partying, and being a totally social when you want?
Do you think about just in passing and then are happy with your current life? How many of you would trade in what you have for that type of life again?
I'm curious.
2007-12-12 09:25:34 · 22 answers · asked by Sunshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Haha, I'm not wishing for anything other than what I have. I know I can go out when I want and so can my man. I would never cheat though.
I was just curious what people think/feel when they are in a committed relationship of some sort.
2007-12-12 09:33:26 · update #1
Not me. I love my married life. I'll add however that my single life 5 years ago wasn't too bad either.
2007-12-12 09:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by Poppy 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
In a serious relationship, understanding is a must. Wanting a single life just to party and meet new people is just another form of a "serious" relationship. The new one you have to work a lot harder and sometime you don't know if they can be trusted.
So stay with your current partner might save you a lot of time and energy. I mean, after all, all your close friend are allow to come over and have a party.
Start again won't help, you will just end up with someone else in the same situtation. Then you or someone will ask these same question again.
So it depends on what you want. And you have to work for it. Try dumping or trading in your spouse, come back in a month. See if they will take you back?
2007-12-12 09:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think about being single again all the time! When I was single, I always wanted to be in a serious relationship, now I am in a serious relationship I think about how much fun I had living the single life.... I think it's mostly because now I am pregnant and I can't go out like my partner can.... plus I wasn't quite ready to give up that lifestyle, I had so much fun being carefree with no responsibilities and being selfish! LOL, I know I will love this child far more, I'm just at a stage where I'm so big it's annoying, plus I had to kiss that party girl life goodbye!
2007-12-12 09:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by Betty 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was never a very social person and the thought of being single again is actually a bit daunting. I am thrilled being married and enjoy knowing that I have a lifelong companion whom I can support and depend on at the same time. No regrets here... I wouldn't trade it for anything!
2007-12-12 09:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I wouldn't trade my married life for the single life. I've lived the single life and it's not fun at all. I enjoy the married life and that's just how it's always been. Partying gets old as well as the same ole' people you meet. Marriage life is way more better in my opinion.
2007-12-12 09:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was never a party type, so abandoning the swingin' single lifestyle was no great loss for me. I do remember the time I was single, and I did have fun - but I have fun now that I'm married, too. I don't have any nostalgic feelings about my past, although it's nice to have the memories.
2007-12-12 09:52:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course....just about every time my 1 year old daughter is throwing a fit, dropping her plate of food on the floor, running around and spilling milk all over the place, pulling her diaper off...did I mention her throwing a fit?? ....But when things are calm and she is laughing and smiling....I look at her and think to myself that I would never give up my married life to be single again....I love being married to my husband and being a mother...
2007-12-12 09:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am so happy and wouldn't change it. I can't even imagine being single again. There are so many guys that are just looking for a one night stands and are so into themselves. I am so glad I have a good guy.
2007-12-12 10:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by Hugs from Sugar bug 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Poppy has it right! To value your current "taken" status is great but to sit back and say, you know...the single life was fun too. Then you don't feel like you're missing out on anything.
2007-12-12 09:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by nonameblonde 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally did enough partying in the past and go sick of it . Never think of it. I would never trade my current life as it would be going backwards .
2007-12-12 10:18:53 · answer #10 · answered by ensoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋