been wi guy 6years very possesive left fone in house as i was at my sisters and my partner has finished w me coz he thinks am lying all the time what is his oproblem. im 28 f he is 43 male its crazy
2007-12-12 10:51:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He can't understand what a beautiful young girl like yourself is doing with a useless old man like him. You know all his good points but however many times you tell him them, he'll never believe you. Because he can't accept his good luck, he's full of paranoia and that's underming the whole relationship.
You'll either have to get him on one of those "lie detector" chat show programs to proove you're telling the truth or get him to a marriage or other counsellor to help him overcome his paranoia or this whole situation will just get worse. Either that or accept him ending the relationship since it frees both of you from his paranoia and will let him get a partner he sees as being at his own level and let you get one who thinks he might just deserve being lucky enough to have you.
Good luck!
2007-12-14 23:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by dakinijones 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is you deserve much more than he can give you and much more than you even realize.
Find your sense of self worth and improve you life.
Good luck.
2007-12-12 18:55:32 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋