My mum has been married to this man for a couple of years and we have just recently met his children. However me and his son have hit it off and got to know eachother rather intimately. Is it allowed to happen? I When i met him i didn't even know who he was...
2007-12-12 23:58:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no please dont do it. its just safer to end it if you are not that serious. it is too complicated
2007-12-13 00:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by J Lo 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
your not blood related so I don't see a problem I would however talk to your mum and the boys father letting them know exactly what is going on and see how they react to your news, but I would also keep your mind open about this a be aware if you do become and item people who meet you as a family group as half brother sister what ever then meet you as gf and bf then you maybe in for some name calling and or gossip, but personally as I said before your not blood related if anyone has a problem with it I would say it is there problem deal with it.
2007-12-13 08:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong while your parents are together all the way around. Suppose you and this guy all of a sudden hit a horrible bump in the road and things go terribly wrong and you want to part your ways and never have ties again. Well, now your stuck for family functions, etc. Plus it puts a strain on the parents, what about if they pick sides of who's in the right who's in the wrong. You'll want mom to side with you because she's your mom. He'll want dad to side with him because he's his dad. Now there's tension between mom and dad. Not to mention that it's even in the bible that it's wrong. NIV 18:9 "The nakedness of your sister, either your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether born at home or born outside, their nakedness you shall not uncover."
From God's word (link below) Never have sexual intercourse with your stepsister, whether she is your father's daughter or your mother's daughter. It makes no difference whether or not she was born in your house.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-13 08:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by musica1404 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If neither your mum nor your stepdad has legally adopted the other's children, it is basically legal where I come from.
Unfortunately for lovers, love meant for two spills over and entagles with those near them. I would advise you to end it before you are in too deep, because complications in either couple's relationship are bound to affect that of the other.
2007-12-13 08:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by Bigosi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, as long as you're not a blood relation the bible has nothing to do with your decision.
The person who misquoted the bible obviously doesn't understand the situation.
This looks like your step-brother - why is your parents relationship anything to do with your relationship if you are not tied by blood to this person?
Speak to your family too - I'm sure they will say the same. Ignore any bigots who misquote scripture!
2007-12-15 16:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Netgeezer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically there is nothing wrong with the two of you getting together.
Emotionally, there are going to be a lot of problems. You will be dating your step-brother. This is going to create a lot of emotional turmoil in your family.
While you may have started to have feelings for each other, you would both be wise to recognize your current relationship as step-brother and sister and leave it at that.
Take care,
Troy
2007-12-13 08:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is OK but may cause difficulties socially, that's all. You are not genetically related so there is no ban on you procreating - unlike close relatives (where the known problems of inbreeding mean there is a moral and legal ban).
2007-12-13 09:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by CountTheDays 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Helen -- it looks like it should be OK. Obviously your new step-dad won;t be raising you, as you are older that that.
It should be a very interesting wedding if you all decide to get married on the same day
Good luck
2007-12-13 09:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is legal. But think before you get into this situation. If you and this lad fall out he'll still be around all the time cos he's your step brother. And I don't think your family's would be too happy about the situation either.
2007-12-13 08:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's going to odd, but you are not blood related, So to answer you question yes. But remember, it's going to be weird to have a step dad and father-in-law. Hope I helped
2007-12-13 08:04:47 · answer #10 · answered by napolee_nj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally, yes. You are not related by blood so you can do what you want. Just be aware that it will be kinda complicated from the begining.
2007-12-13 09:11:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋