your soulmate. Would you leave your spouse? You love your spouse and you have kids with them but this other person you have much more in common with. Would you break up your home for this person and break your kids heart. Or stay and lose your true love

2007-12-12 10:50:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

There not sex dreams or anything of the sort. I'm not crazy or on any Medication, but the dreams I'm having of her are me strangling her and other sorts of cruel things :|, and finding out more stuff she done behind my back while we were together. she cheated on me after we were together for 10 months. I really could careless about her now, but I wake up an feel horrible. I have this dream maybe 1 or 2 times a week. its been going on for roughly 5 months now? what dose it mean?

2007-12-12 10:49:22 · 7 answers · asked by lenvelislegend 1

My fiancee proposed to me when I was a junior in college. I graduated this summer and want to wait untill Nov 2009 to give me time to get settled into my new teaching job and get most of the work done on my masters degree. Is this wrong? We love each other very much and are childhood sweethearts and are very happy being engaged. We plan on having a fun and simple wedding at a local amusment park during their Christmas Lights Fest so its not that we are worried about planning a big wedding. I live with my parents and he lives with his so we can save money for a nice house.

What do you think?

2007-12-12 10:31:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

that waited until they were through with the christmas shopping to dump some one.. or did it the day after christmas just to get their gift.. i know a couple of people like that.. and my bf.. ex did that to him 2 yrs before we met

2007-12-12 10:02:59 · 27 answers · asked by vis 7

He's in California and I live in New Jersery. What can i do to make him stop contacting me? He keeps on sending emails and snail mail. I dont know where he got my address

2007-12-12 09:57:56 · 20 answers · asked by cutierose0210 1

Just wondering how many of you think your wife is really hot in the bedroom (i.e. trying new things, open minded, does things to please you) or not (laying there staring at the ceiling, closed minded, prudish, etc.)

2007-12-12 09:55:18 · 25 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

I have a good relationships with in-laws, and I used to visit them in a different town with my husband. Now that we are separating (still living in a house though, different, rooms) here comes a dilemma - my in-laws invite me to come over for the Christmas dinner, while my husband (legally he still is) does not want me to be there. I am thinking why should I give up on my other family and be alone at Christmas, while I do realise that it's a bit unsettling for the both of us to go see them. What is your advice please?

2007-12-12 09:52:42 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

"they're always yapping about something

2007-12-12 09:52:01 · 26 answers · asked by YOCRAPSMAN 1

It seems like the odds are against me living in this country.

2007-12-12 09:47:03 · 14 answers · asked by airforcewolf16 3

She lost her job about three months ago and wanted to do something different then what she's been doing. So she started working at Chilis resteraunt as a server. I have tried to support what she wanted to do but, she is not half the money she did before. We are getting deeper and deeper in the hole. When I try to talk to her about it she get on the defence. She keeps saying she will start looking for a job but that day never seems to come. I don't know what to do or say anymore. Please help!!

2007-12-12 09:39:46 · 15 answers · asked by shawn g 2

We'll count everything on the wedding night as the "first" time.

The next day (or next night), how different is the sex?
Does it feel more comfortable?
Is it more romantic?
Is it easier to achieve an orgasm?
Does it last longer?
Is it less meaningful?

Just wondering what people think about their SECOND time.

2007-12-12 09:37:25 · 14 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and have 2 kids together. We have been together off and on since I was 12. I love him with all of my heart but the past few months things have been very rocky, he has been having doubts, ive been having doubts, he started thinking he liked someone else and we even seperated for a little while..he did figure out he didnt actually like her it was just emotions going crazy because of the situation, he also came back and we are no longer seperated, but I am still afraid of losing him, now to clear up any of the "change up your looks" thing it isnt that, i still have the same body from before we got married and i wear sexy lingerie for him and all that, we try new positions and different places, but im still worried. Any other ideas of what I could do. My husband and I also dont really keep secrets from eachother and we are very open with eachother.

2007-12-12 09:36:39 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have caught my wife lying to me in the past, and because of this I no longer trust much of what she says unless I can verify it for myself. Lately I have been growing concerned that she is not satisfied with our sex life, and I have a hard time believing her when she says that she is. What can I do to find out?

2007-12-12 09:36:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

when my husband gets angry at me he verbally abuses me and it can get bad. today when he was outside on his way to work he was calling me ***** and worthless infront of our neighbors. he honked the horn for a few minutes to draw attention. he has hit me before and tells me that i provoked it. (i was pregnant at the time) yesterday (see my previous questions) he was disrespectful to me infront of his friends at work and today when i tried to talk to him he told me that he did nothing wrong. we have been together for 6 years and hes been like this for the past 4. it starfted when he stole from my family and lied about it and tore the relationship tht i had with them. i want to leave him but it seems hard to let go and im scared. i think that things will get better but they havent so far. i have no family (they are deceased) and i have 2 small kids
(1 & 3) hardly any money and a job that pays less than $400 a month. I have a friend in TN that would let me go there if I needed to.

2007-12-12 09:33:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jen 3

I heard that when people first get married their relationship usually goes good but than after a while it doesnt feel the same and some problems might arise. Usually how long after they have been married would they begin to experience some turbulance in their relationship? When do they start to go through some disappointments or confrontations?(I know that it's not the same with everyone but if you're going to spend a lifetime with someone some conflicts are bound to happen and some people handle it better than others) Please tell me when this first starts. First year? Before? After?
(I really dont know anything about this stuff which is why I'm asking.)

2007-12-12 09:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

partying, and being a totally social when you want?

Do you think about just in passing and then are happy with your current life? How many of you would trade in what you have for that type of life again?

I'm curious.

2007-12-12 09:25:34 · 22 answers · asked by Sunshine 4

I'm I crazy? Everyone keeps asking WHY? Are you pregnant?? And no, I'm not, I just want to commit my love to the guy I love with all my heart. I don't ever want to be with ANY one else and he feels the same way. We've been living together for almost a year now, things get rough, but we always make our way through it and we do it together. So basically I guess what my question is, has anyone married this young for reasons similar to mine with no baby or pregnancy in the mix and everything worked out awesome for you? (By the way i ask about the no baby part because i find that most people who married only because of the kids would not have married if it were not for the kids...) Ok, thats all. Thanks!

2007-12-12 09:23:49 · 46 answers · asked by Abby 2

I have been married 5 years and I just hate it so much. I love my wife, but I hate being around her. I dont know if its her or just being married. Maybe I hate marrige. How did it get like this?

2007-12-12 09:19:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

just curious to know if the love dies right after the wedding day...

2007-12-12 09:18:21 · 33 answers · asked by AndBabymakes4 3

she doesnt seem happy and says she doesnt feel special. she says she needs time alone to think about things. I love her more that anything in this world and would do anything for her.should i let have time alone she is going to her moms for a little while. How do I show her how special she is to me while she is gone?

2007-12-12 09:17:22 · 21 answers · asked by William M 1

Ok well I dont know much about marriage but I have noticed that when people mention it they often say "well you know how marriages are" even though they truly love their spouse. What type of problems can they be facing? I can think of a few things that would be problems for me but I'm not exactly sure. Can someone please mention all the things you can think of that can be problems? (I dont much about this topic but I want to be informed so please let me know)

2007-12-12 09:17:03 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-12-12 09:06:02 · 31 answers · asked by rosie g 1

I have been dating a wonderful woman for 2 years now. Both she and I have been married once before. However, for 3 years now I have been trying to conclude my community property settlement with my ex-wife through her attorney and mine.

We're not talking about alot of money or assets just my ex and the lawyers not making this a priority.

I know I want to marry my girlfriend of 2 years and she wants to marry as well. However, I don't know if it's fair to her, for me to ask her to marry me, while I'm still trying to settle the community property with my ex. Everything else has been settled.

Should I continue to wait it out and push for the property settlement or should I do what I know she and I both want and ask her to marry me?

2007-12-12 09:02:28 · 14 answers · asked by TB23 1

Is the lack of money in your marriage causeing undo pressure in your marriage.That is To say does your spouse become moody,or depressed because they put more emphasis on the money than they do the marriage and the love that is supposed to be there thru thick and thin?Our bills are paid and we live as well as the next couple but really dont have a lot of extra money to do somethings she likes sometimes.

2007-12-12 08:26:16 · 27 answers · asked by VROD 2

Do u think men get as jealous as women? Do u think they hide the fact that they are, if yes why? Is there anything that would make u unbelievably jealous? Sry awfully bored here and I was just curious, cuz I know I'm the jealous type.

2007-12-12 08:10:25 · 29 answers · asked by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6

My husband says that I always want it my way after things like tellng him to go to Walmart instead of the gas station to buy items or not to throw away things with his SS# . I am only trying to be resourceful and helpful, but he feels that I won't let him make decisions and takes offense. What should I do?

2007-12-12 08:00:25 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-12 07:54:45 · 19 answers · asked by joyce chalk 1