would you move to another state to avoid him/her? I heard this question on Divorce Court sorry
2007-12-12 04:32:47 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My ex was the cheater, and he DID move to another state. Whether it was to avoid me or simply because he was a loser and had to move back home with mommy, I'll never know. It makes my ego feel better though to think that he did run away after he got his hand (or penis) caught in the cookie jar (or Cookie).
2007-12-12 04:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, I wouldn't move. I'm not going to uproot my life and my child, leave my family, friends and job just because an a** cheated. Yes, I'd divorce him without a doubt, but moving out of state seems like you're running away from the situation. I'd rather overcome it and heal then runaway. It'll make you stronger! Let his sorry a** run!
2007-12-12 04:59:20 · answer #2 · answered by luvkitties 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes and no only because there may be a lot of feelings in volved in the relationship and if so you may want to think about moving to a new state. But if you have kids involved you may want to think about it. Don't hurt the kids because he or she hurted one another. Think out the sistuation and see what is best for you and if there is kids involved them too. You can live in the same state and avoid your Ex look at me.
2007-12-12 04:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by James M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe the best revenge on a cheating spouse is to divorce them. Delete them out of your life. Hopefully, there are no kids so you never have to talk to them again. Then set out to be your most beautiful and happiest. There is no better revenge than to have him see what he can't have. And under no circumstances ever take him back either. Once a cheater, always a cheater.
2007-12-12 04:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on if you have kids and such, mostly cheating ... being the cheater or being with the cheater is a sign that this isnt the relationship for you, because if you meet the right person you will want to be a better person just like your mate will. i think its all fate, so in the end and in response no i would not that is entirely silly to do , unless you need help to get on your feet from family.... but if your mate cheats then he or she should leave not you.
2007-12-12 04:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i probably would, just because all of my family lives in texas - two states away. my parents want to move back too, so if i didn't have kids and my husband cheated repeatedly (to the point where i couldn't forgive him, not just a one-night stand or something) then i would move to be close to my support system.
2007-12-12 04:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by hh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a local DJ here when she's getting off the air she always says the best revenge is living well. It would be hard but I would make it just to show him that no matter how much he screwed me over I know Im worth more than that. Show him what he lost over a piece of as*.
2007-12-12 04:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
THERE ARE ALL LEVELS OF CHEATING
A FLING THAT WAS OVER WHEN YOU FOUND OUT .
A TRUE ONE NIGHT STAND .
A WHAT YOU COULD CALL A REVENGE F*CK FOR SOMETHING YOU DID .
ETC .ALL OF WHICH CAN BE FORGIVEN ONLY AFTER YOU CAN SEE THEY ARE TRULY SORRY . BY ACTIONS NOT WORDS ALONE .
BUT AND I MEAN BUT IF YOU SEE YOU MATE'S HEART HAS LEFT AND A TOTAL DISREGARD FOR YOU IS SHOWN . DON'T DO ANYTHING TO THEM . DO SOMETHING FOR YOU AND MOVE ON BY ANY MEANS .
PS.. MEN ARE SUCKERS FOR A NICE A$$ AND A SMILE SO GO EASY ON US .....
WOMEN HOLD ON TO WHAT IS CALLED A F*CK FREE CARD AND WILL USE IT IF FORCED . SO BEFORE YOU MOVE MAKE SURE YOU NOT GIVING YOUR MATE AWAY . ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT IS NOT TRUE . HEAVEN WILL BE FULL THOSE WHO WERE FORGIVEN HELL IS WHERE THOSE WHO SHOWED NO FORGIVENESS WILL BE .
2007-12-12 04:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to date my late wife's friends and co-workers . . . And she let me get away with it. Some of those gals she even supervised in the office . . . So they had to be good to her @ work that day and treat her husband well that night . . . But this present wife does not go for any of that kind of stuff. I'm learning . . . Old habits are hard to change . . .
2007-12-12 04:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would move to another state just because all of my family is where I am. But I would definently move to another town if he didn't first.
2007-12-12 04:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋