just curious to know if the love dies right after the wedding day...
2007-12-12 09:18:21 · 33 answers · asked by AndBabymakes4 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well its nice to know that at least some people wanna drop-kick their hubbies sometimes....=)
2007-12-12 09:31:54 · update #1
Sure there are days when he irritates me to the core... but that is true of anybody. However, I still love him because I know I must irritate him on occasion too... and he is still by my side. Love isn't always about fiery romance. Sometimes it is about learning to love every little thing about each other... bizarre habits and all. He is there for me no matter what and would go to the ends of the earth to do what he can for me...and I would do the same for him. We love each other more each day. Love should never die... it simply morphs and grows as you do.
2007-12-12 09:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i got married a little over 2 months ago.... so far so good. i do get really mad at him sometimes, but i think that i am going to always love him no matter how angry i get. i have been married before, and in my last marriage, i always dreamed about the future, but i never saw myself with him, i would imagine that some great man had come into my life, and took his place. this must have been a forewarning of the fact that he was a loser and i was never really in love with him. i have been with the current hubby for 3 years, and i can definitely tell a difference; i love him as much as i did when we started dating, we are great friends, and i NEVER imagine my future with anyone but him. i think that your sub conscience mind is the key to what is really going on. if you are already thinking thoughts about not being with someone else, or at least not with him, maybe you should think about that as your heart telling you that you are not meant to be together. NEVER EVER SETTLE!!!!!!
2007-12-12 13:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by bugboobunz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually not after the wedding day..lol..wow..I never heard that one before but I am recently divorced and still have love..am in love and will always love my now ex-husband. Alot of good people get together and realize their purpose was for but an appointed time and when you accept that-- then life takes its course and you learn to live it to the fullest according to your experiences and understandings and if you are as lucky as me you have managed to gain a great friend til the end. Good Luck to ya.
2007-12-12 09:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have only been married two months but I am still very much still in love with my husband. I still get excited and semi nervous when I see him sometimes. He can still take my breath away when he kisses me and still gives me that indescribable feeling in my chest when we are together at times. Right now he is away at sea in the navy and we email each other back and fourth every day. Before I met him I did not know what it meant to be truly happy and now that we are together I could not imagine my life any different. I think that if two people are really in love with each other and are soul mates so to speak that the love will never die.
2007-12-12 09:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by Showers 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You betcha I'm in love with my hubby & if it's possible he loves me even more.
Oh we had some rough times but we where climbing that Mountain more than we where getting out of them Valleys.
We have been blessed with almost 55 yrs. of marriage. It could have ended soon after the marriage.
Thank God it didn't.
What in the world would we be missing out on today.
We love our life & doing things for each other. ~~~~~
2007-12-12 09:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I have been married 35 years and we are still chugging! I will say that there are times when you will feel like strangling that man! lol But, the years, memories, hard times/good times, outweigh giving up!
Love changes through the years! It deepens when you both WORK at staying together. Marriage is not easy but, it is easier when you make marriage a "threesome"....with God as the head of the family. There is much wisdom in including God, in your life and realationships!
Personally, I think if a person wants to fall out of love...they can! If a person wants to remain in love....they can! We make choices in our lives concerning these things but, to me, once taking a vow, before God....those vows are sacred and should remain that way! Just my opinion!!
2007-12-12 09:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i have been married for 10 years and we were together for 5 years before we got married just celebrated our anniversary in sept could not believe it it doesn't seem like 10 years he is and has been the love of my life i don't think that will ever change i love him more everyday he is the best. hard worker wonderful husband and most of all a very supportive a loving father of our 2 girls
2007-12-12 10:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am still in love.. I have been married 12 years, and it keeps getting better and better. I think the biggest reason it keeps getting better is because you get to know each other better, and as the time passes you learn how to accept each other for who they really are as a person.
2007-12-12 09:48:28 · answer #8 · answered by ESP123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely I can honestly say that I am way more in love than I was when i got married. On my wedding day I was more in love with the idea of marrying him on our 10th anniversary I am so in love with the man he has grown to be.
2007-12-12 10:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by STLgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people confuse being in love with just loving that person....When you get marry you feel all the jitters like it was the first date or first time together...But, eventally those feelings fade away...It does not mean that your not in love with your spouse it just means the fantasy is over and the reality tends to blend itself in...I love my husband and I know he loves me but, the "being in love" feeling has faded away a long time ago...
2007-12-12 09:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋