why does a man go out with his friends and talk about a woman who he was with in a sexual way putting her down like she was no more than trash i was married and had never cheated on my husband . but i meet this man and cheated on him just once my husband found out and divorced me over it . today i found out the man who i ruined my marrage over was talking about me like trash is all men like that .
2007-12-12 18:47:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i had never cheated on my husband before but lisented to his lies and took it hook. line. and sinker. and found out tody he was talking about me like trash to his friends it.s not right
2007-12-12 18:50:40 · update #1
They just wanna show off and brag about what they got. I wouldn't take it personally, I know I don't. My girlfriend and I are the same way, we'll sit around talking about our guys and if it was good or not, come to think of it I believe we're worse then the average man talking about it.
2007-12-12 18:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Before you go flipping out and getting mad at people why don't you learn the facts of life first?
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything.
I don't lie.
2007-12-13 03:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real men don't talk about the woman they sleep with to other men. Much less tell another man about his wife. Although you situation is a bit different. You made the choice to cheat on your husband. The individual you chose knew you were married and didn't care. Sounds like he figures that sooner or later you might just decide to cheat on him. No trust and no respect for you. You were just another piece of @ss. Sounds like you chose a boy over the man that was your husband. Bad thing about wrong choices is that you have to live with them.
2007-12-12 19:06:09 · answer #3 · answered by Gunny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell I would talk about you too if you cheated on your husband and gave up your cookie. I'm a woman and I have messed up on my ex-husband too. Back then I was young and dumb. Now you can't pay me to do that sh!t. A man gone always talk about a woman because she quick to give up her cookie. What man wants a woman who gone give up her cookie like she handing out free money? Men see woman as garden tools who give up the cookie like that. But when they screw women they are studs. It's a double standard. So in turn if you gone give up your cookie wait for a while and then talk about his azz after you are done. Give him a taste of his on medicine. But the smart thing to do is get you a good man and put the handcuffs on his azz and don't let him go. You won't have to be worried about the trash talking then!
2007-12-12 20:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Bree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u cheated with him once and had no relationship of cuz he gonna talk bad about u, u should put it behind u, u got unlucky cuz u couldnt work it out...tats real sad but u still can learn not to make the same mistake and learn to appreciate and never to cheat even once, some people can forgive, some cannot...hope u have a better relationship after this with someone that will last. gd luck
2007-12-12 19:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men talk badly about their intimate partners because they feel inadequate or maybe the girl didn't want to go for round 2 causing him to feel confused. Rather than tell his buddies that he was dumped, he makes it out to be that the girl was not good in that area or that he really didn't want anything more than a one night affair.
2007-12-12 18:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by corinataz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are still little boys that's why. He did you a favor because your husband is no good if he believes trash about his wife
2007-12-13 02:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks its macho talking about the women who is all over him. He doesn't care about you, thats why he talks without thinking who he is hurting, just take it as a lesson charged to experience, and never fall for it again.
2007-12-12 18:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can assure u not all guys are like that,,,,,,me personally will not talk bad about the lady im in love with that unfortunatelly will be gone for me because she deeply thought it was better......but I will never judge her and disrespect her.....women are the most beautifull being of this world because one of them brough me to life......................I love u mom..................and thanx to my pass love for all those moments.
2007-12-12 18:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by angel81 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cheated, got caught, lost a loving husbandm hurting him severely, and yet have hard feelings toward the guy you cheated with? if i were him, i'd think low of you too....
2007-12-12 18:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋