that waited until they were through with the christmas shopping to dump some one.. or did it the day after christmas just to get their gift.. i know a couple of people like that.. and my bf.. ex did that to him 2 yrs before we met
2007-12-12 10:02:59 · 27 answers · asked by vis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah many young ppl do that when they get in more mature relationships and more feelings are there, that kind of stuff will stop.
2007-12-13 02:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Samantha1029 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am waiting until after Christmas to tell my Significant Other that it's over for U/us. The presents have nothing to do with it. W/we are just wrong for each other and neither O/one of U/us is truly happy so one of U/us has to end it I just didn't want to do it before Christmas because I don't want to hurt Him. I do still love Him and probably always will. But things just aren't "right" for U/us at this particular point in time. I hope to someday get back together with Him when W/we can work things out. I love Him so very much--and I dread breaking up with Him. Say a prayer or two for us between now and then. Thanks!
2007-12-12 18:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by LadyBug 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My exbf stopped talking to me for 2 wks thru christmas then soon after wanted to get back together I later found out that he did this so he wouldnt have to give me a gift. Hence the ex bf.
2007-12-12 18:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by memyslf&I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard stories you can look at it in one of two ways at least they did not make them suffer and be miserable through the holidays... yes they played a pretense but I think it's much worse to break up with em right before the holiday because it makes the person (dumpee) feel bad and awful... or it could be bad if the person only waited to break up with them to get the gift.
2007-12-12 18:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sisters husband left her and her 3 children 4 days before christmas. He then left the woman that he left my sister for, at Christmas some years later.
2007-12-12 18:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband broke up with me a month after the holidays, but it had nothing to do with gifts, the timing was just bad.
2007-12-12 18:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I've only known people to dump someone BEFORE the holiday/special occasion, so they wouldn't have to buy a gift for them at all.
2007-12-12 18:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by ♥-Due June 7th!-♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that once but i didnt expect the gift and i did give it back iam a chistian so to do that to someone on christmas would be terrible
2007-12-12 18:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... that's why people should save the expensive and unexpected gifts for some other time of the year, and save christmas for a cheaper meaningful gift.
also, doesn't sound like he was being very attentive to how their relationship was going, IMHO.
2007-12-12 18:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of it and had it done to me before and I found it mean because I spent alone on my ex's family and himself over $500.00 then dump's me after I paid everything in the parking lot of Wal*Mart...
2007-12-12 18:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by imtheonenobodylikes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of at least two couples that broke up on Christmas Day. Is that better?
2007-12-12 18:06:38 · answer #11 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋