He's in California and I live in New Jersery. What can i do to make him stop contacting me? He keeps on sending emails and snail mail. I dont know where he got my address
2007-12-12 09:57:56 · 20 answers · asked by cutierose0210 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Change it. Now was that hard?
2007-12-12 10:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good i do not feel there is much you can do. You stated his child together with her is a teenager correct? So when he is eighteen she must be out of the picture in most cases. I imply i am definite you can need to see her and hear her every as soon as in a whilst however for now you simply need to ignore it. My dad and my step mother had been dealing with her ex and his new wife. They argue back and forth always. They usually at all times unfold lied a bout them. My dad has virtually confronted them once or twice. Have you guys tried this?? I don't mean like combat her, however ask her what her difficulty is. It is something you have got to deal with and this happens rather a lot. Don't let it destroy your marriage. Talk a bout all this with your husband. It should not outcome you you probably have a excellent marriage. Let her be immature and say what she needs. Be the bigger person. Good good fortune together with her I know it's terrible and just frustrating!
2016-08-06 11:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tro is the usual method used to stop this. How long ago was the break up? If not less than 1 year and all he has done is contact you without threatening you, I say wait him out. Do not reply in any form and he will get tired and quit. No one can continue a one way relationship for long. If however any of his actions are threatening take all the corespondence to the police and file the tro.(temporary restraining order)
2007-12-12 10:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by just me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
properly i do no longer think of there is lots you're able to do. You reported his youngster along with her is an adolescent maximum appropriate? So whilst he's eighteen she could desire to be out of the photograph incredibly lots. I advise i'm particular you will could desire to confirm her and pay attention her each and every at times yet for now you basically could desire to forget approximately approximately it. My dad and my step mom have been dealing along with her ex and his new spouse. They argue returned and forth for all time. and that they continuously unfold lied a bout them. My dad has particularly confronted them some instances. have you ever adult males tried this?? i do no longer advise like combat her, yet ask her what her situation is. it somewhat is a few thing you should handle and this happens lots. do no longer enable it wreck your marriage. communicate a bout all this with your husband. It shouldn't result you in case you have a sturdy marriage. enable her be immature and say what she needs. Be the bigger guy or woman. solid good fortune along with her i comprehend it somewhat is undesirable and only no longer consumer-friendly!
2016-11-26 02:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by deparvine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are absoutely sure you want him to stop, you can block his address and nothing will be delivered to your box. I just imagine you are flattered by the attention but if you want him to stop ....just block it. . . The only way he could have possbilby gotten your address if you didn't give it to him, if maybe from a friend of yours or maybe he saw some mail you sent someone else. Its not like there is a directory that has the email addresses in them, or at least I don't know of one. . .
2007-12-12 10:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can really do... Because he is not in you state and he is not posing any threat to you in California... Block his email and send his snail mail ( return to sender) That will make him think you have left were you are staying .... I had a similar problem and that's what I did....
2007-12-12 10:12:38 · answer #6 · answered by diva102288 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be possible to get a restraining order to prevent this. See a domestic attorney or family law attorney. You may need to have an attorney pursue this in California. Try calling the law enforcement agency in California and asking if there is anything that can be done that way.
You can usually consult with an attorney in your state for free or very cheaply if you go through your state bar or state bar association.
Good luck!
2007-12-12 10:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by zoldhuszar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Block his email address/change your email address. Repost any incoming male from him "Return to sender". Don't open the mail from him. Very easy. If he knows your social security number he can find you anywhere.
2007-12-12 13:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your ex sends you email do not open it and just delete it. You can also have your email address changed. If he is sending any other mail then tear it up and throw it away.
2007-12-12 10:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Email: Spam him
Phone: Change your number
Get a restraining order put on him ... then if he finds your new number or makes up a new email address ... take it to the cops
2007-12-12 10:01:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Neil 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Save all your email.s and get a restraining order. They probably won't if he is not threaten your life or others. Other wise you will have to change your email. I have two accounts one for business and one for personal use. good luck
2007-12-12 11:49:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋