We'll count everything on the wedding night as the "first" time.
The next day (or next night), how different is the sex?
Does it feel more comfortable?
Is it more romantic?
Is it easier to achieve an orgasm?
Does it last longer?
Is it less meaningful?
Just wondering what people think about their SECOND time.
2007-12-12 09:37:25 · 14 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Basically, is it better, worse, or the same?
2007-12-12 09:37:39 · update #1
The heck? I NEVER said this question was about me.
I don't want to be a virgin on my wedding night. Nor do I want my wife to be a virgin. There are few things in life more pathetic.
I was just wondering if those who waited (or abstained for a month) had a different experience the second time.
2007-12-12 09:45:42 · update #2
It just keeps getting better and better I think. Every year we are together the love (sex) is better than it was the year before
2007-12-12 09:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by STLgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not different, unless it's your very very very first time ever. Once you've had sex for a while, today is not that different from yesterday and tomorrow. By the time my husband and I got married, we've had sex more than a few times - with each other as well as with other people in the past. So it really wasn't big news or anything.
2007-12-12 17:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, it does get better. Maybe not by the second time though. Lovemaking is an aquired art. You work at it. Both of you. If you don't like something or you want something then tell him. Let him know that he can talk to you about it as well.
2007-12-12 17:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Poppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well First of all are you making Love or just having sex .
The Lovemaking is different each time and always wonderful and can be more fulfilling even into later years . Love one another with all your being and the lovemaking will stay wonderful
2007-12-12 17:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are too much of a gentleman to get contaminated by the thoughts of these answers. You are on of the few people that have saved themselves for marriage and you are admired. Please do not focus on the nuts and bolts of sex with your spouse. Keep the love real between just the 2 of u.
best wishes
2007-12-12 17:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by heartsarebad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first night is better. And although I am soon to be divorced, in my opinion the sex only gets better the more connected you become to the person you are with.
2007-12-12 17:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by Makingitwork 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Funny you should ask. I remember we were both so tired from the days events, we just went to sleep.
But the next day? Like rabbits!
2007-12-12 17:42:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHAT?
How many people are actually VIRGINS on their wedding night?
Is this a joke question, or what?!
2007-12-12 17:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
What a weird question...are you living in the dark ages or something?
2007-12-12 17:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by m w 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The same for me.
2007-12-12 17:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋